"How can I tell you that I don't want to teach each other to hold back their sadness in solitude." How can I tell you that I still love you is my own wrong decision. Dressed in white, holding a guitar, yesterday afternoon, Li Ji played and sang this famous song composed by him 27 years ago by the Taiwanese music group "Youke LiLin" at the press conference of his new book "Admit Your Mistakes", the clean voice is the same as before, and the faint melancholy that pervaded when he was young because of the loss of love now has some different feelings. In the chorus part, the familiar melody caused a chorus under the stage, which made Li Ji also moved.
Picture said: Li Ji considers himself to be very introverted Official figure
The first candor of an introverted singer
After singing, Li Ji stood up, slightly hunched over, and a few words of thanks to the audience were also simple and unpretentious. As Li Ji himself put it, he was an "introvert."
As a songwriter, Li Ji is no stranger to writing, but telling his own stories and ideas in the form of an autobiography, the new work "Admit Mistakes" is the first time. "I am a person who does not want to open my heart to everyone, which is a common disease of introverts." Li Ji is more accustomed to writing lyrics or short essays, because "for articles of more than 1500 words, I must be more 'communicative' and publish my inner deeper thoughts, which requires courage and perseverance."
And this time writing "Admit Mistakes", Li Ji contributed his life experience and wanted to speak for introverts. In Li Ji's view, criticizing naturally introverted children and making them "cheerful and extroverted" is both stressful and painful for them. "I use my own mental journey to show everyone how an introvert can successfully take the stage, telling everyone that you don't have to change your nature, you just need to find the right way, and the stage performance of introverts will be wonderful."
Picture said: Li Ji, who is more than half a hundred years old, reflected from the dissolution incident: when to admit mistakes and correct them, it is not too late
It's not too late to "admit mistakes"
In 1991, Li Ji's song "Admit Your Mistake" sensationalized the music scene, allowing the "Youke Li Lin" group to enter the audience's field of vision. This song was written by Li Ji for his broken-up girlfriend. But more than twenty years later, when he sang "Admit Your Mistakes" again, the "mistakes" in Li Ji's heart were no longer just the failure of love, but the stubbornness and impulses of his youth.
In 1995, just as the popular "Youke Li Lin" announced its dissolution, many people were puzzled. Talking about his partner Lin Zhixuan again, Li Ji revealed the reason for the separation. At that time, the "Youke Li Lin" that had just become popular had many announcement arrangements. But Lin Zhixuan made an agreement with his father that the family's printing house needed his care, which distracted a lot of energy. "At that time, I was full of only complaints, thinking that he was always late and always delayed our work." Today, Li Ji looks back on the past and suddenly wakes up: "I was actually wrong back then." I was very stubborn when I was younger and couldn't see the good of others. Thinking about it now, Lin Zhixuan's adherence to his father's commitment is the correct choice for him not to be affected by interests and to stick to his heart. His filial piety is precious. ”
Li Ji did not speak to Lin Zhixuan about this passage. Now that the two have already frozen their previous suspicions, an apology seems unnecessary. But Li Ji wanted to tell the fans of that year, so that they could understand that there are many beautiful people and things in the complex showbiz circle; Li Ji also wanted to tell all the young people to warn them to find the good of the people around them. "Even if you can't see clearly because you're young, it doesn't matter." Look at me in my fifties, when I have confessed my mistakes and corrected them, it is not too late. (Xinmin Evening News reporter Wu Xuying)