"Remarrying, inheriting a huge inheritance, being abused by the family, pursuing high society"
However, these words are used to describe Xu Chunmei as relatively conservative.
"Cheating, spending money to buy a husband" and so on, for Xu Chunmei, everyone will definitely feel very strange when they hear the name,
But as soon as you type in keywords from the Internet, a series of explosive news about her are all over the place.
The content is very thunderous.
On a dark and windy night in a month of 1976, 19-year-old Xu Chunmei was given a "hard bow by a rich man".
After that, he married into the rich.
One of Xu Chunmei's famous words:
"To step into high society, the first is to have money, no money love is not worthy of it"
I have to say that this famous quote is really arrogant!
She is not a star in the entertainment industry, but the popularity and topic can be compared with the A-list stars.
Born in poverty, experienced many marriages, married to rich people and repeatedly suffered domestic violence,
What is the secret behind the inheritance of a huge inheritance? Today we will take a deep dive.
1.
Xu Chunmei was born in a very poor family since she was a child, and there are 5 brothers and sisters in the family alone.
Whether you can eat enough all day is also a problem.
But my father's job was to take pictures of tourists at the local zoo.
A large family can barely get enough to feed on their father's income alone.
When Xu Chunmei was in school, she was often laughed at and looked down upon by her classmates.
She has not worn flower skirts and beautiful clothes since she was a child, and her face looks very haggard because of malnutrition.
Whenever she passed by the café after school, she would look at the door for a long time and think:
"When will I be able to live for afternoon tea?"
Since she was a child, she has longed for the life of a rich man.
By chance, she went to the zoo to find her father, and saw him kneeling to intercede with customers.
The reason is that my father took a very natural set of tourist photos without the knowledge of others.
However, instead of being sympathetic, these foreigners made a gesture to beat his father and threaten him.
The father is the dependent of a family of 7, and this job is the only source of income for the family, he can not lose, can only lose his dignity.
So the father knelt down and begged for forgiveness, and this picture was just seen by the young Xu Chunmei who came to the zoo to find his father.
This image will never be forgotten.
This made Xu Chunmei instantly have the determination to become a rich man.
"No matter what, I must become a rich man"
It is not enough to support a large family by relying on the father, in order to be able to help the father share the pressure,
As the eldest of the children, she works while studying.
After working as a waiter, he has also entered the factory, and his small body has great strength.
Once, when I was working in a factory, my fingers were almost crushed by the machine.
This frightened the factory owner and quickly dismissed her.
Children of poor families like this are very mature in mind,
She gave every time she earned money to her family, leaving only a little for herself each time.
Anyone who is very eager for good food when he is a child, Xu Chunmei, who has been working odd jobs for five days, took the money to buy a bowl of noodles that he wanted to eat for a long time.
She asked her boss to add more soup to her, but in exchange for the boss's blank eyes and sarcasm:
"Still want to order soup?" Why don't you drink what's left in someone else's bowl? ”
When she saw her classmates eating bread at school, she was also hungry, so she went over and asked her classmates to borrow money and wanted to buy it.
Classmates pushed her hard and said:
"Stay and go, don't let us get polluted with poverty and obscurity."
Xu Chunmei, who suffered all this unfair treatment, suffered a great blow in her heart.
The insult she receives when she has no money makes her think of money as her only salvation.
I must be a rich man, only money can give me a sense of security, only money can change everything,
Yet this desire laid the foundation for her values of measuring everything.
2.
Life was hard, but he was very competitive, and he was ranked first in every exam.
Later, I was admitted to college only because I could not pay the tuition fee and went to a vocational college.
As she approached graduation, she didn't know that an incident had completely changed her destiny.
In 1976, Xu Chunmei had graduated, and after years of polishing, she had already fallen out of the pavilion, and the beauty should be added to the mature flavor.
However, her beauty was coveted.
This person is Li Wenqing, a very famous local rich man, and his home is a very palatial mansion.
Xu Chunmei, who was 19 years old at the time, met Li Wenqing, and Li Wenqing invited her to play in the mansion.
Li Wenqi: "Pure beauty, tonight I want to invite you to my house to play, are you interested?" ”
For Xu Chunmei, who is accustomed to living a poor life, this is what she never thought of one day a rich man can invite herself to his home.
Out of the yearning for the life of a rich man, Xu Chunmei did not hesitate to agree: "Good, good! ”
However, at that time, she had no idea that such an opportunity, which she thought was difficult to get, was the beginning of her nightmare.
Taking advantage of the hazy night, she locked the door when she led Xu Chunmei to visit the room.
"Li Wenqing could not bear the fire in his heart, and driven by desire, he directly overlorded the hard bow."
