A young and beautiful girl, but at the best age, she suffered from breast cancer. At the peak of her career, she fought cancer without anyone, struggled for 9 years, and finally passed away. She is one of the popular "Three Golden Flowers of Nortel" - Li Ting.
Li Ting's memorial service
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" data-track="2" > Faced with the bad news of cancer, Li Ting chose to carry it herself</h1>
One day in 2003, Li Ting went to the hospital for examination due to physical discomfort. I thought it was just an ordinary minor disease, and it would be good to prescribe two pairs of medicines and eat one.
But after the test results came out, Li Ting walked out of the hospital door alone with the test form, at this time she felt a thunderbolt flashing on her head, was God joking with her?
Li Ting
The test results showed that Li Ting had breast cancer and must be operated and treated immediately, otherwise her life would be in danger. Li Ting, who got this news, did not know how to face her husband and daughter. She did not understand why she, who had always been optimistic and cheerful, would get this disease?
Still
That day, Li Ting sat at the entrance of the hospital for a long time. This was the case, and she could only grit her teeth to face it. But I still have such a small daughter, what should I do?
And the husband who wants to marry at all costs, they are so loving, how to give him an account? In the end, Li Ting made the most difficult and greatest decision.
Zhang Zijian
Li Ting decided to hide the news that she had cancer, so that it would be worth it to accompany her family and husband for at least the last few years. However, her condition became more serious and the number of treatments increased. In order not to be discovered by her husband, Li Ting had to make another decision.
This year she decided to divorce her husband, in order not to let her husband feel sorry for herself, Li Ting also made up a reason, saying that she was tired of this daily life of husband and son, and was completely disappointed in her husband who was "out of the air", hoping that he could take his daughter away.
Li Ting's daughter
Zhang Zijian was startled by this sudden request for divorce, and it was still a bit unclear. Because their husband and wife's relationship has always been very good, so good that there are very few quarrels. And Zhang Zijian knew that his wife Li Ting was definitely not that kind of vain person, so he tried his best to save it, wanting her to explain the reason to himself.
But Li Ting's heart was iron, even if she was sad, she was determined to divorce. In desperation, this love finally came to an end.
Subsequently, Li Ting began the poignant journey of fighting cancer alone. Every time she went through chemotherapy, the only thing that kept her going was the smile of her husband and daughter in her head.
Li Ting hopes that she can get a chance to be reborn, so she has been persevering and fighting against the disease for 9 years.
During the period, in order to support herself and pay for treatment, Li Ting occasionally acted and did some scattered work. In order to make her husband believe her "lies", she made up her mind and hardly visited her daughter. Even her parents and family, Li Ting rarely contacted.
In 2012, the worst bad news came. Li Ting worked hard for so long, in the end she still failed to fight the disease, breast cancer made this beautiful and kind girl leave us forever.
The news was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and on the night she learned of Li Ting's death, her parents could not cry. Because this is the first time in 9 years that they know that their daughter has cancer. It's hard to imagine how this girl survived these days.
And Zhang Zijian, at this time, his identity is already Li Ting's ex-husband. When he learned the news of Li Ting's death, he suddenly realized that the reason why his wife, who had always been kind, divorced himself was that he did not want to involve himself and wanted him to get new happiness as soon as possible.
Zhang Zijian cried
Zhang Zijian could not accept this fact, and could only cry with his head and hate why fate was so unfair! Finally, when the tears were gone, at Li Ting's funeral, he was silent and silent. But everyone knew that he must have been so grief-stricken that he had lost his mind.
This incident shocked the entire entertainment industry, and everyone felt extremely sad about the loss of such a beautiful life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" data-track="60" > Hunan hot girl Li Ting</h1>
Li Ting's starting point is actually very high.
Born in Hunan in 1968, she was a star-like presence everywhere she went because she was beautiful and dazzling since she was a child. Coupled with her outgoing and cheerful personality, and a unique Hunan accent of Mandarin, let everyone think that this girl is very real and cute.
In fact, Li Ting not only has good conditions herself, but also bears hardships and stands hard work
Li Ting was young
Li Ting has always been interested in hosting and filming. Later, through her own efforts, she was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy. Being able to enter the Beijing Film Academy to study and gain rich theoretical and practical knowledge has also laid a solid foundation for Li Ting's subsequent popularity.
It can be said that Li Ting is a talented player who "appreciates food and eats by her grandfather", but she is not proud and complacent because of this, but she perseveres in her efforts to practice.
Like her, a Hunan hot girl who is both beautiful and watery, hard-working, and full of realism, whoever watches it will involuntarily like it.
Since junior high school, Li Ting has been beautiful "not like words", everyone in the school knows that there is a particularly good-looking girl in junior high school who was excavated by star scouts and went to Changsha TV station as a host.
