Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Many people want to find their favorite person, and there are also people who have experienced twists and turns on this road. No matter what you encounter on the way to find love, it is actually what you should have in your destiny, or what you should encounter in your current state.
We should not look at things with a pessimistic attitude, but should actively pursue our own love. Of course, you also have to polish your eyes, because love itself is something that cannot be sought, just like a twisted melon is not sweet.
The person you love must love you, such love is two-way to have meaning, and when a relationship, if the man appears in these four manifestations, he does not want to be with you, do not lick his face to pursue each other.
Good for you, but not just for you
If a man genuinely wants to go to the end with you, he is absolutely single-minded, not taking care of others while being good to you.
If a person is good to you and not only good to you, it means that he has the attribute of central air conditioning. He can warm all people, so such love is unreliable.
Women must learn to distinguish between love and fraternity, true love is the only one, men treat you as the only, and in some things he is also particularly double-standard. For example, his kindness to you is limited to his goodness, and his attitude towards others is different. And there are some men who are good to you at the same time, he is good to everyone, this kind of goodness is actually a manifestation of his dislike.
When a man is good to everyone, you must not feel that you still have much specialness in his heart. You need to leave early to minimize damage.
Turn a blind eye to your efforts
If the end result of love is destined to be a moth to put out the fire, then will you still be desperate to pursue the love in your heart?
Many silly girls are confused by the two words of love, and always feel that love should be paid, in fact, true love is not a one-sided payment, but a two-way rush.
If a man turns a blind eye to your giving, what is the point of your giving?
Our payment should not be a simple payment, but when your payment is felt by the other party, and give back to you his pay, such love is called two-way rushing, only called two feelings of mutual pleasure, only to achieve the meaning of being together.
Your invitations are treated casually
If a man really wants to be with you, his eyebrows are full of joy for you, and his invitation to you is particularly active. Such a performance is truly liked.
If a man has no heart for you at all, then he treats your invitation very casually.
You want to invite him to dinner, he may have time to go, or you pay the bill, you invite him to go shopping, he will not help you pay the bill, will not help you carry your bag, and even if there is no time he will find an excuse not to go.
Women don't make excuses for such men themselves, say he doesn't have the time, say that he's a very direct person himself, it doesn't exist.
The person who truly loves you, he is always detailed, honest, romantic.
There is no rejoicing in your presence and initiative
A man who does not take the initiative in the relationship is not like, no matter how much you like it yourself, don't make excuses for the other party anymore. If your presence and initiative do not usher in his joy, then your feelings are worthless in his eyes.
There is no sincere love that can be hidden in the eyes, even if the other party is well hidden, you can feel it through his expression. If your initiative makes you not feel this love, it is no love.
Uncle Epilogue:
What women are most afraid of in their relationships is to deceive themselves, you can make a comeback if you are deceived by men, but if you even cheat on yourself, then no one will let you go.
A man who shows up in the above four manifestations is obviously not wanting to be with you. For people who don't love you, you should keep a firm attitude and leave if you don't love.