01
In the process of getting along with two people, the most feared thing is to meet a person who does not respond, no matter how you pay, the other party is not responding, and even in the end, they will no longer contact you.
When you meet such a person, you know in your heart that you should put it down, but you can't control yourself, and you still want to contact him to try it, maybe there will be a different result.
Unfortunately, the more persistent you are, the more you will not get the love you want, and when he makes up his mind not to contact you again, he is ready to leave, at this time, no matter what you do, it is in vain.
When a person likes you, he will naturally contact you very actively, as long as he has free time, he will go to you, even if he will be disliked by you, he also feels that he does not care.
But once he no longer likes you, he does not want to contact you, and even if you send him a message, he is in a state of no response, at this time, you should understand his intentions.
If the person you like is no longer contacting you, the most important thing you should do is not to continue to contact him and figure out his ideas, but to leave him and try to live yourself.
02
Once the moon was a person who was desperate for love, which is what we often call the "love brain".
She liked a boy very much at that time, and when the two were together, she always gave more, and she often took the initiative to send messages, asking about his daily life, caring about whether he had enough to eat and wear, and even saved her pocket money for him.
When Yue Yue did this, she did not feel wronged, but felt very happy, as long as that person could live well, she was willing to do anything, of course, she still had an expectation in her heart, that is, to slowly move him, let him fall in love with himself, and be with himself.
It's a pity that you can never wake up a person who doesn't love you, and after doing so much, Yue Yue can't get an active response from the other party.
There were also a few times, he took the initiative to contact her, but they were all looking for her help, in addition, there was no other theme, and when Yue Yue helped him finish things, he did not contact again.
Later, when Yue Yue contacted him, he couldn't find him, he often replied to the message the next day, or simply didn't reply, at first Yue Yue thought he was busy, until she saw him walking with other girls, she understood everything.
It turns out that a person does not contact you for a reason, he does not love you to not want to contact you, even if you do more, to the other party, it is meaningless.
03
After that, Yue Yue began to wake up, she did not want to be humbled for a person anymore, she decided to start to be herself.
She signed up for dance classes to get in better shape, and there were some online classes to improve herself and wanted to get better.
When she is devoted to what she loves, she is no longer trapped by love, only thinking about the things of the moment, and is always in a state of flow, which makes her very happy.
Later, when she looked back on that past, she would only laugh at herself for being stupid, not understanding why she was so humble and paid for someone who was not worth it.
Now she no longer lives for anyone, only thinks about herself, and what she does is positive and full of energy, and she has never felt that a moment is so fulfilling as it is now.
What's even stranger is that when she was about herself and made certain achievements, the person came back to contact her, saying that he had failed her in the first place, hoping to make up for it.
At this time, Yue Yue just smiled and did not want to entangle this relationship anymore, she deserved better people, she deserved better love.
04
Only when a person lives out of himself will he let go of the past, and when he thinks about the past, you will laugh at yourself for being stupid and not understand how you could be like that at that time.
If you don't love yourself, how can that person love you? When he doesn't contact you, you should understand that he just doesn't like you and doesn't bother to contact you.
If you are repeatedly entangled, it will only make him away from you, and you yourself will become less like yourself, only when you are far away from people who are not worthy and try to live yourself, you will find a different world.
Instead of wasting time on unimportant people, it is better to improve yourself, spend time on yourself, and when you get better and better, the other party may turn back to you.
In this life, the most important thing is always yourself, I hope you can remember!