Request companionship
The original you, single-mindedly supporting his work, silently endured the pain of lovesickness. He came and you rejoiced. After he left, you were alone and sad. You know, he still has to do big things, you, can't bother him. As everyone knows, it is precisely because you are so sensible that he ignores your feelings. He was later captured by another girl, because that girl was a stalking goblin. So, girl, the companionship we need, we can't give up.
Ask for pampering
You are not born to be spoiled, and in front of him, you are like a big sister. And he, on the other hand, rightfully enjoys your doting and only does the reach party. In fact, he is a year older than you. You beat soy milk, boil chicken soup, steam dumplings, iron clothes for him. And him? Sometimes I don't even bother to say thank you. You give wholeheartedly, and he quietly has a sweet little sister. You find out that he would secretly buy chocolates for the girl. But your birthday, he forgot. You ended up breaking up, and you were depressed. When you meet the next guy, you have to change the way you get along. Dare to ask him for favors, and be a spoiled girl.
Ask for attention
Your well-behaved, well-rounded approach makes your ex ignore your needs. You always think about him, and he no longer pays attention to your warmth and coldness. When you love again, you may as well create a little "trouble" every three to five years, let him pinch his heart, and pat his head. Because solving problems for women is sometimes a pleasure for men. Let his eyes always pay attention to you, and there will be no distraction.
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Ask for money
This sounds too cheesy, now girls, which can not support themselves independently? Yeah, women have to be self-respecting and self-loving! In fact, many women fall into the misunderstanding, that is, resolutely do not spend men's money. You think that's tough enough to do that, right? Actually, you're wrong. Spending a man's money is actually a kind of trust and dependence on him. Only when men spend money for women will they feel that women truly belong to themselves. Your independence has just erected a barrier between you, and it is no wonder that other girls have taken advantage of the void.
Request a gift
On any commemorative day, you have to boldly ask him, "Honey, what gift have you prepared for me?" "After a long time, he will always think of you in his heart." In love, don't ignore the sense of ceremony. It is that procedure, like the red silk rope of the old moon, that binds you together firmly. Remember, don't create opportunities for other women, hold on to him firmly.
Ask for romance
Every woman longs for romance in love, but Chinese men lack romance the most. Do they really not understand? wrong! It is that most Chinese women are too virtuous and think of each other at every turn. In fact, small romances in life are everywhere. Walking under the moon and whispering is a kind of romance; on the night of Tanabata, it is even more romantic to go to a red wine feast with roses. Without romance, love is discounted. So, if you love anymore, be sure to ask the man for romance.
Message: Love is a practice. Everyone who loves and is loved should have a thorough understanding of the Zen machine. Girls, love a man, is not blindly giving. It is not enough to be a virtuous and virtuous woman. What should be asked for cannot be sloppy at all.