The I Ching is an ancient Chinese divination classic and one of the sources of Chinese philosophy. The philosophy of the I Ching covers a wide range of fields, including astronomy, geography and other scholarship. The "I Ching" has always been known as "the head of the group of scriptures, the source of the avenue".
In the I Ching, it has been hinted that a mature and stable man of fifty or sixty years old is still within easy reach of the well-deserved instrument even if he has not yet completed the wealth and wealth of the highest realm of a man, but young women for some reasons have no basic courage and unnecessary courage despite their hearts.
I Ching: Why are most women afraid of men in their fifties and sixties? Tell you 4 reasons
First, I am afraid that I will accidentally hit and destroy the old man's family
Women who deliberately destroy the old man's family can not say no, can only say that there are very few, most women come together with married old men, the early stage is in the case of unclear details, with a fluke psychology and old men for a long time, old men do not want to claim that the hidden marriage is that women did not ask in detail.
In fact, most women are overwhelmed by the year of intercourse, as an old man even if not 100% own the family, there is a good chance that the old man will also have a family, usually after the woman with the old man, the more she knows the roots of the old man, the more afraid.
Second, worry about causing controversy or criticism
Together with men in their fifties and sixties, it is far from being as simple as imagined, and ordinary eyes and remarks will become invisible obstacles, naturally referring to women in their twenties and thirties and men in their fifties and sixties, obviously falling in love will still be maliciously misinterpreted, and the controversy on the surface and the non-parliamentary in private will rise and fall one after another.
If a woman's psychological quality is not strong enough, she will tremble in response to the controversy or criticism that follows, and staying away from or alienating men in their fifties and sixties is to avoid the controversy or criticism that follows at the root.
Third, afraid of men cheating, saying that men are getting older and more popular
Especially men after the age of 50, at this time men are not only mature and stable but also smart and wise and full of infinite charm, and women, youth has passed, the face has been old, most of them have lost the beauty of that year, when women are old and yellow, ah, psychology, will be very worried, afraid that they can not keep the man's heart, afraid that men will lose interest in themselves, will go outside to find others, she is very worried every day, so men, to comfort her from time to time, with practical actions to tell her, you still love her.
Fourth, worry about the current fingering and the future of the lonely
Young women with fifty or sixty-year-old men, even if they ask themselves whether they are married to love, young women will be questioned or denied, especially in daily life with fifty or sixty-year-old men to show up and go shopping, although they say that they don't care about the views or statements of the surrounding crowds, but in their hearts they will still care about the views of the people around them, even if the people around them don't see anything and don't say anything.
Young women will also feel weak-minded, and controversies will rise and fall, so young women will be indisputable after much disagreement, and young women are more worried about the next twenty or thirty or forty years of life than the current finger-pointing.
Of course, all of the above is only my half-understanding of the I Ching!
By understanding the truth in the I Ching, life will be able to take fewer detours
From ancient times to the present, many ways to break the situation of adversity are hidden in the I Ching;
In ancient times, many able people and heroes called the "I Ching" the current Baidu Encyclopedia;
People often say that "reading ten thousand books is far worse than reading one true scripture", but in fact, it is the I Ching.
The I Ching is the "book of origins" of Chinese culture: both Confucian and Taoist doctrines are influenced by it; and it is also known as the "book of answers" to life's problems, and you can find answers to the problems you encounter in life.
However, I often hear friends around me who read the I Ching complaining: I can't understand the ancient books and texts, I can't read them boringly, I don't know how to use them in real life, and so on.
Therefore, I always recommend to them the Illustrated I Ching that I am studying, which is a comprehensive systematization of the basics we need to learn the I Ching in an illustrated way.
On the basis of respecting the content of the original work, restoring the most authentic "I Ching", and using practical examples to tell you how to analyze the problem, the 64 gua of the "I Ching" will no longer be a cold and cold symbol, but will become a great wisdom that we can understand, learn and use, which really benefits me immensely.