Everyone likes to make a wish, but not everyone can change themselves.
It's easy to make a wish, close your eyes, fold your hands, and pray reverently for fulfilling your wish.
However, it is difficult to change yourself, because it requires real effort and perseverance.
Why people need to change, because everyone should do difficult things, because difficult things, things with challenges, are worth doing.
Yishu once said:
"The stage of life is the change of the environment, this time and another time."
Life will change, the environment will change, people will change, what matters is whether you can change in a good direction.
1: Changing yourself is a hope
No matter who it is, the poor, the rich, the adults, the children, etc., they all have their own wishes.
It is precisely because of the desire, so I will always encourage myself to work hard, at least in the direction of the goal I want to achieve.
If people do not have the existence of wishes, in fact, in the final analysis, they can only be a wait-and-see attitude towards life.
I know that I can create something that I want, but because I don't have the courage and motivation to change myself.
Therefore, the desire is very full, the reality is very bone, if there is no even fighting spirit and motivation, then where can the hope be attached.
Only by bravely changing yourself can you bring hope to your life.
If a person has a muddy day, he doesn't want to do it, he doesn't want to do it, he sleeps when he eats, he eats when he wakes up, and he doesn't have any thoughts.
In fact, this kind of person seems to live a very comfortable life, but with the passage of time, once the problems of life come in groups, he will fall into the darkest moments of life.
At this time, because I do not have enough ability and thought, I will naturally let the predicament torment myself, and I will not be happy anywhere I go.
At the beginning, it is clear that you can create unlimited hope in life by changing yourself, but how many people are stunned and do not grasp it, or even not grasp it at all.
Lin Qingxuan once said:
"There are eight or nine things in life that are not satisfactory, and I often think about one or two, and I don't think about eight or nine, and everything is as expected."
Indeed, always think about what you have, what you can change, the things that you can't change, and ignore them as much as possible, at least not be affected by them.
In this way, we can keep our hopes, exercise ourselves, and fulfill our goals.
2: Change yourself and complete your mindset
People with a bad mentality always like to stare at the little pain in front of them and hold on to the pain in their hearts.
Such a mentality is easy to be surrounded by frustration because of a temporary life failure, emotional unhappiness, and even work failure.
This sense of encirclement will gradually swallow up their fighting spirit and ambition, and will also frustrate their self-confidence.
Only when a person's mentality is better can he gradually become stronger.
And only when a person is really strong can his life be better.
So, how can you make your mindset better? How can you develop a good mindset and then create your own wonderful life?
First of all, we will have such a subconscious, when we encounter troubles, or life is not going well, we must reach a reconciliation with ourselves in time.
Because we must be objective and rational, many times things will fail, the reason why they will deviate from what we expect is because the environment is changing, and the things around us are changing.
This kind of thing exists objectively, just like doing a good job today, tomorrow the job will be lost, so can this kind of thing be blamed on yourself?
In fact, no matter how much you regret why you didn't accumulate harder in the first place, why you didn't work harder, it won't help the result.
Because things have happened and things have changed, no matter how much you make up for it, you can't go back to the past.
And it's quite possible that the job will be elsewhere, in the most likely case for any one person.
In a lifetime, there are always some unsatisfactory things, and these things are not things that you can predict, nor can you change if you want to change.
At this time, we can only develop our potential by constantly examining ourselves and tapping out micro-motivations in a timely manner.
Then, through some polishing in reality, as well as taking the initiative to pay and change, the mentality can not fall into a more painful situation.
People with a good mentality will not be grumpy because of the past, nor will they be arrogant because of pain, but will actively and actively do themselves, brew a good mentality, and achieve their goals and dreams.
3: Change yourself and live the moment
Living steadily, living hard, living with low profile and calmness, in fact, this is also a change.
This kind of change can be decided with the long time of their own persistence, if a person can maintain such a habit after developing good habits, then self-discipline will inevitably be able to achieve their own dreams.
In fact, many times people's pain lies in the fact that everything is thinking in a bad direction, and even more and more like to think in a worse direction.
Things are made, no matter how big or small. If a person does not have a good mentality, then he cannot be brave enough to do things.
Feng Zikai said:
"Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to rejoice;
Since there is no Pure Land, it is better to meditate;
Since you didn't get your wish, you might as well be relieved. ”
Life is impossible to go to perfection, but we can't lose the motivation and expectation to change ourselves because of this.
It's like not being able to feel like you're going to be miserable because you're a little bitter.
Life is only once, live the present, cherish the present, and then strive in the direction of the heart, in time, even if you can't fully achieve your goals according to your own wishes.
But at least, in those days of dedication and hard work, in the years of actively changing yourself, sooner or later there will be a feeling in your heart that you are becoming stronger and stronger.
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