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Preface
When people lamented that Du Yuan continued to win awards and his career was booming, they ignored the woman behind him - Fan Xiaochun.
They are childhood sweethearts who played together at the age of 4, and they have not had any scandals for 41 years after marriage, and Du Yuan took his wife wherever he went.
However, the model couple in the eyes of the outside world has also divorced over a trivial matter, what is going on?
Although he is in a hurry, he has made continuous achievements
In 1988, Du Yuan won many awards with the movie "Grass House".
Since then, he has become a drama addict, studying acting every day.
Later, he successively starred in many movies with different genres, no matter how big or small the role is, he will create the characters into three parts.
For example, Captain Pan in "Jade Guanyin", Kim Dazhu in "Kintaro's Happy Life", etc., are still familiar now.
The honor is an affirmation of the actor himself, but for Du Yuan, this is the best feedback for his wife's silent support behind his back.
He did not flutter because of his fame, but did not forget his original intention and was more low-key.
It is precisely because of this that he has always played a stable role on the screen and has become a veritable evergreen and old actor.
Speaking of career, I have to talk about the love story of him and his wife.
Childhood sweetheart parting confession
The two seem to be destined for marriage in their previous lives.
At that time, the economy was very difficult, Du Yuan's family lacked food and clothing every day, and his mother died not long after giving birth to him.
His father was really helpless, so he passed him on to his aunt in Harbin to raise.
The winter in the Northeast is very cold, and my aunt is distressed to put on a thick cotton jacket for Du Yuan.
His uncle was also very good to him, teaching him to read and write, play with slingshots, guess lantern riddles...
As the days passed, Du Yuan grew up day by day.
When he was four years old, his glass beads accidentally rolled into the yard next door, and he originally wanted to pick them up, but as soon as he looked up, he bumped into the neighbor's daughter Fan Xiaochun.
Fate is so wonderful, the two dolls at this time don't know that they will stay together for a lifetime in the future.
The friendship between children is very pure, today you give me a fruit, tomorrow I give you a piece of candy;
A few years later, they went to the same junior high school, and the high school was also together.
Take care of your life, play together in your spare time, and help without saying a word if you encounter any difficulties.
But no one has thought about boyfriends and girlfriends, at most they are treated by the brother and little sister next door.
But there is no banquet in the world that will not be separated, and the two who were once inseparable will also face the fate of each side of the world when they graduate.
However, in each other's hearts, each other has long become irreplaceable people.
After graduating from high school, Du Yuan worked as a stevedore at the Geological Surveying Bureau.
Faced with a life where he looked at the end every day and had nothing to do, he decided to look for a turnaround.
You will meet many people in your life, and it is the noble people who help you succeed.
Du Yuan really met Bole, a teacher in the theater who helped him succeed.
At that time, the college entrance examination resumed, and the other party saw that although Du Yuan looked old-fashioned, his personality was quite suitable for acting, so he suggested that he apply for an acting college to try.
At the examination site, Du Yuan looked at the men and women with excellent conditions, and his heart inevitably became nervous.
When the examiner asked him what kind of talent he had, he directly picked up a newspaper that Fan Xiaochun gave him before entering the examination room and read it.
Maybe it was fate, or maybe it was a coincidence, Du Yuan was really admitted.
On the train platform, she looked at him as he was about to go away, tears rolling in her eyes.
The two who are about to separate are worried about whether they will be able to get the answers they want in a few years, and the idea of breaking the layer of window paper has inevitably popped up in their hearts.
Soon, the train was about to leave, and Du Yuan couldn't afford to think about it.
As he drifted away, he finally shouted out the words that had been hidden in his heart for a long time: "Let's be together!"
Happy and worried, he got farther and farther away from the platform,
But Fan Xiaochun didn't hear what he was shouting clearly, just watched him disappear from sight, and then turned his head to leave.
The distress and happiness of school in Chinese opera
Du Yuan was quite happy when he went to school in Chinese opera, because he remembered that his aunt would often come all the way to see him.
A change of clothes throughout the year, various specialties of Harbin, pickled pickled cabbage with chili sauce by yourself...
Of course, Fan Xiaochun will also take the time to come to play with him.
In the prime of her youth, she is even more beautiful, and every time she goes to find Du Yuan, everyone always jokes about where he deceived the girl.
When Du Yuan asked her why she rejected her when she was separated, but she always came to find her, Fan Xiaochun looked confused and didn't know what he was talking about.
Only then did it dawn on me, but the distance was too far, and people didn't hear what they were shouting at all.
The silly boy laughed, scratched his head and said embarrassedly, "Why don't we have a partner?"
Of course, Fan Xiaochun already had a place in his heart, and nodded embarrassedly.
Since then, the two have met when they have time and written letters to communicate when they don't.
Later, during a casual conversation in the dormitory, his roommate asked Du Yuan what he liked about Mr. Lu Xun's works, and he didn't know who Lu Xun was.
The classmate jokingly ridiculed: Lu Xun doesn't even know?
Du Yuan suddenly found that he was very different from the people around him, as if he was too ordinary, and he looked old.
After being poured cold water like this, he also began to doubt himself, and every day he thought about whether to drop out of school and hurry home to find a class to earn money.
Later, once Fan Xiaochun went to see Du Yuan at school, he suddenly found that his aunt hadn't come for a long time, so he asked her how her aunt was doing.
As a result, Fan Xiaochun said that her aunt was unwell and couldn't go out.
Du Yuan was so anxious that he even immediately went to drop out of school and go home to take care of his aunt.
Fan Xiaochun hurriedly dissuaded him, and seriously asked him to study Xi hard, there is no need to worry about her at home, the most important thing is to have a future in the future.
