"I'm getting along with someone else, let's get a divorce."
In 1997, Song Dandan dialed Yingda's phone and told the other party in an extremely calm tone that he had cheated on him. Helping the other party to liberate is also a salvation for oneself, and after hearing Yingda's "Okay" reply, Song Dandan was relieved.
And Yingda, a month after divorcing Song Dandan, tied up with Liang Huanxi, the sister of Liang Tian, the sister of Liang Tian, one of the screenwriters of "I Love My Home".
Just when Yingda was happy that he was about to start a new life, he found that he was actually deceived.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Family</h1>
Indah was very noble.
His grandfather, Yingzhi, was a Qing Dynasty eunuch who had close contacts with Liang Qichao, participated in the "Penghu Reform Law", and was the founder of the Ta Kung Pao and Fu Jen University in Beijing.
Going down, Ying Qianli, the son of Ying Qianzhi, is the teacher of Ma Ying-jeou and Yu Guangzhong.
And the daughter Yingyin is a well-known actor in Shanghai. In addition, Yingyin also has a special identity, that is, "secret worker", Gu Xiaomeng, played by Zhou Xun in the movie "The Sound of the Wind", is based on Yingyin.
Later, Ying Qianli's son and Yingda's father, Yingruo Cheng, had multiple identities such as translator, actor, director, and also served as vice minister of culture.
Thanks to the virtue of her ancestors, Yingda has been a celebrity in Beijing since she was a child, and her natural walking is also much smoother.
After graduating from Peking University, he was transferred from the directing department of the Drama School to psychology because of his high myopia, and Yingda caught up with the first wave of domestic study abroad fever in 1985 and went to the United States to study theater.
At that time, taking off with Yingda was Also Yingda's first wife, his Peking University alumni. In line with the principle of being responsible for other girls, Yingda received the certificate with the girl before going abroad.
But who knows, when Yingda went out, it was a "two-person tour", and when he came back, he immediately became a bachelor.
The goal of Studying Abroad in Yingda is very clear, that is, to study performance culture abroad, and as soon as the task is completed, it will return to China immediately.
At that time, returning home was the best plan for Indah, but for his wife, the future of staying abroad was even greater. Everyone has their own ambitions, as dashing as when they first got a marriage license, and Yingda and his wife broke up peacefully.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > at first sight</h1>
In 1987, Yingda returned to China, and it was not long before he met Song Dandan at the scene of the rehearsal drama "Arsonist". At that time, Song Dandan had just been divorced and was already a well-known actor in China.
Lang Cai is a woman, and her emotional experience is extremely similar. Two years later, the two married in a low-key manner.
As the only son in the family, Yingda has lived an extremely leisurely life since childhood, which has led to the fact that after marriage, the heavy responsibility of life is all pressed on Song Dandan alone.
In addition, in 1989, Song Dandan became the economic pillar of his family because of a sketch on the Spring Festival Gala, "Lazy Blind Date", which was popular all over the country, and his career ushered in an upward period.
In addition to worrying about chai rice oil and salt, you are also responsible for making money to support your family. When Song Dandan recalled this marriage, he once said that even if a light bulb was broken at home, Yingda would have to wait until he went back to change it.
But even so, Song Dandan was still tired and happy.
Yingda came from a traditional family, came from a wealthy family, and was proud from an early age. But at this time, compared with Song Dandan, Yingda can be described as inferior.
At that time, Yingda and Song Dandan were still peaceful and loving. But a few years later, Indah wrote an article called "It's Wrong to Plant a Big Tree in a Pot and Root It."
This article was once understood by Song Dandan as saying that Indah likened himself to a big tree, and Song Dandan was a flowerpot that could not hold a big tree.
But later, Indah explained that she never said who was the big tree and who was the flower pot. The implication is that Song Dandan has grown too fast, so fast that his flowerpot can no longer be filled.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > marital crisis</h1>
In 1993, Yingda gathered a group of friends - Liang Tian, Liang Zuo, Liang Huan three brothers and sisters, Wen Xingyu, Guan Ling and his wife Song Dandan, together to produce the first sitcom in the mainland - "I Love My Home".
