The poet Kitajima wrote in "Daydreams": "You did not return as scheduled, and this is the meaning of parting." ”
He did not come as promised, you choose to let go, the feelings of the two people came to the end, and some words did not need to be said again.
Not every relationship will go as you wish, and everyone will continue to grow through the experience.
There are too few love from one end to the other, and you don't know which tomorrow or accident will come first.
If the other person is already ready, you don't have to continue to pester.
The two broke up and there was no need for contact from then on.
Don't bring up the past again, don't take the pain on yourself, you should start over, you still have to face a new life.
This side is the last side, this sentence is the last sentence, a serious blessing, from now on each of them will go.
The two people no longer have a relationship, and the two people drift apart like strangers.
The other party will no longer have any intersection with you, and you don't have to bother deliberately.
Two people are like two parallel lines that are unrelated to each other, which can only be extended continuously and can never be seen again.
After a breakup, don't contact, don't bother, don't think again.
Not connecting is a form of respect, not disturbing is a form of high emotional intelligence
The writer Jia Pingwa said: "Whether it is a general, a thief, a philosopher, or a prostitute, they are all experiencing life in their own way of survival. ”
Everyone's pursuit is different, and people who aspire to be far away cannot always be in the same place.
He has set goals for the future, and you must also understand the principle of respect.
Everyone is experiencing life in a unique way, and you have to soothe your emotions.
Stop loss in time so that you will not continue to make mistakes, and stay away as soon as possible so that you will not fall deeper and deeper.
When you cut off from the root, you can stop the flow of feelings.
Even if you break up, you must be decent, don't be too stiff, don't make too embarrassing, even if you can't be a friend, you must solve it in a peaceful way in time.
Hesitation can only cause pain on two sides, and hysteria will only make two people suffer.
Blind attachment is not as good as letting go rationally, and letting go of others is also letting go of oneself.
Give an account to the past, give the future a consummation, give the other party an explanation, give yourself an answer.
This goodbye will be a farewell for the two of them, and they will never see each other again after this breakup.
You have your great future, he has his splendid life, you can't affect the rhythm of his life, and he won't interfere with the rest of your life.
Two people have already tasted the sweetness of love, and there is no need to continue to miss it after breaking up.
Bravely facing the turmoil and displacement of feelings, indecisiveness is meaningless
I like a sentence in the movie "The Cat's Retribution": "People are going to grow up, one day you will also push a stroller to walk happily on the street, and the once like, no matter what it used to be, will turn into the wind and disappear into the tunnel of time." So go forward, go forward, don't look back. ”
If you haven't packed up yet, don't start a new relationship easily.
You can enjoy your journey alone, and you will definitely harvest a new life.
Say goodbye to the past in time to embrace the future as soon as possible.
The past is long gone, so don't worry about it.
If you always talk about past experiences, it only means that your vision is too narrow.
What you do not only affect the normal life of the other party, but also plunge yourself into endless pain.
The two people have broken up, and there is no longer any emotional connection between the two people.
You are always shackled to yourself, and you can never get out.
The sentimental person takes the feelings too seriously, and it is difficult for him to get real improvement.
In the face of helpless things, you simply can't think of a solution.
Don't dwell on the bits and pieces of the past, everyone should be brave enough to look forward.
Life will go on, the sun will still rise as usual, the earth will still turn around, everyone is living their lives step by step, and you have to get used to the ordinary years.
You have made up your mind to persevere to the end without hesitation; you have clearly defined the direction of your heart, and you must do your best to move forward.
Make a decision as soon as possible, so as not to live up to the good spring light.
Let go of unnecessary distractions and simply forget the past
In the movie "Witch House Rush", there is such a sentence: "From one city to another, only rely on your own efforts." After learning to grow up, learning to bear, and learning to cry, you can also smile and hug your parents. ”
In fact, you will soon be able to adapt to a person's life, and you will not be afraid of the difficulties and obstacles of the future.
Be a brave person, you will be able to take a calm and unhurried attitude step by step.
Calm your mind will not think wildly, and you can make rational judgments by being calm and calm.
Everyone comes into this world empty-handed, and everyone leaves with nothing. Even if the whole world is against you, you will have to break through the shackles by yourself.
Feelings are a private matter, you don't need to make a big fuss, just let this past stay in the past forever, just let this feeling disperse with the wind.
The first step is the beginning of success, you have done a good job, and then continue to maintain, do not let anyone grab your handle, do not let anyone hurt you.
It is impossible to talk about feelings in a lifetime, and everyone will experience countless upheavals and displacements.
Unable to gain a sense of security in love, I took a different path from my career.
There is always a path that suits you, there is always a life partner who fights alongside you, you don't have to worry, everything is fixed.
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Everyone's personality is different, and the love that everyone pursues is also different.
You have no right to interfere in each other's lives, you can only accept the ever-changing world.
There is no obstacle in life that cannot be overcome, and everyone should try to look forward.
In Southern Weekend, there is a saying: "No winter is insurmountable, and there is no spring that does not come." ”
Winter has arrived, spring is not too far away, every day is full of excitement, you should take it seriously.
Keep moving forward, still be able to embrace a new life, continue to love, and definitely meet the person who is more suitable for you.
Two people who have loved once will not leave endless regrets; two people have met, it is not a complete mistake.
After the breakup, don't worry about it, the right or wrong in the relationship is no longer important.
Now that you've recovered well, you must continue to love as much as ever.
Accumulating a wealth of experience in the previous relationship can avoid a second repetition of the same mistake.
When you learn the ability to manage feelings, you can navigate the future life.
Take the steering wheel of life into your own hands, and soon you will be able to reach the other side of happiness.