In 1957, in a poor family in Heilongjiang, the old drama bone Du Yuan was born.
The arrival of this child did not bring joy to the family, but a little more sorrow.
A few months after Du Yuan was born, his biological mother died.
Because the family conditions were too bitter, there was no mother and no ability to raise children, so Du Yuan was two and a half years old, he was adopted by his aunt to raise.
The conditions of the aunt's family are relatively better, and they can give Du Yuan more materially, and since then, Du Yuan has lived in his aunt's house.
His aunt gave him food, clothing, and let him go to kindergarten, in which Du Yuan met the gentle and lovely Fan Xiaochun, and because they were neighbors, the two became very good friends.
Once when the two were playing, Du Yuan held a bouquet of wildflowers to give to this girl named Fan Xiaochun;
The girl took it happily and smiled happily as if she had received a valuable gift.
Du Yuan said, "If you receive my flowers, you are my man." ”
The boy's words were unbridled, and the two made a lifelong covenant in this way.
After that, the two went to kindergarten together, and went to elementary school, junior high school, and high school together.
When I was in elementary school, I still sat at the same table and got along day and night, which made the feelings between the two deeper.
After spending 6 years in elementary school, the two laughed and played in junior high school.
The arrangement of fate did not stop here, after going to junior high school, the two were still assigned to sit at the same table, and the friendship at the same table lasted for 9 years.
In Du Yuan's childhood, all the happy memories are about Fan Xiaochun.
With the change of age, the relationship between the two is also quietly changing, from the initial friendship to a mutual crush.
After going to high school, the adolescent Fan Xiaochun became particularly beautiful, surrounded by a lot of opposite sex, some sent love letters, some confessed in person...
Fan Xiaochun's charm made Du Yuan feel a sense of crisis for the first time, but he was also secretly jealous.
Later, when the school started, Fan Xiaochun sent Du Yuan to the train station, and after sitting on his seat, Du Yuan leaned out of the train window and confessed:
"Let's do something about it."
Before Fan Xiaochun could agree, the train started, and he didn't even give the opportunity to refuse.
In fact, Fan Xiaochun did not want to refuse, and she saw what Du Yuan did in her eyes and remembered it.
After Du Yuan confessed, the two were together, and this love was a lifetime.
Before entering the entertainment industry, Du Yuan was a stevedore, the work was comfortable and boring, his ideals were far more than this, he liked to perform, and used all his spare time to imitate funny characters on the screen.
At first, he only went to act with the mentality of adding fun to his life, but in 1977, after the college entrance examination was resumed, Du Yuan decided to give it a go.
He applied for the Central Academy of Drama and worked hard for his dream for the first time, but unfortunately, the reality was far more cruel than imagined, and he did not get admitted.
Not discouraged, he took the exam again, failed again, took the exam again, and failed again.
After several consecutive examinations, Du Yuan decided to give up, but in the final battle, his efforts were finally rewarded and he was admitted.
Since then, Du Yuan bid farewell to the identity of the worker and regained his foothold in society as an acting student.
The learning process was also difficult, and Du Yuan did not even pass Mandarin, let alone learn anything else.
Before giving up and insisting, Du Yuan struggled several times, and finally decided to continue fighting.
Kung Fu pays off, Du Yuan graduated, new problems come again, no resources, no background, no appearance advantages, what can he play?
There are no innate conditions, only the efforts of the day after tomorrow.
The only thing Du Yuan can rely on is to use his acting skills to gain the approval of the director and conquer the audience.
In 1980, the 23-year-old Du Yuan played Lu Erkun in "The Last Military Salute", which is an official debut.
After his debut, he thought there would be a steady stream of plays to play, but who ever thought that he had been empty for 6 years.
During these 6 years, he ran the crew without receiving any scenes, and no director took the initiative to find him, and his life fell into a confused stage.
Just at this time, his relationship with Fan Xiaochun Qingmei Zhuma also went wrong.
The entertainment industry is a fish eye mixed beads, surrounded by beautiful women, don't look at the duyuan at that time did not have fame, but it is difficult to ensure that in the future, it will not become a big instrument, after becoming a big instrument, after seeing the world, will you still love Fan Xiaochun?
Fan Xiaochun's worries were not unreasonable.
After Du Yuan learned of the woman's careful thinking, he put down all the work in his hands and immediately went to prepare for the wedding, and then held the wedding within a month, giving the woman a reassuring pill.
After stabilizing the marriage event, Du Yuan returned to the entertainment circle and continued to learn the drill.
Until 1986, when the movie "Wild Mountain" was preparing, the original male protagonist was afraid of hardship and was unwilling to act, so the director found Du Yuan and asked him if he could bear hardships in the first sentence.
What's not to eat? From childhood to adulthood, Du Yuan ate the most bitterness, and he immediately agreed.
In order to play a good role as a rural person in the mountains, Du Yuan specially lost 20 pounds, tanned his skin, and reviewed rural life several times.
After the movie was broadcast, Du Yuan on the screen wore a worn-out denim jacket in the desolate mountains, his face was full of stubble, and his eyes were empty and confused.
He performed the essence of this character, which won the 6th Golden Rooster Award for Best Feature Film.
Du Yuan's performance, other directors also see in the eyes, after that, as long as there is a suitable character, they will find him to star.
And every time, Du Yuan carefully pondered every role, even if it was an insignificant supporting role, he also had to interpret the role with his own insights and perform inner activities.
Whether it is "Flowers Blossom and Fall", "Song Wangtai", "Grass House" starring in his youth, or "The Happy Life of Kintaro", "Blizzard Is Coming" and "Big Red Packet" after he is old, Du Yuan has always made the audience happy to see it.
With 41 years of acting career, he has become a well-deserved old drama bone.
More importantly, the woman around him was always only Fan Xiaochun.
The girl who used a bouquet of wildflowers for life at the age of 4 has accompanied him through the ups and downs of his life.
After becoming famous, Du Yuan always loved his wife as before, was not seduced by the beauty of the entertainment industry, and did not spread any gossip.
Don't look at Du Yuan on the screen is serious and serious, but in front of his wife, he is a living treasure, and he often ridicules his wife's dark skin in private, and he will only shut up after being "cleaned up" by Fan Xiaochun.
Fan Xiaochun is also a big grinning person, and the most wrong thing he does is to often forget about boiling water on the stove, resulting in more than 30 water bottles burning.
But when this matter came out of Du Yuan's mouth, his eyes were full of pampering. Without the slightest reproach, he teased his wife as a pleasure.
The couple is the best playmate in childhood, the crush that is ignorant when they are young, the desire of the heart after adulthood, the mutual companionship after old age, and the dependence for the rest of life.
Holding the hand of the son, and growing old with the son, this is more or less the case.
Writer Han Han once said:
"In fact, I have always felt that the so-called love is companionship, and there is not much else."
Companionship is the longest emotional goodbye.
The most romantic thing in love is to slowly grow old together, break into each other's time in the best youth, and use the years of a lifetime to accompany each other to the end of life.
At that time, love is not what Zhang Ailing said: "Liking a person will be humbled to the dust and then blossom."
It is what Zhu Shenghao said:
"Don't worry about old age, you must be cute when you are old." And if you are ten years old, of course I am ten years old, the world is ten years old, God is ten years old, everything is the same."
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