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Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

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Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Zhu Qingyang and his father Zhu Shimao

Young director Zhu Qingyang is the son of the famous actor Zhu Shimao, born in Beijing in August 1992, graduated from New York University majoring in film production.

Zhu Qingyang directed and starred in films such as "Spy Lotus", "Sun Goddess", "Quit Smoking and Not Drinking", "Summer of Poplar" and other films, which were widely praised by people inside and outside the circle.

Zhu Qingyang witnessed his parents' stormy marriage, and now that he is married and has become a father, he must be as happy as his parents' marriage...

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In August 1992, when Zhu Qingyang was born, his father Zhu Shimao was 38 years old, and his mother Fan Xuxia was 40 years old. In those days, it was rare to have a first child at such an old age.

Zhu Qingyang once asked his parents, "Why did you give birth to me at such an old age?" "He found the answer from his mother...

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Zhu Shimao's "Blue Whale Emergency Dispatch" makeup photo (1985)

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Zhu Shimao and Cong Shan stills of "Wrangler" (1982)

Zhu Shimao was born in 1954 in Yantai, Shandong Province, with a total of 10 brothers and sisters, he is the sixth in the family, and has 4 younger siblings below.

When Zhu Shimao was 12 years old, his father unfortunately died of illness, and his mother did not remarry, supporting this stormy big family with weak shoulders. Zhu Shimao became a soldier at the age of 16 and began to help his mother support his family.

Fan Xuxia was born in 1952 in Yantai, Shandong Province, two years older than Zhu Shimao, and both were actors in the Fujian Military Region's Repertory Theatre.

In 1980, Zhu Shimao and Fan Xuxia married in Fuzhou. Two years later, Zhu Shimao starred in the film "Wrangler" and began to become popular nationwide.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Young Fan Xuxia

In 1982, Zhu Shimao was transferred to the Bayi Film Studio in Beijing as an actor, and Fan Xuxia followed her husband to Beijing.

At this time, Zhu Shimao was 28 years old, and Fan Xuxia was 30 years old, and it was time to conceive a baby. But the couple pushed back the date of giving birth to the baby, for two reasons: First, Zhu Shimao was just transferred to the Bayi Factory, and he felt that giving birth to a baby as soon as he came in would affect his work, and he was sorry for the leader who had the grace of knowing and meeting.

Second, after Zhu Shimao's father died, his brothers and sisters were married and married. They are all ordinary people and have average economic conditions, so Zhu Shimao has become the pillar of the family. He not only has to raise his mother, but also has to pay for his 4 younger siblings to go to school and help them get married and start a family.

In 1991, Zhu Shimao's younger siblings were very stable, and he and his wife were relieved to conceive the baby.

After Zhu Qingyang understood things, his father once said to him: "Your mother is the best woman in the world, and I am very happy to marry her." For more than 10 years, my salary has almost always been to support my mother and younger siblings, and your mother has never complained. ”

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Young Zhu Shimao

Zhu Qingyang looked up at the little red face and said, "Dad, when I grow up, I will also find a wife like my mother." Zhu Shimao lovingly took his son in his arms.

After Zhu Qingyang was born, the financial burden on Zhu Shimao and his wife became heavier. At that time, they did not have additional remuneration for acting and filming, and they also lived on a meager salary.

Zhu Shimao pays special attention to family affection, and every year on the birthdays of his mother and 9 brothers and sisters, he has to send gifts if he can't go. Fan Xuxia was frugal and calculating, and had never bothered Zhu Shimao because of these trivial matters.

On the mother-in-law's birthday, Fan Xuxia generally goes to the post office to send 1,000 yuan, and Zhu Shimao's brothers and sisters generally send 500 yuan on their birthdays.

In 2001, when Zhu Qingyang was 9 years old, one day his mother took him to send money to his grandmother. On the way, he saw children playing with remote control cars, and he shouted for it.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Mr. and Mrs. Zhu Shimao

Fan Xuxia took her son to the store to take a look, and found that the toy car cost more than 600 yuan, she was reluctant to buy it, and forcibly pulled her son home. Zhu Qingyang cried all the way, and Fan Xuxia's eyes were also full of tears.

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Every year during the Spring Festival, parents would take Zhu Qingyang back to Yantai to pay respects to grandma. From the first to the fourth day of the first grade, Zhu Shimao's brothers and sisters would bring their children over, there were more than 20 children alone, and Fan Xuxia would wrap a red envelope for each child.

