Text/Flying Fish
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Maybe you have experienced love in a relationship and can't ask for it, but you really like it, so for you, the person you love deeply is difficult to forget.
But you also know that feelings cannot be forced, but your wishful thinking is not OK, and the best feelings are always two feelings.
Therefore, when you encounter emotional unhappiness, I hope you can face the unsatisfactory life, because unsatisfactory is the normal state of life. I also hope that you can let go of a fruitless emotional experience, because love can not be, does not affect your yearning for love, nor does it affect your continued choice to believe in love.
Therefore, the decency of adults is to let go, to be perfect, to be able to maintain a high emotional side in front of others, and when they are alone, they silently digest all the unpleasantness.
To truly let go of a person is to complete the other person and let go of yourself.
02
Some people often think that it is better to drop a person and delete the contact information of the other person.
In fact, deleting a person does not mean that you will not think of him, but some people will regret it after deleting it, and they will still remember it and add the other party's contact information back.
In doing so, you are only deceiving others, not yourself.
The real letting go is to let go of yourself, to complete others, to put the other person in the right position from the heart, no longer your most important person, can be a stranger, can be an ordinary friend, but don't let the other party occupy an important position in your heart, otherwise, you will never be able to put it down.
To really let go of a person, is to dare to face the reality and unbearable, after gladly accepting, you can make a conclusion for yourself, after explaining things clearly, everything will suddenly open up.
03
Just like Yang Mengjing in "Half-Acquainted Lover", she came to the semi-familiar apartment and had a good feeling for Wang Nengneng, and she also thought that the other party was the same for herself.
When Yang Mengjing felt that Wang could begin to alienate herself and begin to keep a distance from herself, she was entangled in her heart, but at the same time she was also very brave to express her heart.
Yang Mengjing clearly felt that the other party did not like herself, but she was on top, feeling that the feelings were suddenly pushed to a certain height and then came down, and she could not change at once, so she still looked for an opportunity to ask whether the other party really did not have a heart for herself.
But the feeling of this thing, really difficult to control, like a person, is more can't help it, the more you can't get it, the more you want to brush the sense of existence in front of the other party, so Yang Mengjing was like this before, did not put down Wang Nengneng, but stubbornly made some things that he usually did not do, cleaned a chair for him, saw interesting things and wanted to buy him, buy desserts for him, and make rings for him.
But when it came time to finally confess, she still decided to knock on Wang Nengneng's door, decided to solve some misunderstandings between them, and then drew a sentence for herself.
04
I admire the courage of Yang Mengjing, a thirty-year-old adult who can make timely judgments about feelings.
When you feel that the other party does not love you, although you like it, you must also make a break, draw a sentence for this mental journey, and then start your new life again.
I think that this kind of dare to face the reality of feelings is not really letting go?
In fact, Yang Mengjing looks like a very cool and fierce woman on the outside, but her heart is actually a little girl, when she and Wang can make the final expression, in fact, she wants to be the coolest wolf again, waiting for the appearance of a person, you can unload her wolf skin for her, see her little lamb side.
In the end, she hoped that Wang Ye could bravely pursue the direction she wanted and wish the other party happiness.
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To really let go of a person is to say goodbye to the other party well, so that it is also decent, the perfection of one person, the dignity of three people, in the triangular relationship, as one who cannot love, gracefully withdraw, is really letting go.
Only by knowing how to let go can we think of everything in a broad way, and can we complete you and him.
In fact, the people who can be cured by time are all self-transiting people.
Every relationship has a story. It's sadness, or sweetness, or sorrow, or affection, some are perfect, some are scattered.
Only by looking openly and letting go can we face all the unsatisfactory feelings of the human body.
Let go of a person, you can get a new life, you can also be yourself again, I hope that the rest of your life, love yourself well, do not give up the ability to love a person and the right to be loved, the rest of your life is very expensive, must be romantic to death.
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