These days, the matter of finding a first love after someone's divorce is boiling over. It is said that the other party has been keeping the person's phone number, and after hearing the news of the divorce, the old love began to rekindle. In fact, in the relationship, some constellations are very "nostalgic", and they will not get out of the shadow of lost love for a long time, and they will not forget each other, and even break the connection.
Once such a situation occurs, the incumbent will be very aggrieved, obviously he is paying, but the other party is thinking of others. These signs who can't forget their ex often keep a call window with their ex behind their backs, not necessarily in constant contact, but they can find each other.
virgo
Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, and this phrase works equally well in chasing an ex. The person you like breaks up for more than a year before you find out that others must have started earlier than you. Virgos do this very well, and keen and determined Virgos usually do things with purpose, and are very predictable, and they can make good use of meaningless things in the eyes of outsiders.
In the relationship, Virgo is actually quite good for the current, a more dedicated zodiac sign, but nostalgia and control make it difficult for them to "let go" of the former, a familiar stranger. So usually maintain a more delicate relationship with the ex. For example, leave a way to understand the other person's living conditions, and Virgo can judge the situation and take the initiative when there are some changes in the situation.
And most Virgos don't completely disconnect from their exs after they're separated, and they can always maintain a connection between two people for some very legitimate reason. Sometimes it's not that they have to do something, it's just that they want to be able to continue to control the person. But that often hurts the incumbent.
Virgo incumbents are often impressed by their seriousness and single-mindedness, but they do not know that they will be very attached to others while being single-minded about themselves. And once there is an unpleasant situation with the current, it is easy for Virgos to complain about the former. Inadvertently, the incumbent has become the object of ridicule and spit by others. And after breaking up with the current, the possibility of Virgo and ex reuniting is very high, you can think of it as a transition, or it may be that someone needs to warm up during the empty window period.
Gemini
Geminis after a breakup usually don't settle for a loser, and their obsession with their ex comes from the frustration that the breakup brings to them. So even if they have a new partner after a breakup, they don't forget their ex, so they often maintain a certain connection with their ex, which can satisfy Gemini vanity and make them feel like they haven't been abandoned.
In fact, many Geminis feel that two people can't be lovers, they can also be friends, and many of Gemini's other half are also developed by friends, so Gemini is more vague on the issue of the ex. It's not ambiguous, it's also stealing, it's just that their blue and red faces are a lot.
And after the breakup, Gemini will still be very good to each other, frequently offering hospitality, and sometimes even better than the current. This feeling may really make the incumbent unbearable, especially the kind of ex who has been friends for a long time to develop into objects, and the current is to determine the relationship after a short period of acquaintance. At this time, most Geminis will be very good to both the former and the current, and it is not necessary whether the incumbent is jealous or not.
But then again, gemini circles are still relatively clean, don't look at them cheerful, but there are only a few people who really come closer. So many Geminis would rather maintain a friendship than develop into a couple. After all, the cost of making friends will be very high, and it is not difficult to find a good other side with gemini charm.
Scorpio
Being a Scorpio incumbent is a very risky thing because you have to have a higher level of insight and analytical ability than they do, otherwise you don't know what they do. Especially in the aspect of the ex, with the charm of Scorpio, there is no other half. Of course, there is no shortage of exs waiting for love.
In fact, most Scorpios are very cautious about love, but they don't mind having one or two more ambiguous objects. Because they will feel that they have a lot of options. And the ex will often become a choice for Scorpio, but this choice will not be very advanced. Because after all, after suffering losses, Scorpio will be more cautious.
Scorpios and exs basically maintain some kind of connection as long as there is no deep hatred, which is usually a more hidden way and often spits on the incumbent. Scorpio's personality is the kind of soft and fierce, seemingly friendly, but can do a rational analysis of everything, it is not difficult for them to break away, sometimes it is a matter of moments.
epilogue
In fact, not everyone can't pass this hurdle of the predecessor. Some people don't mind the time this person knows you. Imagine someone who knows you better than himself, and it's hard not to feel like you're suspicious of anything between you. Some people say that all exs should "die", and I think what I am saying here is not a vicious curse, but the meaning of not coming back.
While talking sweetly with the current, and breaking the connection with the ex, such a person really does not deserve to have love. You can dislike, you can not love, but you do not trample on the love and giving of others. You can leave, you can leave proudly, but don't hurt and leave.