Speaking of "porcelain dolls", many people will think of toys, which are actually the name of a disease.
Simply put, it is a disease that is easy to fracture and can be easily injured, such a person is like a porcelain doll, which will shatter when touched.
Under normal circumstances, "porcelain dolls" will be protected by their parents, dare not go out at will, do not want to go far away, worried that when they encounter problems, no one can help themselves in time.
Hu Lu is a "porcelain doll", she is 89 cm tall, she insisted on volunteering when she grew up, and she also knew her husband Xiao Duan, and the two also had a lovely daughter, and her courage made many people admire.
01. Be loving and surrounded by love
When Hu Lu was young, he was diagnosed with illness, could not go to school normally, and needed to stay at home.
She taught herself pinyin, can read books, can also use mobile phone typing communication, when bored, she went online, accidentally met Liu Qing's sister, Liu Qing is a disabled person, sitting in a wheelchair all year round, she opened a photography shop, although it is very hard, but enough to maintain her own life.
After learning about Hu Lu's situation, Liu Qing insisted on leaving a message to encourage her, so that she must have confidence in life, as long as she is diligent and willing to learn, she will definitely be able to live her own life.
Hu Lu listened, she did beauty, worked as an e-commerce customer service, really can have an income, let her be very content, in the process of work, she also met her husband Xiao Duan.
Xiao Duan suffered from polio, walked not very coordinated, needed to use crutches, he was attracted by Hu Lu's optimism and positive attitude, and the two slowly came together.
When they first got married, their wish was very simple, to help each other spend the rest of their lives together, what people did not expect was that Hu Lu was pregnant, and when they learned the news, the two had mixed feelings.
Who doesn't want to have a child and feel the joy of heaven, but considering Hu Lu's physical condition, the husband Xiaoduan resolutely refuses, he believes that the child is not as important as the safety of the wife.
But Hu Lu thought further, she contacted the doctor, the other party suggested that she first go to the examination, to see if the fetus has genetic diseases, through the examination, the fetus is healthy, Hu Lu firm idea, very much want to give birth to the child.
She had regular obstetric examinations, was hospitalized early when she was more than 8 months pregnant, her mother, mother-in-law and husband were all by her side, watching her waistline more than her height, the medical staff felt pain, her stomach was very large, Hu Lu could not sit, she needed to be fed to eat and drink, and sometimes a sip of water would be choked.
More importantly, the development of the fetus squeezed her liver, so that her body was also greatly affected, her husband hurt her, quietly said to the doctor: "If there is a situation that can only save one, I must keep my lover." ”
Hu Lu, on the other hand, was optimistic, believing in the doctor, and was still looking forward to the child's appearance until she was pushed into surgery.
02. Insist on being a mother and be grateful to those who help themselves
Hu Lu was lucky, the production process was very smooth, the child 2 pounds 8 two, because of less than a month, was sent to the incubator.
The husband surrounded Hu Lu, hoping that she could quickly recover, the health of the child, is their happiness, lived in the incubator for a period of time, the child can finally be discharged, Hu Lu and the child lie on the same bed, feel at ease.
When the child was 3 years old, Hu Lu insisted on finding her benefactor Liu Qing, and if it were not for the encouragement of Liu Qing's sister, she would not have been able to have her current life.
In difficult times of life, it is really a blessing to meet people who inspire you.
Liu Qing's sister is a noble person of Hu Lu, she used her own experience to inspire Hu Lu and let her have hope for life, however, because she lost her mobile phone, she lost Hu Lu's contact information, Hu Lu has not been able to contact, decided to help find through the TV station.
There is no contact information, only a name, the difficulty of looking for each other can be imagined, fortunately, after learning about this matter, some volunteers joined in, they took the initiative to help find together, and quickly found Liu Qing.
Because she needs a wheelchair, her photo studio is opened in the basement, and she is an optimistic big sister on the Internet, and she has experienced difficulties in life, but she is dedicated to kindness, and will lend a helping hand to people who meet them.
When they met Hu Lu, both of them shed tears, and Liu Qing slapped Hu Lu's hand and praised her: "You are so brave, amazing!" ”
The children on the side smiled and hugged Liu Qing, which may be the meaning of Hu Lu's persistence, the child is the driving force for progress, it may be difficult, but it is worth it.
03. The happiness of life is to be able to control your own life
After watching Hu Lu's experience, will it bring you some feelings?
No matter what kind of fate card we touch, as long as we don't give up, we have the opportunity to turn over.
If you see your own body, Hu Lu is self-pitying, it is impossible to have the happiness she has now, of course, we are not encouraging her to have children, the risks of which need to be grasped by ourselves, and what we appreciate is her positive outlook on life.
People who have similar experiences with Hu Lu, as well as Wang Miao.
Wang Miao is also a porcelain doll, she needs to stay in bed for many years, even so, the family's impression is that she fractured as many as 100 times.
She didn't want to rely on her family to live, learned to knit on her own, met her own love, and had a cute child.
While running her own life, she also actively helps more people, free tutorials to help Bao Ma learn to weave, so that Bao Ma can also have an income.
In Hulu and Wang Miao, there is one thing in common, that is, optimism.
Romain Rolland said: "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, after seeing through the truth of life, you still love life." ”
Since you can't change your destiny, it's better to be the master of your destiny and control your life in your own hands.
No matter who it is, it has its own pursuits, even if the body is weaker, but the mind can be full.
As a line in Jane Eyre: "Do you think I am weak, poor, and humble, and I do not deserve love?" You are wrong, I have souls and pursuits, and in thought, we are equal. ”
When a person has the courage to stand on his own feet, he has the ability to love and be loved.
In contrast, although they have physical diseases, they are much stronger than the young people in life who nibble on the old.
A woman who was depressed after childbirth asked Wang Miao for help, and Wang Miao told her: "You are in good health, you have a lovely child, what is there to worry about, as long as you are happy, life will be brilliant." ”
This sentence is also given to all friends, life may have difficulties, but as long as you do not give up, through the long dark tunnel, you can see the light ahead.
Give them a thumbs up! Do you think "porcelain dolls" are suitable for having children?