Love is like an invisible thread that can connect two unrelated people together and is inseparable from then on. However, even if they are close lovers, if they do not pay attention to the measure of getting along, sooner or later they will be separated.
In love, if that person really loves you, then he will pay attention to every detail of getting along with you and will not ignore any point, because he is afraid that if he is not careful, he will lose you.
If you find that your lover always offends you from time to time, often makes you sad and disappointed, then you must be prepared in your heart, and he may not be true love at all. A man who genuinely cares about you won't touch these 4 things of yours unless he doesn't love you!
1, your weakness
With a lover, women usually do not hide their weaknesses, the reason why they say it is to make men feel more sorry for themselves, but also to remind men, if you can, do not touch their weaknesses. But when two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels, and when quarrels, many people will lose their minds and say a lot of ugly things to their lovers.
But no matter what, if a man attacks you with your weaknesses when arguing, then he must not care enough about you, and women should not believe it. Men who really care about you will not be willing to attack the place where you can make you most painful, and no matter how angry they are, they will not touch this "thing".
2. Your privacy
Many people say that since two people have chosen to love each other, they are already connected, and they can distinguish between you and me, but in this world, everyone is an independent individual, and it is impossible to really be completely honest with each other.
If a man doesn't respect your privacy, flips through your phone at will, and touches your personal belongings without your permission, then he must not be truly in love with you. Although it seems to care about your performance, it is actually a kind of distrust and disrespect for you. A man who genuinely cares about you won't do something like this because he knows it's going to make people feel uncomfortable, and he's not willing to do that to you.
3. Your wallet
In love, many women take it for granted that they spend men's money, but in fact, this is not a behavior worth advocating, and in the same way, men should not think about spending women's money. If a man touches your wallet regularly, spends your money casually, and sometimes doesn't even greet you, the man must not love you.
People who truly love you will work hard to make money and give you a better quality of life instead of thinking about spending your money. Because it is undeniable that people's happiness is now closely related to money, if a man can't even support himself, there is no way to bring happiness to women.
4, the bottom line of your work
A thousand people will also have a thousand views on the same thing, and everyone has their own bottom line of doing things, and these bottom lines are not allowed to be violated and crossed by others.
Women usually resist things that violate their own principles, so this requires men to know enough about their lovers. This should be a "compulsory lesson" for a man who really cares about you, if a man can't do this, it not only shows that he has not thought of understanding your mood and taking care of your feelings, but also shows that his attention to you is also insufficient.
Many women are very hard in love, and their hearts clearly suspect that men's love for themselves may not be very true, but they dare not face the truth, and can only bear the pain of love. In fact, if there is no connection between you, even if you are not willing to face it, sooner or later you will part ways.
So, women, if they find that men show signs of not loving you, must be willing to let go of his hand. A man, if he does not know how to care for you, then he probably does not give you the truth, do not make excuses for him, he is not worth it. Let go of the wrong person, will meet the person who can really warm themselves, women should be willing to give themselves a chance.
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