Xu Chunmei was frightened at that time, she did not dare to say anything, if this matter was passed out, she would not be able to be a person.
And Li Wenqing is a local rich man, and his family is rich and powerful, which is the offense of a small common man like Xu Chunmei.
She looked at her "the man on the upper body" and had to bear all this silently.
She didn't dare to open her eyes, at this moment she could only act as if nothing had happened, hoping that after a long time, she would slowly forget about it.
However, the sky is not satisfactory, after a period of time, Xu Chunmei found that her physiological period was not right,
After going to the hospital for a check-up, I found out I was pregnant.
At that time, unmarried and pregnant, and she was the bow by the overlord.
If such a thing spreads out, she will directly have no face to live.
After struggling with her heart, she found Li Wenqing and said: I am pregnant
However, Li Wenqing's answer was a bit unexpected, Li Wenqing: Let's get married
Such a rich man can actually look at a poor woman like me, which makes Xu Chunmei's heart a little surprised.
After Xu Chunmei told her parents about this matter, her parents heard that they were famous local rich people and directly clapped their hands and applauded.
Say anything to marry your daughter.
So when Xu Chunmei was 19 years old, she got married with a slightly bulging belly.
Although marrying into a rich family, it seems to outsiders that this is a day of unlimited scenery, but the suffering in this is only known to Xu Chunmei herself.
Because he was born poor, he was of course looked down upon in a rich family.
As long as there is a little bit that is not satisfactory to them, they have to accept a lot of insults and reproach.
The so-called rich and generous wife, the family status is not even as good as the nanny.
Pregnant, she was often "beaten" by people who slept with her.
Even if she endured these physical and mental pains, Li Wenqing's family was "a dime a dozen" in terms of economy.
Pregnant, she only had 300 yuan a month of "nutrition fees"
"Xu Chunmei, you go and settle the workers' wages."
"But..."
"Didn't you ever give you money?" What else do you want? ”
Not only that, but her so-called "nutrition fee" is also responsible for the family's three meals and the food of more than a dozen workers.
There is very little money left for herself, which makes her originally insecure even more afraid.
She felt that she was just a low-status tool in the family, and she thought of many ways to leave after being depressed all the time.
But the thought of returning to her original life after leaving overwhelmed her.
Moreover, her parents also said to her: "The conditions are so good, so rich, say that you will suffer a few times if you hit you a few times."
The first child born was a daughter.
The family of traditional thought was of course dissatisfied with the occurrence of this situation, so the attitude towards her was even worse than before.
It wasn't until she was pregnant with her second child that she finally couldn't stand the hurt that this so-called "tycoon" had brought to her.
She divorced with a check for 100,000 yuan in her hand, and both daughters were raised by Xu Chunmei.
After waking up, she didn't know how she had survived the previous days.
3.
After the divorce, Xu Chunmei took the injured 100,000 yuan to plan to run a business by herself, thinking about it for a long time, and found that the lighting industry at that time was quite attractive.
So he became the owner of a lighting store.
At this time, she met the partner Zheng Qisong, and the two sides fell in love at first sight.
After several contacts, the impression of Zheng Qisong was very good, with a gentle personality and a thick and honest attitude.
After all, I have experienced a failed marriage, and I can still be relatively clear in terms of looking at people.
"I have two children at home, born to my ex-husband, if you don't mind..."
"Didn't mind! What I like is you. Of course, your daughter will also be my daughter. ”
She thought that she had indeed met her own love.
Zheng Qisong is also a rich man, with many family businesses in Taiwan and other regions.
Xu Chunmei saw that she was a trustworthy person, and the two married.
"Will your parents hate me, after all, I am..."
"They respect my choice, and with two more granddaughters out of thin air, they should be happy."
So after arriving in Japan, Xu Chunmei and Zheng Qisong's in-laws got along very well.
Zheng Qisong's worth is as high as billions, and the two people have lived together for 20 years, during which he is very concerned about Xu Chunmei, and he will also teach Xu Chunmei business matters.
Xu Chunmei also gave birth to his third child, a man and two girls.
However, Xu Chunmei's cousin could not have children because of physical reasons.
Persuaded by relatives and friends, she gave her little daughter to her cousin.
When Xu Chunmei was 44 years old, Zheng Qisong fell ill with cancer, leaving her with a family estate of up to 5 billion yuan.
And Xu Chunmei also died several times, but was saved by others.
It was also at this time that Xu Chunmei, who was burdened with the pain of bereavement, began the journey of releasing herself.
4.
Her husband's huge fortune made her fame soar overnight, and major media rushed to invite her to the show.
In the show, she is even more speechless:
"I look much better than Lin Qingxia and Wang Zuxian, and I am Xu Chunmei of high society."
