Green tea with green plum is still the first time, this is the milk tea Liu Reuying endorsement of an advertisement, the advertising words green tea is indeed very delicious, but if we encounter green tea in real life, the days after that will certainly not be so good.
For example, the perfect woman Gu Jia in the TV series 30, is not it teased by the green tea forest, a mature woman who has seen the wind and waves, but finally a fledgling yellow haired girl arrived, is this not because this yellow haired girl has a plan to pretend to be pure? Therefore, in the face of green tea in life, we must not take it lightly, but always maintain a state of being like a great enemy. Of course, in the face of green tea, we only have a good mentality, which is still far from enough, on this basis, we are still a situation that is both unfavorable to ourselves and very urgent, we tend to face the problem head-on and try to solve the problem in the shortest time. However, is it really advantageous for us to go straight to the problem and have such high expectations for the speed of solving the problem? In fact, in many cases, such an operation is not only useless but also harmful.
For example, green tea is using this small action to confuse men with ulterior motives, you see in the eyes, anxious in the heart, at this time you will choose how to solve the problem? In real life, many women's practices are to express their chests directly in front of men, expose the conspiracy of green tea, accuse green tea of sinister intentions, and persuade men to turn back early.
But did the end result go as we wished? Of course not, because men usually think that the reason we blame green tea is because we are careful not to see women who are better than ourselves. Even a man will think that we are doubting his loyalty and character. If things go to a later stage, men will even think that we are a vicious woman, because we can't bear to hurt such a simple and kind girl.
Why is this happening? In fact, this is the result of our direct blows. There are two fatal problems in this direct attack method itself, the first problem, which we have already said above, directly confronts the problem, without relying on means and wisdom to solve the problem, we will certainly not take advantage. The second problem is that when we solve problems directly, we often get the target wrong. In the face of the harassment of green tea, our enemy is green tea, so our target should also be green tea.
However, in general, we rarely have the opportunity to face green tea directly, because green tea will deliberately hide under the protection of men, so our actual target will often be men. For example, we would say to a man, don't you see that he is a green tea? Don't you love me anymore, which will be willing to be confused by green tea, and so on. As a result, we can easily stand against men, turning the external war between us and green tea into an internal war between us and men.
How can this result be prevented? Quite simply, we must learn to make a curved blow to green tea. The curve strikes the first step, the opposite of the story. We have already seen through the intrigue and sinister intentions of Green Tea. At the same time, we have already scolded green tea 1,000 times in our hearts, but even so, we still can't say that green tea is bad in front of men. Why is that? This is because, since we have already sensed the crisis, it means that men have been confused by green tea to some extent.
Based on this fact, it is useless for us to scold green tea no matter how harsh it is, so we might as well say the opposite. For example, men feel that green tea is very simple, there is no heart, we follow the man's words, but also on the surface to say that green tea is very simple, we must go to the reverse expression when we express it specifically. How to reverse the expression? Men say that green tea is very simple, so we first tell men one by one about the performance that a simple woman should have.
For example, we can tell men that simple women are very kind, so their popularity is very good, simple women are very bright and upright, will not directly or indirectly say that others are not good behind their backs, simple people are very important to the overall situation, even if they are wronged, they will not say something that may hurt others. After saying these three criteria, we can continue to say to men. You see this little girl, although I have also heard rumors that he has a bad relationship with colleagues and girlfriends, I look at his face and think that he should be quite good, and the problems should be on others.
This sentence is obviously affirming green tea, but in fact? We cleverly stated a stain on green tea and gave men a very reluctant reason to prove that green tea is very simple. Therefore, after hearing this sentence, men will not only not be more convinced of the simplicity of green tea, but also doubt the simplicity of green tea. In addition, we have put the standard that a simple woman will not say bad things about others and will not hurt others. If green tea really attacks us in front of men, men will easily be awakened by these standards and become suspicious of green tea's thoughts.
Curve strikes the second step, kidnapping the man with praise. After you praise a man who is not very hygienic and loves cleanliness, the man will become more and more clean, and this is the power of praise. The principle here is that each of us likes to be praised, so in order to retain some praise for a long time, it is easy for us to compromise and make concessions. In fact, when fighting green tea, we can also use this method.
The specific operation is that we can first put on a clean and self-groomed man's hat through praise. After doing this, we can find a time to say to the man, honey, yesterday my girlfriend said that I saw that you had a close relationship with a female colleague in the company, let me be careful. As soon as I listened, I knew that you had been misunderstood, you were so kind and caring for your family, how could you do something sorry for me? Married life, talk about how the marriage of living together is reversed
However, the people around you don't know you as well as I do, so ah, they will inevitably misunderstand. I'm not afraid of their misunderstanding, that is, I am afraid that your good man image will be destroyed, which is why I care so much. You see, as soon as these words are uttered, the man can feel the crisis, and at the same time, he can feel our love for him. It's really killing two birds with one stone. In fact, in addition to the curve strike method, there are many ways to dissuade the attack on green tea.