When people reach middle age, they always can't avoid getting fat and getting fat, and their faces will be more or less covered with the wind and frost of the years.
But Mei Ting's appearance made people's eyes shine uncontrollably.
Now 49 years old, as a mother of two children, she is still dignified and elegant, with a smile and a smile full of calm and quiet years.
Who would have thought that the girl who once served as a "tool man" in the Spring Festival Gala would one day become a big star and leave a touch of her own color in the history of film and television.
And this is also closely related to Mei Ting's character.
"For the sake of what you like, you can suffer anything. ”
In April 1975, Mei Ting was born in a military family in Nanjing, Jiangsu.
Under the words and deeds of her parents, Mei Ting's resolute and resolute character of not admitting defeat was cultivated.
And such a character has also accompanied Mei Ting's life.
At the age of 7, Mei Ting was admitted to the Nanjing Little Red Flower Art Troupe to study dance with excellent results.
Because of her beautiful appearance, thick eyebrows and big eyes, fair skin, and extremely photogenic, Mei Ting made a lot of movies when she was a child.
It can be said that it is an out-and-out child star.
When Mei Ting is older, the appearance is more and more beautiful and moving.
Peugeot's appearance, elegant temperament, and talent for singing and dancing have also made Mei Ting the object of admiration of countless boys since middle school, and her love letters have been soft.
Even boys outside the school came to hand love letters to Mei Ting.
As soon as class ended, it was all people who went to the classroom to watch Mei Ting.
Because of this incident, Mei Ting's parents were called to the school for an interview.
But the young Mu Ai, this thing always can't be stopped.
Just when her parents were having a headache about this matter, by chance, Mei Ting's parents learned from their comrades-in-arms that the Nanjing Military Region Frontline Song and Dance Troupe was preparing to enroll students.
immediately decided to let Mei Ting give it a try.
Who would have thought that this test would really be admitted.
When the news came, Mei Ting's parents smiled, in their opinion, the army is the best place, strict discipline, clean style, plus there are acquaintances in the army, their daughter can be here, they can't be more down-to-earth.
After graduation, Mei Ting naturally became a literary soldier, stayed in the song and dance troupe of the military region, and was promoted to a platoon-level cadre in the second year, serving the country's iron rice bowl.
However, slowly, everything changed in Mei Ting's eyes.
It is said that the strong have their own strong players, and Mei Ting at the beginning often served as the lead dancer because of her tall and good appearance.
But slowly, Mei Ting was overtaken by someone who came after her, and she never served as the lead dancer again.
This also made the arrogant and arrogant stars hold the moon since she was a child, and Mei Ting, who is used to being excellent, couldn't accept it for a while, and she had a strong confusion about her future.
At this moment, because of her outstanding appearance and tall figure, Mei Ting was selected by Chen Peisi to play the role of "Transformation Girl" in the sketch "The Great Change".
Although Mei Ting is on the stage, she has no lines and no superfluous movements, and acts as a tool for the show throughout the whole process.
But his beautiful appearance, dignified and heroic temperament still made him noticed by director Ye Daying.
Later, Mei Ting played the role of the heroine Chu Chu in "Scarlet Childlike Heart".
Should I say it or not, Mei Ting was born to eat this bowl of rice.
Although she has no professional training, and her few acting experiences come from childhood, Mei Ting is an actress wherever she goes.
As soon as this drama was broadcast, it received a strong sensation and unanimous praise from the audience, and won the "Chunyan Cup" Outstanding TV Drama Award and the "Five Ones" Project Outstanding TV Drama Award in one fell swoop.
Even in 2015, the show had a strong impact.
Russian President Vladimir Putin personally signed the award order, and the Embassy of the Russian Federation in China personally awarded the members of the film crew the commemorative medal "70th Anniversary of the Victory in the Great Patriotic War of 1941-1945".
Mei Ting also rose because of this drama, and won the Chunyan Award for Best Actress in one fell swoop, gaining widespread attention.
This also gave birth to a different idea in Mei Ting's heart.
Maybe being an actor is not necessarily a new way out.
So she signed up for the Beijing Film Academy, and successfully passed the professional course exam with a solid acting foundation, and also achieved a good ranking.
Because Mei Ting was secretly signing up at the time, and there was no approval from the army, she was unable to participate in the cultural class exam, and in the end she could only regret falling off the list and missing the Beijing Film Academy.
It is said that the more you can't get it, the more you scratch your heart.
In 1996, despite the opposition of her family, Mei Ting resolutely chose to retire and apply for the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama.
Yu Zhang Ziyi, Zeng Li, Qin Hailu and others are called "Seven Golden Flowers".
Don't look at the current Zhang Ziyi, who is the most popular and has the highest topic, but earlier, Mei Ting was indeed the person that even Zhang Ziyi had to envy.
With the fame of the best heroine in the "Chunyan Award", Mei Ting, who is still a freshman, was invited to participate in the filming of "Beijing Story".
