The word Aquaman has been very popular lately. Many people claim to be the Sea King, but often people who say they are the Sea King are not real sea kings, and those who say that they are not sea kings at all are more likely.
Some constellations have their waves that are not superficial, and their countless spare tires are not because they take the initiative to raise fish and treat these people as spare tires. They are often unintentional, but in the eyes of others, the sea king is not wrong. Their biggest problem is that they are gentle with everyone and treat everyone equally.
The biggest problem is that I am embarrassed to refuse, and I do not understand rejection. This constellation is Libra.
Treating people politely is nurturing, and being gentle is being dignified
I believe that seeing this title, many small partners who have an understanding of Libra have already guessed it, and they can leave a message in the comment area to talk about Libra in your eyes. Libra is a very polite, charming, and dignified sign.
They love everything about beauty, and what they love most is "peace." This peace includes all aspects, and they first do not like the atmosphere of embarrassment and depression, so they will try to enliven the atmosphere in the place where they are, so that the atmosphere is not so depressing.
The second is that they don't like to argue and quarrel, so when Libra's inner thoughts conflict with others, they must not choose to impose their own ideas on others, or try to convince each other. Seeking common ground while reserving differences is The way Libra behaves.
And such a Libra, gentle, polite and gentle, fall generously. Naturally, there will be many people who like them, and there will be many people who have secret feelings. Libra's popularity is good, which is a well-known thing. But the problem is that it also comes from Libra's way of dealing with the world.
There are two sides to everything in the world, good and evil go hand in hand, and there are advantages and disadvantages
Libras are liked by everyone because of their good personality, they are helpful, they always help everyone, and they treat everyone equally. This is because Libra likes balance in his heart, he does not like to lose sight of one or the other, and he is not willing to be special.
But the reason why everyone says that Libra is central air conditioning is because Libra's behavior itself is central air conditioning, but they don't think they are. Libra considers doing this to be polite and respectful of everyone.
But Libra's behavior will undoubtedly make others feel that it is a hint, whether it is good for me to be so, must like me will be so good to me. In addition, Libra does not know how to refuse, and does not know how to express dislike. And the other party in this ambiguous expression, think that they have a chance.
Then unknowingly that person becomes a spare tire for Libra, but this is not Libra's true will, but they don't know how to deal with it. They just don't want to freeze the relationship, they don't want to lose this friend, but they are afraid that directly opening their mouths will hurt each other.
This is true of all things in the world, and Libra's gentle and good temper and good disposition of treating them equally make them more friends and have good popularity. It also makes them have a lot of unnecessary emotional entanglement in their feelings, and they bear the name of central air conditioning, but this name is really not wronged.
I don't know how to refuse, and in the end, I cut it out and mess it up
Not everything in this world can be hello, hello, hello, but Libra does not yet have a deep understanding of this truth. They always want everyone to have a satisfactory result, but fish and bear paws can never have both.
Do not know how to refuse, and finally harm others and harm themselves. Let the other party maintain hope in the obscure emotional relationship, but in fact, in the end, it is just a bamboo basket to hit the water. Such behavior will only make the other party fall deeper and deeper, obviously do not like it should tell the other party, in time to stop the loss is the most advanced refusal in the adult world.
Epilogue:
Finally, I still have to explain to Libra that they are not hypocritical and like to play ambiguous. They really don't understand rejection, they won't refuse. They really don't have the intention of letting others be spare tires and willingly dedicate themselves. They just treat each other as friends and get along as friends.
But they do blur the lines and give others the wrong signal. This point Libra must be clear in order to be able to correct the chaos in the future love life. Otherwise, the peach blossom will always be rotten and entangled.