The Ziyang Zhuzi Family Training has a cloud: "The noble one who is the father, Ci Ye." The noble one who is the son, filial piety. Zhu Yongchun's "Maxim for Governing the Family" also said: "The godson must have a righteous party." "Since ancient times, family education has been an extremely important part of traditional Chinese families. The ancients advocated the godson's "strict kindness and compassion", in fact, in order to cultivate children who can not only distinguish between right and wrong, but also psychologically positive and healthy.
However, in today's fierce social competition, the pressure on parents is getting bigger and bigger, and the phrase "can't let children lose at the starting line" is even more popular in the "chicken baby". There is nothing wrong with hoping for jackie chan and hoping for a daughter to become a phoenix, but once the family education is too strict, and even violates the law of child growth, it will adversely affect the child's psychology and eventually lead to some irreparable consequences.
A small car accident on October 20, 2010, let the people of the whole country know a name, Yaojiaxin. Unfortunately, the piano genius's name is not known not at a concert, but because of the extremely cruel killing of the victim after a traffic accident.
Zhang Miao, who fell to the ground because of the collision accident, was not seriously injured at first, she was conscious, and there were some bruises on her body. It was around 10:30 p.m., and in the blinding headlights of the night, she struggled to distinguish the license plate of the car that hit her. At this time, the young pharmacist Xin got out of the car in a panic.
He saw this rustically dressed woman, who hadn't fallen to the ground and was even staring at her license plate. Dressed rustically, perhaps from the countryside, with a license plate, it shows that she wants to pestering herself to lose money! A strange chain of logic instantly formed in Yao Jiaxin's mind. When the woman's actions and thoughts were connected in his mind, Yao Jiaxin suddenly became crazy, and he tried desperately to separate the fault of knocking her down from himself.
Zhang Miao did not think that the big boy who got out of the car did not come to help himself, but to kill himself. In the night, Yao Jiaxin took out the knife in his bag and stabbed Zhang Miaolian six times, until the woman who kept begging him for forgiveness gradually lost her voice, and then, in the night, she drove away in a car.
Due to the panic after the killing, Yao Jiaxin bumped into two pedestrians after driving a distance, and this time he was already nervous and did not listen to the call, he was blocked on the spot by the villagers who rushed to the scene. On October 23, 2010, Yao Jiaxin, who had already experienced two police interrogations, finally couldn't help but tell the truth to his parents and surrendered to the police accompanied by his parents.
Zhang Miao's death caused an uproar across the country, and people could not understand why a high-achieving student would suddenly transform into a life-threatening demon in a small car accident. As a result, accusations of Yaojiaxin were overwhelming, but few people knew that behind Yaojiaxin's extremes was a childhood that could not be happy.
Yaojiaxin, born in 1989, was only 21 years old when the incident occurred in 2010. As a "musical genius" in the eyes of others, Yaojiaxin has a childhood experience that is difficult to let go. A chance encounter with an electronic keyboard in elementary school made him fall in love with playing the piano and proposed to his parents the idea of wanting an electronic keyboard. In those days, the electronic keyboard was nothing less than a luxury. But his parents, who had always spoiled him, fulfilled his wishes and bought him an electronic keyboard at a great price.
However, after buying the piano, Yao Jiaxin's endless nightmare began. Because of his parents' extreme pursuit of perfection, Yaojiaxin's "three-minute heat" was forced to become a long-term struggle full of hardships. Not only could he not enjoy the pleasure of playing the piano, but he would be punished by his mother for playing the wrong note.
Not only that, the harshness of parents seems to have penetrated into all aspects of YaoJiaxin's childhood and adolescent life. In the case of the parents' pursuit of perfection, YaoJiaxin's every move in school is careful, and the disputes and contradictions that students often have, as long as they reach the ears of Yaojiaxin's parents, is the reason why the son has problems, to reflect, and to apologize to others.
Criticism is a means of education rather than an end, and apparently, Yao Jiaxin's parents did not understand this very well. The military-born medicine father is even more self-righteous, has little understanding of the child's heart, and blindly hopes that the child can grow up under the admonition of his parents to become what he wants him to be. This eventually led to Yao Jiaxin's fear of "making mistakes" and his evasion of responsibility, as well as his paranoid personality, which eventually led to the occurrence of this tragedy.
Until the time of Yaojiaxin's execution, the father still held an extremely tough attitude towards his son, he refused his son's wish to donate corneas, and even said to his son with some impersonality: "I hope you will take away all your sins and stop involving others." ”
Article 232 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates that the crime of intentional homicide refers to the death penalty, life imprisonment or fixed-term imprisonment of not less than 10 years if he intentionally commits homicide; If the circumstances are less serious, he shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than ten years. After Yao Jiaxin drove the victim Zhang Miao down, in order to evade responsibility, he killed people and killed people, holding a sharp knife and stabbing the victim in the chest, abdomen, back and other places several times, killing the victim, and his behavior constituted the crime of intentional homicide.
When the public security organs did not take any compulsory measures against him, Yao Jiaxin was accompanied by his parents to the public security organs to surrender and truthfully confessed the facts of the crime, which is a voluntary surrender. However, killing people after a traffic accident in Yaojiaxin is not a passionate killing. After Yao Jiaxin drove the victim Zhang Miao down, he did not rescue him, but instead killed people and killed people, the motive for the crime was extremely despicable, the subjective malignancy was extremely deep, the means were particularly cruel, the circumstances were particularly bad, the consequences were particularly serious, the crime was extremely serious, and should be punished according to law. Although there are circumstances of voluntary surrender, it is still not enough to impose a lenient punishment.
On the morning of April 22, 2011, the Xi'an Intermediate People's Court rendered a first-instance judgment on the defendant Yao Jiaxin's intentional homicide case, sentencing Yao Jiaxin to death for intentional homicide, depriving him of his political rights for life, and compensating the victim's family for economic losses of 45,498. 5 yuan.
Although the improper family education caused Yao Jiaxin's self-paranoid psychology, as an adult, he could have dealt with the disagreement with his parents and this not serious traffic accident in a more rational way. Impulse and avoidance cannot be solutions at any time, but only exacerbate conflicts and contradictions with more serious consequences.