At that time, the producers and producers were all students who came out of Chinese opera, coupled with the sincerity of the other party, they were determined to ask Mei Ting to be the heroine of the play, and did a lot of communication with the school, and finally the school agreed to Mei Ting's request to go out to film.
During this period, Mei Ting's boyfriend Ye Daying also gave Mei Ting a "big gift".
This "gift" is none other than the superstar Leslie Cheung, who was in the limelight at that time.
Being able to be with such an idol superstar also made Mei Ting surprised and delighted.
In the same frame of the two, Mei Ting always looks like a shy little fan girl.
For the juniors in the entertainment industry, Leslie Cheung also takes care of it, and also gives Mei Ting a pair of brand-name glasses as a gift.
This also made Mei Ting can't help but burst with vanity, showing off in the bedroom like a little girl.
It also made Zhang Ziyi envious.
However, no one expected that things would turn around so quickly.
Just when Mei Ting was proud of the spring breeze and was about to hug flowers and applause again, what was originally a sure thing changed forever.
Due to various reasons and disagreements with all parties, there was a strong disagreement between the school and the producer.
In the middle, Mei Ting, who had already signed a contract, was not a person inside and outside at this time.
Mei Ting, who was in a dilemma, dropped out of school neatly after thinking about it for a while.
Even Mei Ting's homeroom teacher only learned that Mei Ting had gone through the withdrawal procedures after receiving Mei Ting's "farewell" letter.
Years later, he mentioned again what he did back then.
Mei Ting is also a mixed taste:
"I also listened to my classmates later, as soon as I left, Teacher Chang Li was very sad, and her hair turned a lot gray all of a sudden."
"I really didn't know how to be sensible at the beginning, and I regretted it. ”
Mei Ting's life after dropping out of school is really not easy.
insisted on going her own way and did not hesitate to drop out of school to star in the heroine drama, which received a mediocre response after the broadcast.
The directors who were originally very optimistic about him also had a 180° turn towards her after Mei Ting dropped out of school and the broadcast of "Northern Story" was cold.
Fortunately, the once finalized "Red Lover" has not been filmed, and Mei Ting is still the heroine.
With her cooperation with Leslie Cheung, she gained some popularity.
But this did not change Mei Ting's embarrassing situation.
Because it didn't take long for Mei Ting to break up with Ye Daying.
Career love, all chickens and eggs.
Fortunately, Mei Ting's personality is tough enough.
No matter how others felt sorry for her, Mei Ting was unmoved, but quickly packed up her mood and accepted the status quo.
In 1999, he joined the drama art team, starred in dramas, devoted himself to honing his acting skills, and waited for the time to come.
The year 2000 was a significant year for Mei Ting.
Because in that year, she met her own light.
In 2000, by chance, Mei Ting met Yan Po, who was 6 years older than herself.
At that time, Yan Po had just returned from overseas training and was a senior executive in a domestic advertising company.
After seeing the dignified and atmospheric Mei Ting, he immediately launched a fierce pursuit of Mei Ting.
Speaking of which, Yan Po was born into an artistic family, and his father was a stage designer of Beijing Renyi, Yan Po has been exposed to it since he was a child, and he also has a strong talent and interest in art.
After graduating from the Beijing Academy of Arts and Crafts, Yan Po went to study at the Sorbonne and the École Nationale Supérieure des Arts Décoratifs in France.
Romance is nothing more than instinct in his bones.
In just three months, Mei Ting was pinched to death by him, and the two soon had a low-key flash marriage and entered the palace of marriage.
At the same time, with the role of Lei Yuanyuan, who has a tragic life in "Let Love Come Again", Mei Ting's career has improved.
In 2001, she talked to Feng Yuanzheng in "Don't Talk to Strangers", which made Mei Ting completely stand firm in the entertainment industry.
As of 2023, the Douban score is still as high as 8.2 points.
An Jiahe has become a nightmare for many post-80s and 90s.
It's still chilling to revisit whenever you revisit it.
Others are still like this, and Mei Ting, as one of the leading actors, is even more nightmares.
Although the fighting scenes in the play are all borrowed, the strong violent atmosphere on the scene and An Jiahe's hideous face still gave Mei Ting a lot of shock.
So much so that every time after being "beaten", Mei Ting couldn't help but cry bitterly.
Especially in the play, the scene where An Jia stepped on Mei Xiangnan made Mei Ting unable to accept it and felt very humiliated.
The staff at the scene were also very opposed, especially the female staff, who were crying and angry.
But for the sake of the plot, this scene was filmed as usual.
In order to appease Mei Ting's emotions and relieve her psychology, the crew gave her a few days off intimately.
But for a period of time, Mei Ting was still deeply affected, seriously affecting her daily life.
But in the company of her lover, Mei Ting also slowly walked out.
Since then, he has been in full swing, and has starred in "Pothos Flower" and "Camphor Tree".
