Original title: "Porcelain Doll" Wang Miao: "I want to influence life with life"
"Porcelain doll" Wang Miao: "I want to influence life with life"
( 2021-03-07 ) Source: Xinhua Daily Telegraph Xinhua Concerns · Chengfeng people
On February 25, Wang Miao was recording a knitting lesson. Photo by Yang Jinxin, a reporter of this newspaper
Reporter Yang Jinxin
After the first snow, the Central Plains is rainy and rainy, and the willow trees on the side of the road have revealed new shoots, swaying with the wind, giving people hope and reverie.
Born 29 years ago in Luyi County, Zhoukou City, Henan Province, Wang Miao was diagnosed with osteogenesis imperfecta, commonly known as brittle bone disease, or "porcelain doll".
For "porcelain dolls", even a very slight collision can cause serious fractures. Wang Miao's mother recalled that she had more than 30 fractures when she was a child, sometimes 3 times a month, and a bone would fracture 3 times, this section had not grown well, and the other section was fractured.
"When I was a child, I couldn't walk, and I was very envious of others. Once when I went to my grandmother's house and saw such a large wheat field, I thought it was so fresh, and the wheat field was so beautiful. Wang Miao said.
Fluent in Mandarin, it's hard to imagine that she never went to school, and it was her younger brother who was studying for graduate school, teaching her to learn Pinyin and Mandarin little by little.
Stetson's "Acacia Tree" "Let Me Not Fall"
Before the age of 22, due to her serious illness, her family did not dare to let Wang Miao walk under the ground, and the one-meter-wide bed was the largest radius of her life. When you are not moving, the pain is bearable; when you move, it is unbearable. Most of the time, she could only lie down, even if her back was sore and pus, she just sat on the quilt for a while, but after sitting for a long time, her legs should hurt again.
Lying in bed, books became her only solace except for her family. I don't know how many times she lay in bed, imagining living like a normal person.
On weekdays, smiling and cheerful are her labels. People around her affectionately call her Miaomiao, what makes her so optimistic?
Next to the bookshelves of her home, in addition to textbooks and teaching aids, there are also works by writers such as Shi Tiesheng, Lu Yao, Bi Shumin, etc. "My favorite is Shi Tiesheng's "I and the Temple of Earth" and "Acacia Tree", after reading it many times, "Acacia Tree" is really well written, it feels like two people chatting, talking to my heart, so that I did not fall. I also like Lu Yao's "Ordinary World", as well as Bi Shumin's book. ”
The gentle brushstrokes of several writers have given her endless nourishment. Music also made her perceive another kind of beauty in this world, her favorite is the piano music, when knitting, she will listen quietly, as if time freezes, all the hardships and hardships in front of her disappear.
"Porcelain doll" became "Luyi's clever girl"
Fate always opens a window. "When I was 22 years old, I had two major orthodontic surgeries and slowly went upstairs on crutches. After meeting a few friends, I learned about tencent classroom's online courses and began to contact weaving. Wang Miao said, while fiddling with the needle and thread on his chest, there seemed to be light in his eyes, "The first two years of the family also installed a computer, my brother taught me to learn computers, watch knitting lessons." Learning to knit online is really good, some problems can not be understood by reading books, and I understand it when I watch the video. ”
Wang Miao saw another world. When she learned to weave a net class, she was very energetic, from five o'clock in the morning to eleven or twelve o'clock in the evening. "The process of learning is more arduous, only sleeping four or five hours a day, and then having a baby is even busier." Wang Miao said.
Kung Fu pays off, following the teaching video over and over again, Wang Miao not only learned the basic weaving skills, but also tried to innovate. Slowly, her works have won many awards for large-scale domestic handicraft exhibitions, and she has successfully applied for the county's intangible cultural heritage projects, and she has also become what people call "the clever girl of Luyi".
"A student in Xinxiang learned to make mushroom packs remotely with me, which is particularly beautiful, sold more than ten, and she also changed her WeChat name to mushroom packs, haha!" As he spoke, the corners of Wang Miao's mouth couldn't help but rise.
Mushroom pack, as the name suggests, comes in shape from mushrooms. The vitality of the mushroom is extremely tenacious, it is lonely, the living environment is harsh, but it tenaciously blooms its own beauty
Wang Miao's story also touched her students. There was a girl who lost hope in life because of postpartum depression, until she met Wang Miao, "Really, what can't be done?" ”
Pass on the hope of life from "student" to "teacher"
Teaching people to fish is not as good as teaching people to fish, wang Miao, who has transformed from a "student" to a "teacher", relies on the trickle of the Internet to convey the hope of life. She told reporters that she wanted to influence life with her life.
After "becoming famous", Wang Miao began recording and uploading knitting lessons on the Internet. She said: "I taught everything for free, never thought about collecting money, and I didn't pay money when I was studying. ”
Today, Wang Miao has her own weaving team, with more than 100 members, and most of the members online and offline are left-behind mothers in rural areas.
The reporter searched for Wang Miao in the Tencent classroom, and there were 3 courses of "crochet - mushroom packet", "crochet - sequin pillow" and "crochet hat - puppy hat", all of which were free, and the number of applicants exceeded 1,000.
Guan Chao, director of the Tianjin Tidal Relief Center and initiator of the "Tidal Plan" public welfare project, said that moving the course to the online Tencent classroom allows disabled girls like Wang Miao to learn a craft without leaving home. He also revealed: "Wang Miao's current online courses have many patients from all over the country. ”
Hope, through the Internet is constantly transmitted.
In Wang Miao's studio, there are various woven carnations and roses, and she recalls the scene of selling roses on the street, "One day when it rained, we slowly walked back, walked, ran from the rain to two people, bought two roses, and waved at us before leaving." ”
"They helped me, I teach online, I can help patients like me, I think I'm happy." Wang Miao said.
Wang Miao's lover is relatively silent on weekdays, but he gives her the greatest support. In the eyes of her lover, she has to teach students and record lessons every day, so hard, but as long as she likes it, she will support it. "There are not many girls like her who are optimistic about life."
In Wang Miao's circle of friends, "sharing handmade sharing beauty" is her label, in addition to many photos of her with her family, the background is the beach by the sea, reminiscent of the poem "facing the sea, spring and warm flowers".
The song "Rose in the Heart" sings: "In the depths of my soul, there is a rose." I use the spring of life to irrigate and cultivate it. Wang Miao is such a girl, choosing to use the spring of life, irrigate the roses in her heart, and use the needle and thread in her hand to weave hope for the future. (Yang Jinxin)