And zhu Shimao's brothers and sisters gave Zhu Qingyang a red envelope, Fan Xuxia resolutely did not want it. Grandma said to Zhu Qingyang many times: "Your mother is a good woman who chooses one in a thousand miles, if you change to another woman, your father will take care of the family so much, he will have to quarrel upside down." ”

After growing up and understanding things, Zhu Qingyang realized that outsiders say that their parents are happy in marriage, but in fact, this happiness is exchanged for by her mother with tolerance, generosity, and forbearance. If Mom had been preoccupied and quarreled with Dad over what was going on over there in Grandma's house, they wouldn't have been able to get to where they are today!

In Zhu Qingyang's mind, her mother is the kindest and most loving woman.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Zhu Shimao family portrait

In 2004, Zhu Qingyang graduated from junior high school and went to the United States to attend high school. Zhu Shimao and his wife were not at ease and decided that Fan Xuxia would accompany them to the reading. Zhu Qingyang heard that some mothers went abroad to accompany them to study, and their fathers stayed at home to work, and as a result, their parents divorced.

Zhu Qingyang had the sadness of a teenager, and he said to his mother: "Mom, don't go to study with your father, live in Beijing with your father." ”

Fan Xuxia asked her son, "Do you think your mother is around a lot of trouble?" Zhu Qingyang shook his head, and then expressed his concerns.

Zhu Shimao took his son in his arms and promised his son and wife: "Dad is a man of integrity, with such a lovely son and such a virtuous wife, how can I not cherish it?" Rest assured, our home will always be unbreakable, always a solid equilateral triangle. ”

During his wife's study in the United States, Zhu Shimao had to visit his relatives once every semester. Usually, he often calls his wife and son.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Zhu Shimao

Living alone in Beijing, Zhu Shimao is self-sufficient and does not interact privately with the opposite sex. Zhu Shimao is handsome and calm, and his body shows the charm of men. He faced temptations in the days when his wife was away, but he was not captured by sugar-coated shells.

During the winter and summer vacations, Zhu Qingyang and his mother returned to China to reunite with his father, who would reduce his workload and cook for the mother and son at home.

Sometimes my mother had to rush to cook, and my father said, "You have worked hard to take care of your son abroad, now let me take care of you too, so that I will feel better." ”

Zhu Qingyang saw tears welling up in his mother's eyes, and he knew that these were warm and comforting tears.

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In 2009, after graduating from high school, Zhu Qingyang was admitted to New York University in the United States to study filmmaking. At this time, Zhu Qingyang's expenses were even greater, and it was not easy for Zhu Shimao to bear the life of mother and son abroad.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Chen Peisi and Zhu Shimao performed the skit "Eating Noodles" at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala in 1984

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Zhu Shimao and Chen Peisi performed the skit "Protagonist and Supporting Role" at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala in 1990

At this time, Zhu Shimao was no longer popular, making money was very hard, and he had also experienced various hardships. He has long been transferred to the China Broadcasting Arts Troupe, and every month he will pay his living expenses to his wife's bank card on time.

Fan Xuxia said to her son: "We spent a lot of money on your father, he is not easy. She also told her son about her beautiful past with her husband.

In the 1980s, Zhu Shimao and Chen Peisi became popular in the country after performing sketches such as "Lamb Kebab", "Protagonist and Supporting Role", and "Policeman and Thief" at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala.

Although there is no additional remuneration for the performance, sometimes the performer will make a supper for Zhu Shimaofa cake and chocolate. He was reluctant to eat it and took it home for Fan Xuxia to eat.

Someone said to Fan Xuxia: "Your husband is famous, and your marriage is unstable." Fan Xuxia once had concerns in her heart. In order to give his wife a sense of security, Zhu Shimao was better to Fan Xuxia, holding his wife's hand in public many times.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

In an interview, Zhu Shimao said that his wife was his benefactor and that he had only been married once in his life.

The past is not like smoke. Talking about this with her son, Fan Xuxia still had tears in her eyes.

Zhu Qingyang told his mother: "Dad once told me that he was lucky to marry you. Fan Xuxia replied, "I am also lucky to live with your father." ”

The love of parents subtly affects Zhu Qingyang's concept of marriage and love.

During college, Zhu Qingyang's short film "Sun Goddess" won the Best Student Short Film Award at the Hollywood Film Festival in Los Angeles. He has also worked on several teams as a director, cinematographer, script supervisor, executive producer, and other roles.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Stills from Zhu Shimao's "Spy Lotus"

Zhu Shimao is very proud of his son's excellence, and he has said in front of his friends many times: "My son studied film in the United States, and he will definitely develop in the entertainment industry after returning to China." ”

In July 2013, Zhu Qingyang completed his studies, Fan Xuxia and her son returned to China, and Zhu Shimao and his wife ended a 9-year separation.