In 2004, Mei Ting was dressed in red and served as the opening guest with Xie Xiaodong, Chen Hao, Liu Zi, and Huang Yi.
And it has been 10 years since Mei Ting went to the Spring Festival Gala.
However, while her career is getting better and better, Mei Ting's marriage has turned on a red light.
I don't know if it's influenced by his wife or something else.
Yan Po, who has always been engaged in design creativity, suddenly had a whim and wanted to enter the directorial industry.
Mei Ting also strongly supported this, helping before and after, not only as a producer but also as a heroine, and used most of her savings to complete the filming of the movie.
In order to give the audience a better viewing experience, the media rejected the investment of all advertisers, and there was no advertisement in the film.
The film also received a good rating.
With the role of entertainment reporter Wen Jing in the film, Mei Ting was nominated for Best Actress.
Her husband Yan Po was also nominated for the most popular director at the 13th College Student Film Festival with this film.
It stands to reason that husband and wife should be a good story in the industry by concentrating on their own interests, complementing each other, and achieving each other.
However, it made Mei Ting and Yan quite estranged.
Maybe it's because I want to prove myself too much and get rid of the situation where women are strong and men are weak.
In short, Yan Po began to criticize Mei Ting's performance, and even in front of outsiders, he didn't care about Mei Ting's face and feelings.
Under such a loss of control, it didn't take long for the news of the marriage change between the two to come suddenly.
Regarding such rumors, Mei Ting denied it.
But in 2007, Mei Ting loosely admitted the news of her divorce from Yan Po on her blog.
I'm afraid Mei Ting herself would not have thought that the person she was so happy to marry would end up like this.
But for this ex-husband, Mei Ting behaved very atmosphericly.
She has never said anything in public that the other party is not, nor has she created an image of herself as a victim of being let down to gain the pity of the public.
She blames both parties for the problems in her marriage.
The final divorce ended up being fateful.
Even when the other party suffers criticism and speculation, he will stand up and tell everyone with a calm but firm attitude:
"He was a very simple and hard-working man, and I still have no doubt about his character and talent. ”
In 2010, Yan Po was suddenly slashed and seriously injured.
It instantly attracted the attention of many parties, and the outside world caused an uproar.
After this bloody case, an affair was involved.
Li Xiaoran also made his relationship with Yan Po public.
However, what was waiting was not the blessing of the public, but a voice of doubt.
cheated in marriage, Li Xiaoran stepped in, and in an instant, Li Xiaoran put on the hat of a certain "little three".
At this moment, Mei Ting once again showed her self-cultivation.
She took the initiative to clarify the untrue news for the two and washed away the unfounded infamy.
This also made Mei Ting grateful to the two.
Yan Po even said: A good person has a safe life.
After that, Mei Ting did get the happiness she deserved.
In 2012, while filming the movie "Tuina", Mei Ting met photographer Zeng Jian.
Although in the eyes of outsiders, Zeng Jian is mediocre, his appearance is not amazing, and his status and fame are far from Mei Ting.
But this did not affect Mei Ting's liking for him in the slightest.
Mei Ting, who has always been pursued, even staged a drama of women chasing men.
In order to better pursue Zeng Jian, Mei Ting also pulled Qin Hao to help.
Under Mei Ting's pursuit, the two entered the palace of marriage very openly.
Even soon, during the filming of "Parents' Love", she and her best friend Liu Lin were both pregnant, ushering in the crystallization of love.
In 2013, Mei Ting gave birth to her beloved daughter Kuaikuai.
In 2014, "Parents' Love" starring Mei Ting was a hit.
With the role of An Jie in the play, Mei Ting won many queens in one fell swoop.
also let everyone see Mei Ting's acting skills again.
In 2015, Mei Ting successfully gave birth to her second child and gave birth to her youngest son Yangyang, a son and a daughter, with good words in pairs.
Maybe happiness just can't help but show off.
In 2016, Mei Ting, who has always been low-key, took over the filming of the parent-child reality show "Mom is Superman" for the first time.
is obviously the eldest mother in the middle grade of the reality show, but Mei Ting is at a loss and panicked.
Therefore, it also has the title of "black line mother".
This also caused Mei Ting to be ridiculed by a wave of ridicule.
However, some people couldn't help but envy Mei Ting.
Because Zeng Jian used practical actions to tell everyone that what he did was far more important than what he said.
It's no wonder that at the age of 40, Mei Ting still has a happy light in her eyes, and she can't help but show off like a little girl: "My life is very good."
epilogue
Now Mei Ting is 49 years old, but the light in her eyes is still shining, and the expression on her face is full of happiness and tenderness.
This is the kind of energy that can only be nurtured by living in an environment that is loved.
And throughout Mei Ting's life, it is indeed wonderful enough.
Even if there is no current achievement, Mei Ting's courage and chic ability to live as she wishes, dare to take on and be willing to bear is enough to be enviable.