The most important thing for people is to know the inadequacies and understand the appropriateness. Especially when interacting with others, if the other party has given you the appropriate signal that you are not interested, it is best to leave quickly at this time, so as to maintain your dignity.
In the relationship between people and people, we can't respond to everyone's efforts, and sometimes even if you do a lot of things that move you, you can't touch each other in the end.
Not everything will be rewarded by perseverance, and love is even more so.
Love has always been unequal and the most unfair. Sometimes you like someone very much, but no matter what you do, you can't get the other person's likes.
We can't blame others or ourselves. The main reason is that the fate has not arrived, and the feelings cannot be forced.
If the other person doesn't love you, the best way is to stop the loss in time.
Some people, even if you pluck out your heart and lungs to be good to her, he will not be grateful. Even the more you give, the more the other person will resent your behavior, and in the end all you get is the other person's disgust.
Adult love often does not show too obvious, but through the usual interaction, through words and deeds to tell you how she feels about you.
So when dating, if a woman has these three performances for you, then it shows that she is not interested in you, and your best way is to stop the loss in time and stop wasting time on the other party.
First, always do not reply to your message, even if the message is very perfunctory, and will not take the initiative to contact you
The most direct way to know if a woman feels for you is to message her and see how she responds to your message.
If a woman has feelings for you, even if she's not an active person, she will occasionally take the time to respond to your messages. Every time she talks to you, she will respond to every word you say and will respond to what you say.
She will read and reply to you one by one with every message you send, and every sentence that she replies to you will not be so perfunctory. It will feel very comfortable in the process of chatting with her, not that you have been trying to find a topic or always feel that she is perfunctory to you.
No matter what kind of personality a woman has, she will never be too perfunctory to the person she likes, even if she is very busy, she will take a little time to chat with you in the process of being busy.
Conversely, if a woman doesn't feel anything for you, either doesn't respond to your message or responds very perfunctorily. Even if you talk to her very seriously, her reply will always be two words, and even a long time later.
Women who don't love you, don't expect her to take the initiative to message you.
Second, I will never respond to your efforts
A good relationship often requires two people to advance together, pay and then respond, so that the relationship can be happy for a long time.
For example, two people know how to share with each other in their daily lives and go in both directions. When receiving a gift, at the same time as giving back to the other party a little carefully, such love is the most beautiful existence.
If only one person in this relationship is trying to play an active role, and the other person is very flat and will not even take the initiative to respond to the other party's efforts, then no matter how hard you try, the other party will not like you.
A woman who really loves you and genuinely wants to be with you will give you the opportunity to respond to every effort you give.
Loving someone doesn't require too many words and deeds, just look for details in life and you will find out whether some people's love for you is worth it.
Third, refusing any invitation from you will not let you know her privacy
For women, rejection is the most obvious answer. If a woman declines your invitation, then it means that she doesn't feel anything for you, and you don't waste any more time on her.
Even if you go out occasionally and you have expressed your heart to her, if you offer her an invitation and she rejects you without even thinking about it, there is certainly no place for you in her heart.
Women who have all kinds of rejections at the beginning, advise you not to waste time on her. If you continue to dwell on it, it will always be you who will be hurt in the end.
On the contrary, if a woman has feelings for you and wants to continue to develop with you, she will give you the right time and will also create certain opportunities for you.
The premise of love is based on privacy, she wants to continue to develop with you, then she will definitely chat with you about some more private topics, and will also open her heart to you and say her heart.
From the beginning of the chat to the subsequent private topic, and then slowly into each other's hearts, this is the best state of emotional development. On the contrary, if a person deliberately distances herself from you and does not give you any chance, it only means that she will not have any ideas about you.
Love needs to go in both directions, and this is true of any feeling, and only when two people work together to get closer in the same direction will you have a story behind you.
If a person rejects you in all kinds at the beginning, deliberately keeping close to you, you must understand that this is not her reticence, but her rejection.
No matter how reserved women are, once they meet someone they like, they will also behave more actively. If someone who doesn't like you, even if you put your heart into her hand, she will be indifferent.
If you love, you have to love someone who also loves you, don't always pestering someone who doesn't love you, that will consume all your love, and in the end you will lose nothing.
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