In the long 9 years, Zhu Shimao has been self-righteous, and there has never been a scandal, reflecting the good character of a man.

In the winter of 2013, Zhu Qingyang began filming the film "Spy Lotus". The film is creative and shot in a Hollywood way.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

The "Star II" actor in "Spy Lotus"

In 2015, "Spy Lotus" was released in major theaters across the country, causing great repercussions. In addition to being a director, Zhu Qingyang also played the male protagonist "Xue Jing" in the film.

The film also brings together the famous "second generation of stars" such as Gao Liwen, Pan Yang, Yingbatu, Chen Yuemei, and Li Dahai. In order to show support for his son, Zhu Shimao also played an important role in the film, and he also pulled his old partner Chen Peisi in.

In October 2017, Zhu Qingyang's film "The Summer of Hu Yang" was released nationwide, ushering in a wave of praise.

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Zhu Qingyang is 1.79 meters tall, handsome and handsome, and many girls like him. Zhu Qingyang has a primary criterion for finding a partner, that is, the woman must have a good personality, and it is not too important whether she is beautiful or not.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Zhu Qingyang (right) with Chen Peisi's son Chen Dayu

This winter, Zhu Qingyang fell in love, and his girlfriend was also a returnee, 1 year younger than him, engaged in cultural work in Beijing. The girlfriend has a gentle personality, a kind heart, and is still very beautiful, which is a good match for Zhu Qingyang.

In 2018, Zhu Qingyang got married, and Mr. and Mrs. Zhu Shimao organized a wedding for their son in Beijing. Chen Peisi, Liu Xiaoqing, Feng Xiaogang, Sun Nan, Zhao Baogang and other friends came to congratulate the scene, and Zhu Jun served as the wedding host.

When it was Zhu Qingyang's turn to deliver his wedding speech, he said emotionally: "I have witnessed the ups and downs of my parents all the way, their happy marriage is a mirror for me, and I must cherish marriage like my parents and only get married once in my life." ”

Zhu Qingyang's newlywed wife burst into tears, and the guests at the scene also gave Zhu Qingyang the warmest applause.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Zhu Qingyang with his wife and daughter

This year, Zhu Qingyang and his wife's daughter were born and became fathers, and he was more responsible. After Zhu Shimao was upgraded to a grandfather, he fell into a surprise and excitement. He often visited his granddaughter with his wife, and he felt happy every time he did a small thing for her granddaughter.

In 2019, when the granddaughter turned one year old, Zhu Shimao and his wife also held a first birthday banquet for the granddaughter. Mr. and Mrs. Zhu Qingyang held their daughter and stood with their parents, and a happy and comfortable smile appeared on the faces of both generations.

In February 2022, Zhu Qingyang turned 30 years old, and his parents have entered their old age. Now the marriage is fragile, some young people divorce at every turn, Zhu Shimao and his wife are not steadfast in their hearts.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Zhu Shimao with his wife

Zhu Qingyang told his parents: "I know your concerns, please rest assured, I will live a good life, manage the marriage with the same heart as you do, and grow old with my wife." ”

Yes, Zhu Shimao and his wife do not have excessive requirements for their sons, as long as their sons and daughters-in-law live a good life, it is the greatest filial piety to them.

"Savor Celebrity" Reviews:

Zhu Shimao was handsome and had been extremely popular for a while, facing many temptations. It should be said that there is still a certain gap between his wife Fan Xuxia's conditions in all aspects and him.

But Zhu Shimao loves his wife, son, and family, which shows a man's responsibility. Some actors of the same age have been divorced twice, and some have been married 3 times, while Zhu Shimao and his first love wife have held hands until they are old, which is even more precious.

Zhu Qingyang, son of Zhu Shimao: Witnessing my parents' stormy marriage, I also want to be as happy as my parents

Zhu Shimao and his son Zhu Qingyang

Good family style can be passed on. Zhu Shimao's happy marriage with his wife is like a mirror, subtly influencing his son Zhu Qingyang. He will also be like his parents, carefully managing the marriage and living a good life.

Here, the author would like to remind parents that although divorce is not inherited, it will invisibly affect the children's concept of marriage and love, and bring negative effects to the children. Some children are afraid of love and fear of marriage, and some even if they are married, they lack reverence for marriage, resulting in unhappy marriages. For your own sake and your children, please be kind to marriage!

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