Li Ting's pure appearance also suddenly increased the ratings and became the "living treasure" of the TV station.
But she has always been active, and she does not like the work of the TV station host, and the host needs to memorize the words rigorously, and when officially recording the program, she cannot say a word wrong. This is not easy for Li Ting, who has just entered junior high school, so she wants to change her direction.
Once, Li Ting looked at the beautiful men and women in the TV series, and she could convey a series of emotions to the audience with rich expressions and body movements, and she suddenly had a direction. She thought that the rich and interesting performances in the film and television industry were not exactly what she wanted!
After that, Li Ting, who clarified the direction and goal, began to study film and television performance. From the character image of the script, to the inner changes of the characters, to every micro-expression of the characters in the play, she has always tirelessly enriched her knowledge.
However, it turns out that Li Ting's efforts have not been in vain, and opportunities will always be left to those who are prepared.
When Li Ting was a sophomore, she was selected by director Xie Jin and starred in the movie "The Bells of Qingliang Temple". This is the first opportunity for Li Ting to put the theory into practice, so she does not dare to slacken off, whether on the field or off the field, you can see her holding the script and carefully studying the figure.
Even the well-informed director praised: There are not many actors who can calm down and act now, and there are very few talented and hard-working actors, and Li Ting left a really deep impression on me.
Then Li Ting, with her unique personality charm, went farther and farther on the road of acting, and this road was also widened by her. As people are familiar with the "Ah Fang" in "Foreign Sister", she has won the love and praise of the audience.
Just when everything is going well, cupid of love also patronizes Li Ting's life.
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During the filming process of "The Man with white eyebrows", Li Ting and Zhang Zijian had a good chat, and the two gradually developed feelings and quickly established a romantic relationship. It is worth mentioning that Zhang Zijian and Li Ting are classmates, and the relationship experienced by the two can be said to be the purest love in life.
After a few years of love, they are all at the age of marriage. Although at this time, Li Ting's career has entered a stage of development in full swing, and her fame is much greater than Zhang Zijian. But the woman is ultimately emotional, not to mention that she herself is a little girl full of fantasies and longing for love.
Li Ting and Zhang Zijian
Therefore, under the influence of love, Li Ting ignored the persuasion of relatives and friends around her, firmly went to Zhang Zijian and formed a family with him. Fortunately, Li Ting's choice was correct, Zhang Zijian did not live up to her, the two formed a very happy family, and also gave birth to a cute and beautiful little daughter.
Everything is proceeding in an orderly manner, Li Ting also chooses to take a back seat for the sake of the family, after all, the child is inseparable from the care of her mother, so she decided to temporarily retire from the entertainment circle and live a happy life of husband and son at home.
Li Ting and her daughter
But in 2003, fate seemed to play a big joke with this newly formed family.
The advent of cancer caught Li Ting off guard, and she thought she could hold on to all this and continue to work hard for the rest of her time, but God didn't seem to plan to give her this chance. In the end, this heavenly woman fell and left us forever.
In Li Ting's short life, she experienced happiness and experienced the torment of illness. In the end, she and her husband were unable to fulfill the vows of a lifetime.
After Zhang Zijian learned the real reason why Li Ting filed for divorce with himself, he was only left with remorse and pain, and he regretted that he could not accompany Li Ting at the last moment of his life.
But he was so powerless, at that time there were many rumors about them, and uninformed people pointed out to Zhang Zijian that he abandoned his wife who was suffering from cancer. But Zhang Zijian was immersed in great grief and was already powerless to argue with others.
In fact, the most ironic thing is Li Ting's younger brother. As soon as Li Ting passed away, he eagerly raised the issue of the division of the estate. He felt that his sister must have made a lot of money after so many years as an actor, and she and Zhang Zijian had divorced, so even Li Ting's own daughter had no right to divide the property.
At this time, Li Ting's brother's approach is undoubtedly chilling. But all we can do is to lament in silence.
Zhang Zijian is the man who gave Li Ting happiness in her short life, at least in their feelings, there was no betrayal or infidelity. At least when Li Ting struggled with the pain, her memories were beautiful. Although life is short, it is worth it enough.
We can't control our own destiny, we can only live our own lives in a limited life.
Zhang Zijian also has the right to pursue happiness, and he and his daughter are living happily, is not what Li Ting expected most before she died?
Today, Zhang Zijian has reorganized his family and started a new life. But that didn't mean he'd forgotten the girl who had made an appointment to stay together for the rest of his life.
Zhang Zijian remarried
We are not qualified to demand "chastity arches" for the living, that would be unfair. The dead are gone, and the living are like this. May everyone be happy in their own lives.
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