Imitating the Heavenly King Tai Zhiyuan to raise a scholar Tai Jing, "Son, do you want a loan to study?"

In April this year, the university recommended the screening of individual applications to release the list, and tai jing, the son of artist Tai Zhiyuan, was admitted to the department of electrical engineering, the department of physics of National Taiwan University, the department of medicine of Beijing Medical Science and the department of medicine of Yangming University at the same time, and was named "Xueba" by the media; Tai Zhiyuan and Tai Jing's father and son were invited to the same stage to talk about how to teach Xueba children and the reading style of Xueba.

In the face of the envious eyes of the outside world, Tai Zhiyuan said bluntly: "It doesn't matter whether he learns to be a bully or not, if he doesn't do well in the exam, I will only say study hard (study hard), if I still can't read well, I will say: What do you like to do?" Let's do it together."

"I just want him to be healthy and happy, polite, responsible, down-to-earth, and clear about his life goals." Tai Zhiyuan's way of parenting his son seems to be a little untouchable, but it can be seen from the interaction between their father and son that Tai Zhiyuan, under the principle of protecting and respecting his son's wishes, let Tai Jing develop along with the sexual direction.

On the day of the interview, at first Tai Zhiyuan politely refused to interview Tai Jing, and after arriving at the scene, Tai Zhiyuan first asked Tai Jing if he was willing to sit down and talk together.

Tai Zhiyuan's two major parenting principles are polite and responsible for his own behavior

Tai Zhiyuan stressed that giving children full freedom and letting him do what he wants to do is the most important premise for him to raise Tai Jing. "At home we all do our own thing and don't bother each other." Tai Zhiyuan said.

Tai Zhiyuan never forced Tai Jing to accompany him to do something, but he did not ignore him at all, occasionally asking Tai Jing: "Do you need me to accompany you?" But most of the time, Tai Zhiyuan will get his son's refusal.

Adaptive development is the highest guiding principle of Tai Zhiyuan's parent-child education, but there are two things that Tai Zhiyuan has not compromised on the bottom line: the first is politeness, and the second is to be responsible for his own behavior.

Tai Zhiyuan mentioned that he had beaten Tai Jing twice, both because he was rude to his grandfather, but Tai Zhiyuan's move attracted his father's rebuke. Tai Zhiyuan's late father once told him that children must be patient to teach, and hitting children only shows that parents are impatient, and it is to meet the needs of parents themselves.

Afterwards, Tai Zhiyuan seriously apologized to Tai Jing, saying that he should not have beaten him. The father apologizes to his son, how does the son react? "He tapped me on the shoulder and told me, 'It's all over, don't care too much.'" Tai Zhiyuan said with a smile.

From the age of 3 or 4, Tai Zhiyuan constantly reminded Tai Jing to be responsible for his actions. The topic of being responsible for himself recently pointed to whether Tai Jing should take out a loan to study at university.

Tai Zhiyuan once seriously asked him, do you want to get a loan to study? How does it feel to be in debt as soon as you graduate? If Tai Jing graduated from university in the future and wanted to continue his studies abroad, Tai Zhiyuan also wanted him to rely on scholarships and rely on his own efforts to raise tuition fees.

During the interview, Tai Zhiyuan also mentioned to his son whether to do a loan to study, and also thought that Tai Jing had agreed, at this time Tai Jing was different from his father, indicating that he was still considering, father and son, you say a word to me, it is not hilarious.

The full text is not finished, the full content can be found in the August 2017 issue of Money No. 119