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Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you
Some people think that spending money for themselves, buying brand bags, wearing big-name clothes, and going to places of interest and historical sites around the world to punch in and wander is the exquisite life that exquisite women should have.
But it's not, really smart women, never chase flashy life.
On the contrary, living indifferently is the most beautiful gesture of a woman. The faint woman is the chrysanthemum of the eastern hedge, and the orchid of the empty valley. Like a cloud in the sky, it comes and goes faintly, and the heart is always unfazed.
True beauty can withstand the years, and with the erosion of the years, it becomes more fragrant and rich, and there is light in the heart, which stems from a rich soul.
Be a light woman, do not argue about everything, and follow the circumstances. Only by maintaining the clarity and purity of the heart can we withstand the long years, the cold and warm of human feelings, and the torrent of temptation. Live gracefully, grow old faintly, quietly and idyllicly.
"Good-looking skin bags are the same, and interesting souls are one of a thousand." There is a kind of woman who does not like makeup and does not pay attention to eating and wearing, but she is better than anyone else. Such a woman can always live a poetic life and live an ordinary life beautifully.
Reading should be a woman's lifelong persistence.
Books are a permanent companion on the path of women's beauty, and reading makes women no longer afraid of age.
A woman who loves to read is a landscape wherever she goes. Maybe she doesn't wear makeup or pay attention to eating and wearing, but her charm is revealed from the inside out from the bone.
Women who read have their own hearts, independent temperament and charm. The elegance of a woman who loves to read is more advanced than beauty.
Attractive women are full of bookish atmosphere, there is a taste that penetrates into the casualness of life, and the conversation is elegant; the crowd is detached and independent; there is a kind of beauty that is embellished without marks, as soft as water. As Lin Qingxuan said, reading is the makeup of life.
Lin Yutang said that people who read books and those who don't read books are far from good looks. If you don't believe you look at Yang Chen, you will definitely see the soft face brought about by the accumulation of time and the overflow of smiles. If you don't believe you look at Dong Qing, the posture of reading with a low brow is like the tranquility of an angel.
Insist on independence, the soul has light.
Attaching one's life to others is always unreliable.
True beauty comes from the self-confidence of the soul, and the economic foundation determines the superstructure, and without independent economic support, no matter what kind of beauty is less confident.
Those women who are really good for life never expect anyone. Women must be financially independent. When you have the ability to make enough money to sustain yourself and make yourself a good one.
Maybe you are not short of money, but a job brings you not only money, but also an independent personality. Independent women tend to be the most attractive. They may not wear much makeup, buy big bags and clothes, but they are brave, hard-working, and know how to live every day seriously.
For the rest of your life, learn to be a faint woman.
No matter how beautiful the face is, it cannot withstand the erosion of the years.
When a woman's face is gone, should we consider having an interesting soul. Therefore, women should not only blindly fight the outside, but also pay attention to their own inside.
Let us be a lovely, charming, temperamental, confident, elegant woman, not close to fame and fortune in the long years, do not believe in exaggeration, do not be insulted, calm and calm. Life in the world can not be perfect, to learn self-confidence, know how to appreciate themselves, firm faith, no regrets.
Life is a practice, and we must do every step of the process well. To be a light woman, you must learn to take care of yourself, leisure time, occasional small tours, tea and reading, and enjoy life.
As a woman, you may not be beautiful, but you must live beautifully. It is better to be lonely than to go against your heart, and it is better to regret than to settle down. Be a faint woman, learn to be alone, not to please, not to greet.
Don't compare with anyone, you have your happiness, I have my happiness. With an incomparable heart, go your own way and live the simplest life.