With the encouragement of his girlfriend, Du Yuan's thoughts of dropping out of school were suppressed.
He began to plunge into the Xi, if he couldn't take cultural classes, he would study, if he couldn't act, he would practice the script, and if he didn't have a good foundation, he would squeeze time to make up for it...
The hard work paid off, and after such a toss, the teachers found that he made very rapid progress, and he was able to shoot his own works during school.
In the blink of an eye, everyone is about to graduate.
Just when the students were submitting resumes, looking for scripts, and thinking about how to take root in the big city.
Du Yuan made an unexpected decision - to leave Beijing and return to his hometown.
The career is booming, and it is trivial after marriage
It turned out that he knew that Fan Xiaochun had been waiting for him, and he was going back to give her an explanation.
For four years, she has been taking care of her "parents", and it is she who has allowed herself to focus on her studies and Xi without being disturbed by others.
Therefore, the first thing Du Yuan did when he came back was to go to the door to propose his relatives.
Witnessed by their families, the two simply held a wedding and officially became husband and wife.
After marriage, the two were crammed into a very small house, although they lived in a snail's nest, they didn't care, as long as they loved each other deeply.
At that time, Fan Xiaochun, who had just become a wife, was not skilled in cooking, and Du Yuan could only spread an egg and cook noodles.
But the two encouraged each other, bought recipes and learned to cook together when they had time, although such a day was simple, but happy.
The world of two is always beautiful, but wouldn't a family of three be warmer?
Soon, the arrival of her daughter added a lot of laughter to this small family.
If love is a romantic rose, then marriage is an ordinary firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Either way, the best way for people to get along with each other is to be tolerant and understanding.
After marriage, Fan Xiaochun is also very supportive and tolerant of Du Yuan's career, fully supports him to go out to film, and looks forward to his achievements.
He also respects his wife very much, and often shows her the scripts he receives, and never makes kiss scenes with female stars.
It doesn't matter how hard and tired I am in the crew, I just want to give my wife and daughter a worry-free life.
How dedicated is Du Yuan?
I never bring a script to the scene, I always memorize the lines in advance, and I also memorize the opponent's lines, almost all of which are done over and over again.
Fan Xiaochun also often takes his daughter and prepared meals to visit the crew, hoping that he won't work too hard.
Heaven will not fail everyone who works hard.
Du Yuanzhen succeeded and became a "professional father" in the entertainment industry, and he also won various awards.
Although all this is inseparable from the wife who silently supports him behind him, this does not delay the two from fighting.
Once because of what to talk about, Du Yuan casually said that Fan Xiaochun became fatter and fatter after giving birth, and his figure couldn't be maintained.
As a wife, you have to have children, you have to be able to do housework, you have to serve the family, and you have to keep your figure so that you can look good?
Whoever hears this will be angry.
Fan Xiaochun's temper came up all of a sudden, and he just vented the grievances in his heart.
What about this Du Yuan? My heart is also unbalanced, I said casually, you are so angry?
The two had a big quarrel and almost got divorced.
Fortunately, they reconciled under the persuasion of the elders, and they all apologized to each other.
Later, Fan Xiaochun deliberately replaced the pots and pans at home with stainless steel, which made him angry and angry in the future.
Not to mention, these stainless steel pots and bowls have really been dropped countless times by Du Yuan, intentionally or unintentionally.
When Du Yuan later talked about this memory on the show, he said that his wife often used a small tongs to knock these pots and pans back to the original state and then use them.
It's really laughable.
As a father, he is often strict, and his husband is occasionally romantic
Du Yuan's education of his daughter can be said to be both strict and tolerant.
He doesn't ask his daughter to have dazzling results, and he doesn't need to compare with others, as long as he makes a little progress every day.
The father, who is not good at expressing love, loves his daughter in his own way, teaches her how to grow up happily, and copes with all kinds of things in life in the right way.
Because his own experience has a great impact on his daughter, he also supports his daughter's admission to drama school.
After graduating, her daughter has a successful career.
Although it is said that his daughter is her father's little padded jacket, Du Yuan often feels sorry for her.
When he got older, he also began to play "little romance" with his wife.
Once Fan Xiaochun celebrated his birthday, he saw that the tires on his wife's car were seriously worn, so he directly bought four big tires and put them in the house to surprise her.
Is this a gift from a straight man?
Fan Xiaochun was full of joy when he saw the four tires, and his heart instantly cooled half.
Later, under the guidance of his daughter, he opened his mind.
Order a bouquet of flowers for the New Year's holidays, even if it is left for two days and it will be broken, but what woman would not like it?
Now the family is also happy,
Some time ago, the media photographed Du Yuan taking his baby grandson to the park, which is really a kiss from the next generation.
epilogue
There are too many feelings in the entertainment industry like child's play, falling in love and getting married today, and breaking up tomorrow are like passers-by.
Especially like Du Yuan and Fan Xiaochun, there are really not many old couples who have had zero scandals for decades, have been with each other for decades, and have been consistent.
In the past, the road was very long, the carriage and horse were very slow, and there was only enough love for one person in a lifetime.
Now that the Internet is developed, maybe love has become a luxury, but I hope you and I can meet him who will work together for the rest of our lives.
Resources:
[1] Very Quiet Distance - "Drama Bone Life, Sarina, Du Yuan"
[2] Tianjin Satellite TV - Heroes Club "The Happy Life of a Low-key Man Du Yuan"
[3] BTV Literature and Art - Film and Television "The Legend of the Northeast People"
[4] Inner Mongolia Satellite TV - Du Yuan: I have an agreement with "Ma Lanhua Blossom".