With age, collagen loss, metabolism slow, so the skin will become more and more loose, the figure will become bloated, even if it is expensive skin care products, it can only ensure that they will not be uglier, but it is difficult to make themselves as delicate as when they were young.
No matter how the forty-year-old's face is dressed, it is not as good as the twenty-year-old's face facing the sky, this is a fact, young is capital, this is an indisputable fact.
Is it true that when a woman reaches middle age, she must spend it ugly? Of course not.
Appearance cannot be reversed, but we can make our spiritual world shine and make our souls shine, and from another point of view, this is also a good look, but also a spiritual level of good looks.
So, those middle-aged women who are getting more and more "good-looking" have these 4 special features, obviously.
Know how to adjust your mindset
For many women, age does not know when it has become a shackle, and they begin to want to slow down the pace of time, let them go a little slower, let themselves age a little slower.
As a result, some of them pin their hopes on various health care products, some go to beauty salons to pull skin, and even have micro-plastic surgery.
In fact, such a way can indeed make people beautiful, but such beauty has a shelf life, and as the period passes, people fall into a new round of anxiety, and then never end, why bother?
Socrates once said, "Contentment is a natural wealth, and desire is man-made poverty." ”
The more anxious we are in our hearts, the more we want to have something, then the more we will be bound by these desires, and we will become depressed, instead of this, it is better to adjust our mentality, happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, why should we spend the day with a sad face.
Less desire is quiet, the mind is simple, our body is dominated by the mind, so when we have a good mentality, it will naturally become more and more beautiful, because a good mentality is the best health.
Know how to please yourself
Dong Qing, a person who stood on the stage of the "Chinese Poetry Conference" and exported chapters, she relied on her rich connotation to become synonymous with intellectual beauty in people's hearts from A sister of CCTV.
For Dong Qing, she is not a peaceful person, she resigned from the iron rice bowl of CCTV, a person went to another country for further study, and then returned, is "if there are poetry books hidden in the heart, the years have never defeated the beauty", and this is Dong Qing's way of pleasing herself.
Many times, women put all their energy into the family after marriage, they think about everyone, but only ignore themselves, they do not understand that the most important thing in life is to please themselves.
And some women understand this truth, so they begin to focus on themselves, begin to inject new colors into their lives, and begin to do what they like to do, so their souls begin to shine.
As Lin Huiyin said: "The real calm is not to avoid the hustle and bustle of cars and horses, but to cultivate chrysanthemums in the heart." ”
Only by learning to please yourself can you get a lifetime of romance.
They learned to be "lazy."
Qin Lan once said: "Women, the most precious thing is the wealth and accumulation left by the years, and this age can be more relaxed to be yourself." ”
In fact, hard work has never been a blessing for women, and it will even become their shackles, because hard work in a sense means to seek perfection, means that they work hard and complain, and mean that others take their own efforts as a matter of course.
And middle-aged women who learn to be "lazy" will cultivate a sense of family responsibility for men, and will cultivate their children's ability to solve problems independently, so that their family life is becoming happier and happier, and how can women wrapped in love not look good?
Some people ask, what is the best way for people to live in middle age?
I think it should be like this, when people reach middle age, the best state of life is to learn to under-match their own lives, and then highly match their souls.
Calmly accept aging
When participating in the variety show "Idols Are Coming", Lin Qingxia has passed the age of establishment, once a beautiful and indispensable "Oriental Sect Leader".
At this moment, there are also a lot of wrinkles, but somehow, so That Lin Qingxia not only does not make people feel ugly, but also adds a kind of peace, making people can't help but want to get close.
This kind of peace actually stems from Lin Qingxia's calmness about aging, she does not regard age and wrinkles as enemies, but coexists peacefully with them.
Actor Yu Haoming once said: "We have been kidnapped by various things all our lives, before I was kidnapped by Yan Yan, and then I was kidnapped by bravery." After so many years, I finally wanted to understand that what I needed was not sympathy, but acceptance of myself. ”
All the unpleasantness in life is due to the amplification of some things, but in fact, as long as we accept it calmly, we will avoid a lot of unnecessary anxiety.
And when we learn to accept aging calmly, then the pattern is opened, and our lives will become transparent.