Osamu Dazai wrote in The Human Disqualification:
"Encounters are always caught off guard, parting is planned for a long time, we must get used to the hot and cold around us, but also look down on those who are gradually drifting away." 」
Life should be as good as it should be at first sight, but unfortunately, the passage of time has added a lot of sorrow and joy, and when the joy is over, it is the beginning of parting.
Although the parting is constantly staged, no matter who leaves, it will not let life be bleak, and accepting the parting and starting a new life is also a kind of bravery, just like Wu Yating.
On February 21, Wu Yating, who had not appeared for a long time, suddenly issued a promotional poster on social platforms and wrote down the copy:
"At the age of 26, I put on the white veil of my choice, stepped into the palace of marriage, and became a wife. At the age of 27, I had a new identity, became a mother, and then I had a little brother, and I became a busy and happy second-child mother. 33-year-old me, without any prefix, who is not who to become, I am Wu Yating, will you still be willing to understand me? ”
From this point of view, Wu Yating is ready to come out and engage in a career.
Without a man to rely on, this time, she wants to be herself again, and she wants to regain everyone's love as Wu Yating.
The variety show she participated in was a brand new divorce variety show, "Spring Day Delays Departure".
In the program, 7 single men and women who ended their marriages were gathered, as well as Da Zhang Wei, Fu Seoul, Wu Kequn and others to form an observation group to discuss marriage and love and study new concepts of feelings.
After Wu Yating sent out the official poster, netizens in the comment area expressed their support.
To tell the truth, in the past few years, Wu Yating lived too selflessly because of Wang Quexin.
The reason why Wu Yating entered the audience's sight is entirely because of marriage, in the entertainment industry, her ex-husband Wang Quexin, although not yet popular, is also a little famous.
In 2007, the talent show of "Happy Male Voice" was like tea, and Wang Quexin's unique voice and color coupled with the appearance of a handsome man set off a wave.
Later, he co-starred with Tan Songyun and Liu Haoran in the campus drama "The Best of Us", playing the infatuated Lu Xinghe.
Since his debut, Wang Lixin's career has been steadily advancing, publishing many singles, and participating in many film and television dramas, and his career has continued to rise.
Just when Wang Quexin's career was going well, Wu Yating appeared in the audience's sight as the woman behind him.
The two met at a party and then fell in love, and in 2015 they married.
At that time, Wu Yating was only 26 years old and had the identity of a Chinese female choreographer, but she gave up her career and was willing to follow Wang Lixin into the palace of marriage.
In February 2015, the two entered the palace of marriage, and the wedding vow touched countless people:
"The person standing across from me at this moment is you, Wu Yating."
"I must not be the most beautiful of your many girlfriends, but I must be your best wife."
Perhaps, from that moment on, her personal label became a foregone conclusion, and no one knew her true identity, only that she was Wang Quexin's wife.
Then she had children, became a mother of two children, and had no life of her own.
In this new era when everyone advocates independence, Wu Yating has become a traditional woman, running around every day for her children and husband, perhaps all she wants is to stay with her beloved, and her husband and children will be happy to live a lifetime.
Let him soar freely in the entertainment industry, she is his strong backing, and the decision to fight so hard must be based on strong love.
But helplessly, the torrent of time will wash away too much, and Wang Quexin's love is not aimed at life after all.
In December 2020, Wang Lixin officially announced the divorce on the social platform, and his words were full of gratitude and thanks, only the sentence "I got off the bus first" was shocking.
It turned out that Wu Yating paid all her marriage, in Wang Quexin's view, it was just a short trip, and when she reached the end, she got off the bus first, leaving Wu Yating empty and sad.
On the scale of love, Wu Yating pinned a lot of expectations, and those expectations were summed up in one sentence: love for a lifetime.
But people's hearts will change, love will disappear, since ancient times, deep affection cannot be retained, the more absolute love, the more thorough the loss.
After the divorce, Wang Lixin soon had a new love, and was photographed several times holding hands with the opposite sex and returning home in the same frame.
Wu Yating, on the other hand, continues to guard her children and strives to live as a happy single mother.
5 years of marriage, two children, 26 to 32 years old time, all of Wu Yating's affection, has become a passing cloud.
In February this year, Wu Yating opened a live broadcast to interact with fans, and when netizens asked her "whether she would be reunited", Wu Yating firmly said that "it will not be reunited again." ”
When netizens asked her "will she remarry again", she said, "It is unfair to let the future boyfriend tolerate two children at once, so I don't plan to consider marriage again." ”
When she said these words, Wu Yating couldn't help but shed tears, how much she expected from the previous marriage, how disappointed she was, regret and regret, it was inevitable.
Now, at the age of 33, after experiencing love and marriage, she finally understands that women still have to rely on themselves.
Therefore, she came out to engage in a career, the first step is to participate in the divorce variety show, close the distance with the audience, and the second step may be to switch to film and television.
People always have to look forward, spare no effort when they love, and end up decently when they are separated, which is also a kind of wisdom of adults.
Because in this era, love or marriage cannot guarantee eternity, and the only thing we can do is to cherish the present.
At any time, having the ability to walk independently will make you live a little more calmly.
Feelings are the icing on the cake in life, some are beautiful, none are indifferent, rather than torturing each other in marriage, it is better to let go of yourself and find true happiness.
Gathering well, starting with dignity, ending the past, injecting hope into the future, is the most beautiful appearance of an independent woman.
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