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For the rest of your life, with interesting people
Author | Soft Heart · Anchor | Lily
Good-looking skin bags are the same, interesting souls are one of the best.
In this life, in a hurry of thirty thousand days, we must choose to be with positive and interesting people. Even if it is a friend, or a work together, or a simple interaction in daily life, there must be a certain degree of selectivity.
If people are bored, they will become rough and numb, no longer cute. Frustrated people always bring their own clouds, and if you stay with them for a long time, it seems that your world will also rain.
Life is not easy, but all kinds of difficulties are either solved by complaining and hanging on to them.
Those who are boring, can not see the beauty and pleasure of life, all day long there is only resentment, such a negative person, there will inevitably be no happiness.
And those interesting people are like a ray of sunshine shining into life, driving away the dark clouds and rain. Every time you get along with interesting people, your mood will naturally become clearer.
Jia Pingwo once said: "People can be ignorant, but they must not be boring." "People without a sense of humor will be like a statue, making themselves nervous all day, serious, and easy to glass."
The more humorous person, he also lives a life of fireworks, experiencing sweet and sour, bitter and spicy, but his face has never been covered with clouds, and every day is full of vitality and enthusiasm.
Some people say that humor is not just a mood, but a way of seeing the world. "Fun is not only the dexterity of language and the agility of reaction, but also the deep soul, love of life, optimistic and open-minded attitude towards life.
With interesting people, together, you will unconsciously forget your troubles; even if you are depressed and difficult, you will feel that it is not a big deal. Many times, the reason why we feel worried is not how big the matter itself is, but that we think too much in our hearts.
In life, apart from life and death, nothing can be done. Those things that used to be thought to be difficult, you look back now, and they don't become the same thing in the past.
It's like taking a child to get an injection, and before the needle is pierced, it's like crying. In fact, is that needle that hurts so much? No, it is the child who magnifies the pain, it is a kind of fear that scares himself, which will lead to such a nervous emotion.
Life is the same, nothing is impossible. It's just that some people complain about it, and before they know it, they first expand the shadow on their own psychology and increase the burden. In fact, many things are not so difficult to do.
Interesting people, born optimistic, even if it is really a little difficult, in that optimistic and positive heart, it is not a problem. In such a life, there will inevitably be more sunshine and more joy.
So, for the rest of your life, with interesting people. You will feel that the ordinary world is so vivid. There is nothing unsatisfactory, but there is a lack of fun and hope.
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Anchor: Lily, the actor, works "The Farm Is Like Gold", "Don't Wait for Me at the Wedding", "Anne of Green Gables", "The Wind of the Willow Forest", "Hanjingcheng", etc.
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