Some time ago, Huang Lei's eldest daughter Duoduo was on Weibo's hot search because of a group photo, which caused many netizens to discuss hotly.
The many things in the photo are very beautiful, giving people a feeling of quiet years.
So much so that someone wrote in the comments:
"The faded childish Duoduo is more like Sun Li, and the temperament has also been improved, giving people a beautiful posture of 'the Huang family has a female first growth'."
Yeah, 14-year-old Toto can be said to have watched her grow up.
However, many people's comments seem to have gone astray, and even rose to the level of personal attacks:
"Didn't like much, thought she was very dressed"
"So young and so precocious, without a child".
"How can a child talk about temperament, not because the family has money and packaging well..."
Duoduo was almost scolded when he grew up, and in the past, he was scolded many times for dyeing his hair and piercing his ears.
But those who know a lot know that she is not at all like the rebellious and unruly little sister in the "stereotype" of some parents.
On the contrary, under the influence and education of her parents, she is not only good at character and learning, but also versatile.
Not long ago, she won five international first prizes for piano competitions and once again rushed to the hot search.
Seeing the 14-year-old Duoduo in front of the piano, playing like a flowing stream, the temperament is elegant and unworldly.
The scolding dissipated, leaving only endless exclamations.
On the one hand, I marveled at the success of Huang Lei's husband and wife's child-rearing, and on the other hand, I lamented that there was an excellent kind of child of other people's families.
The same is the baby of the parents, why are some children excellent, and some children are worried about everything?
Some people say that the conditions are different, and those who live in rental houses are not comparable to those who live in villas;
Some people say that the talent is different, and some children are born smart and love to learn;
Some people say that the school is different, and the children taught in key schools will certainly not be bad...
But I would like to say that what really distances children is the parents' way of education.
The recent explosion of Harvard female Doctor Zhan Qingyun is a good example.
She grew up in a mountain village in Guizhou, from primary school to junior high school, changed five or six schools are at the bottom, the teacher taunted that "even high school can not pass the exam, send it to the technical school as soon as possible."
But later, she was admitted to the top 10 universities in Hong Kong Chinese in Asia, and then cross-professionally admitted to Harvard University, became a doctor of law, and now became a law firm female boss, and also became popular in variety shows because of her "sexy brain", successfully achieving a class leap.
On family conditions, talents, and schools, Qingyun took a bad hand, and the education of her parents taught her to play Wang Fried:
When everyone thought that their daughter was "not OK", her mother told her: I have found someone to calculate, you will get better in junior high school, and Qingyun will become more confident.
When everyone felt that Qingyun played games and read martial arts novels all day long and should be strictly disciplined, her father played with her to cultivate his self-discipline and trust in his parents.
Good education is not a cramming force and persecution, but a silent and silent guidance.
Huang Lei's daughter Duoduo, because of her dyed hair color, was scolded by netizens for not doing business, what is the difference between her and the little on the side of the road.
Ordinary parents encounter their children's rebellious hair coloring, either scolding, or forced to cut it, or do not know how to do it.
But Huang Lei never imposed her own ideas, did not restrict her freedom to love beauty, because he knew that parents' education of their children was inspiration, not arrangement.
Under this kind of education, Duoduo did not rebel, but took the initiative to dye his black hair and work harder.
She can write English scripts at the age of 8;
At the age of 10, he dubbed English animation films such as "The Little Prince", "Dream Giant", "Ice Age 2", and communicated with the big director Spielberg on the same stage in English;
11 years old, boarded the international catwalk;
Translated novels at the age of 13;
At the age of 14, he won the first prize in 5 musical instrument categories, and he jiong participated in the drama "The Book of Water" directed by Lai Shengchuan.
The right way of education is the most valuable asset of a child's life.
It is easier said than done, and many parents cannot escape the three major pits when raising their children:
The first pit: too much to teach children - scolding and shouting punishment, children can not bear psychologically, more and more inferiority, tired of school;
The second pit: too much to go with the flow - thinking that the child will naturally be older, and the result is that the delay in the opportunity is regretted;
The third pit: one will be severe and one will be relaxed - the grasp is not good, the child can not understand your intentions.
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