The broadcast of this drama has achieved Yingda, and at the same time, Song Dandan's career has reached a higher level. The marriage of the two also had its first crisis at this time.
Yingda and Liang Huan got better. Song Dandan felt funny when he first heard the news, how could it be, Liang Huan and his two brothers can be said to share a face, in addition to being younger than themselves, it seems that they can't find other advantages.
But in the eyes of the lover, Indah is just like this. In Indah's words, "When a man sees a woman who is better in some way, he will have the psychology of bringing her to his own home." ”
For Yingda, "Song Dandan's husband" and "Yingruocheng's son" made him feel hateful. Compared with Song Dandan, who shines brightly under the magnesium lamp and is famous all over the world, Liang Huan, who is talented but active behind the scenes, seems to be more able to satisfy Yingda's machismo.
However, due to the strict family education, the ancestors regarded the divorce as a family ugly, and Yingda's father was extremely opposed to the divorce, so the relationship between Song Dandan and Yingda was postponed again and again.
From the initial quarrel, to the later evolution into cold violence and simply no return at night, Song Dandan finally couldn't bear it. So very quickly found a man to fall in love, three days later, Song Dandan called Yingda, told him the truth, and proposed divorce.
On the day of the divorce, Song Dandan also knew his affection, saying that he had confessed and hoped that Yingda could honestly explain his relationship with Liang Huan.
However, Yingda still denied it, and even asked Song Dandan: "Do you think it is possible?" I don't know, Song Dandan has seen that on the pager that Yingda accidentally dropped, there is Liang Huan's message: Is it still going well? When will you come back.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > deceived</h1>
A month after the divorce, Yingda and Liang Huan quickly got married. And Song Dandan, also on August 25 of the same year, and her husband, who had known each other for less than a month, a man who had been kindly become old Zhao by Song Dandan, received a license.
Yingda married Liang Huan, originally looking at her screenwriting talent and talented female identity. However, just when Yingda wanted to show his fist in his acting career in order to hope for a bright future that was invincible in the world, Liang Huan announced that he would close his pen.
Not only did he not write to Yingda, but even when others came to the door to beg Liang Huan to come out of the mountain, Liang Huan also said quite reasonably: "I will not write when Yingda looks for me, so you can forget it." ”
Not only did she give up her screenwriting career, Liang Huan was not a housewife at home. Every day I don't get up until eleven o'clock, and when I'm hungry, I get up and find something to eat.
"I haven't even eaten a single breakfast made by Liang Huan." Compared with the treatment of the previous marriage, "clothes to open their mouths and reach out", Yingda also has to cook herself.
Later, in her own article, Indah described it as a "misstep": I had planned to make money with her, but this was good, not only did she not make a penny herself, but also wanted me to make money to support her.
Maybe the wicked are born to grind the wicked, blindly accepting the good of others is very easy and very easy not to be cherished, and only after comparison, can you understand, know that you were in the blessing before and did not know the blessing.
At the other extreme, Indah dislikes Song Dandan, so she hates it along with Batuu, the son born to Song Dandan.
When he divorced Song Dandan, Batuu was only 7 years old, and at that time, Batu did not know that the relationship between Yingda and Song Dandan had broken down, but simply wanted his father to take him out to play, but was sternly rejected by Yingda.
Later, as he grew older, Batuu wanted to take the initiative to repair the father-son relationship, and once asked Indah for a phone number, but was also rejected.
In this regard, Yingda's explanation is that after the divorce, there should be no longer any contact, and he and Song Dandan can no longer be friends.
This can't help but remind people that when Faye Wong and Dou Wei divorced, they were asked by reporters if they had thought about what kind of father they would find for Dou Jingtong in the future.
Faye Wong's reply at the time was: "Tong Tong has her father, and all I have to find is my own partner." ”
Indah seems to have forgotten that father and husband are two different identities.