"Rich people deserve love"
Because of these words, she got the title of "high-class beauty".
After landing on the show, everyone knows that this woman is worth a lot, and she especially likes fresh meat handsome men, and everyone wants to rush to be attentive to her.
In the hundred flowers, she met a "muscle macho man"
This fierce man was no one else, it was the man who had saved Xu Chunmei before.
This person's name is Huang Haiming, a man who is 15 years younger than her.
This man is also a businessman, but this man is young and vigorous, and his muscles are fascinated by Xu Chunmei.
So she proposed to Huang Haiming to get married, not only let him move into her mansion.
He was also given a car worth 4.5 million yuan and 2 million in cash, and 50,000 yuan a month for living expenses.
It may be that in the face of Xu Chunmei, who is "like a wolf like a tiger", Huang Haiming is a little powerless.
It didn't take long for Huang Haiming to discover that Xu Chunmei had cheated on him, and he was also caught and raped by Huang Haiming on the spot.
"We just talked under the covers"
Later, the two divorced, and Huang Haiming also divided some of her property.
After the distribution of the property, she still lives a drunken and golden fan, and the days of red wine and greenery.
But in 2003, a very strange scene happened.
In 2003, a little girl was found stealing food in the mall.
After being discovered by the people in the mall, she was sent directly to the police station.
It is understood that this little girl is actually the biological daughter of the rich woman Xu Chunmei.
The daughter of a rich woman actually wanders the streets to steal food, is this an experience of life?
In an instant, the overwhelming news struck like a tidal wave, and major variety shows invited Xu Chunmei.
Taking advantage of the opportunity to be on the show, Xu Chunmei took her daughter back to her side.
After picking up the child, she felt as if something was missing.
Yes, it was love, and she needed to find a man to accompany her through those lonely days.
Soon after, she fell in love with the male model Qiu Pinrui,
"Pin Rui, are you interested in coming to my house?"
"Good, good"
Taking advantage of the hazy night, he led Qiu Pinrui to visit the room and locked the door by hand.
What a similar scenario
This young man is very handsome in terms of both body appearance and temperament, and his muscles are even more charming, and he is 25 years younger than Xu Chunmei.
But he owed too much foreign debt, and several times the creditors blocked him at home to let him pay back.
In the end, Xu Chunmei, who was generous, directly helped him pay off more than 3 million debts, and then asked him to get married.
For this "best male model", she took out millions of rolex watches with a dowry alone.
However, this rich woman could not hold Qiu Pinrui's heart
After getting married, Qiu Pinrui once again owed a million debts because of those bad habits.
However, this time, Xu Chunmei said that she would not help him pay off his debts, and Qiu Pinrui beat her into a serious injury in one breath.
On the day of the divorce between the two people, Xu Chunmei also said to Qiu Pinrui:
"The money I spend on you is the joy I bought these days."
Xu Chunmei also showed love like the dawn of the four heavenly kings many times, threatening: I am willing to take out my tens of billions of family property to support you.
Being inexplicably teased, Dawn shouted directly to the media: Are you afraid that you have a neurosis?
5.
Now Xu Chunmei is 63 years old
Some time ago, she also posted photos of herself on social platforms,
What is very surprising is that she is dressed very plainly, and her stooped back looks like she is very thin.
Some people say she looks like an old man,
Recently, she also posted photos of herself playing golf, saying that she had lost more than 10 pounds, and said that she would not make small fresh meats in the future.
Until now, she has not looked for a fresh meat boyfriend, and some people say that he is afraid of being tortured by the previous ones.
Some people say that her childhood poverty led to her current pursuit of materialism and high society, which led to her life was very desolate.
Xu Chunmei's attitude is not worth learning, and we can work hard through our own efforts.
Today, Xu Chunmei, who has entered the old age, is still a variety of negative news, sitting on tens of billions of family property,
Wearing gold and silver every day, she has lived what she calls a "high society" life,
I wonder what it would be like for her to go to bed at night and reminisce about her past?
Psychologist Adler once said:
"Lucky people, all their lives are healed by childhood, unfortunate people, all their lives are healing childhood."
For Xu Chunmei, the difficult life since childhood and the attitude of her family not caring about her feelings for money have made her three views distorted unconsciously.
She is brash, she does not say anything to protect her sensitive and fragile heart,
If she didn't appear arrogant, she always felt that others would look down on her.
Life is miserable, and Xu Chunmei has set off again with her "pulp breaking".
Once she also had many fantasies about love and life,
It's just that life will never let her go, and she was taught a lesson by Li Wenqing fiercely.
When she finally thought she had found happiness, her husband left her due to illness.
She can figure it out, she can accept it,
But she was still sad,
Although she is very ruined, maybe this is her protective color.