Zhang Lijun, a mother suffering from cancer, gave up her life to give birth to a child, and finally postponed treatment and died of illness.
In the documentary "In the World" a few years ago, many people were touched by her maternal love and strength, and cried the whole time to watch the full program.
Now, a few years later, she appeared on the Internet again, but it was because of the news that her husband abandoned his son and remarried a year after her death.
What's going on here?
In the documentary "The World of Man", it can be seen that Zhang Lijun is an optimistic girl.
In 2015, Zhang Lijun was just 26 years old, she was born in Shanghai, young and beautiful.
Newly married for less than a year, the husband and wife are in love, it can be said that the stage of life is just about to open the prelude to the climax.
But at this moment, her life suffered a catastrophe.
In 2015, Zhang Lijun, who was 5 months pregnant, felt uncomfortable.
After a series of physical examinations, the doctor found out that she had cancer.
It was also the most dangerous pancreatic cancer, and the news hit the otherwise happy family like a thunderbolt on a sunny day.
Because the pregnancy doctor did not dare to use anti-cancer drugs, he could only give two suggestions:
Either beat up the child and get cancer treatment as soon as possible, or wait until the child is born.
In fact, doctors are more forward-looking, because the earlier the treatment, the longer the survival time.
But Zhang Lijun was determined to keep the child after confirming to the doctor that the child would not be infected with cancer after being born.
She said that even if her life ends, she will bring her children into this world to see.
Fortunately, she lived for 26 years, but the child had not yet come to the world to see it.
Zhang Lijun is obviously the master of the family, and for her decision, her husband is more acquiescing and crying.
Although the family did not approve of her adventure, in the end they could not bear to reject Zhang Lijun.
With the help of doctors, Zhang Lijun postponed her pregnancy to the seventh month.
She knew that the longer she dragged on, the less likely she would be to survive, but she never changed her mind.
In her eyes, the child is a symbol of love and a continuation of life.
If it is not cured, then the child can still accompany her husband when he is old.
If cured, the child's presence will motivate her to heal, and she is actually taking her own life to make a big gamble.
On December 3, Zhang Lijun was pushed into the operating room and performed the long-awaited caesarean section.
Her son "Xiaolongbao" was eventually born safely, only because he was born 3 months prematurely and weighed only more than 2 pounds.
He was sent to a neonatal intensive care unit at birth.
Subsequently, Zhang Lijun was transferred to the pancreatic surgery ward, and the doctor conducted an in-depth examination of her before surgery.
But the results of the examination broke the hopes of all the people in their family.
Zhang Lijun was diagnosed with a cancer with a higher degree of malignancy, and the cancer cells were sealed, and it was an unknown primary lesion.
It is a rare case all over the world, which means that the operation has no meaning for Zhang Lijun.
It also means that Zhang Lijun is no longer able to grow up with her children.
Hearing this result, Zhang Lijun's husband completely froze.
The 27-year-old has been by his side since his wife fell ill, delivering food and medicine.
In front of Zhang Lijun, he often made her laugh, but he cried and vented in no one's place.
He felt that he was not as strong as his wife, and he did not dare to tell Zhang Lijun even the result for several days.
Zhang Lijun was still immersed in the joy after childbirth, waiting to pick up the child after the operation.
But the delay in the treatment of the surgery eventually made her feel something.
In the end, everyone decided to let their husbands tell Zhang Lijun that when their husbands choked up and said the results, they couldn't help but hug each other and cry.
In fact, Zhang Lijun had long thought about this possibility, and she comforted her husband when she recovered.
Be sure to face it optimistically and maintain the last dignity of life.
She even thought that her husband was only 27 years old this year and would definitely marry again in the future.
If he is gone, the child can accompany him instead of her.
In the end, Zhang Lijun's husband and family decided to undergo conservative chemotherapy to prolong their lives.
After taking the child home, Zhang Lijun cherished every second of time with the child.
She also decided to record 18 years of birthday wishes for Xiaolongbao, one is to hope that Xiaolongbao has the blessing of her mother every year on her birthday, and the other is to hope that the child can remember herself forever.
To this end, she deliberately changed into a new dress of big red and recorded the first video full of blessings.
In the following months, Zhang Lijun recorded 18 videos intermittently.
In the process, she lost her hair because of chemotherapy.
The tumor bulged, one eye was blind, and finally the condition deteriorated to the point where he had only a weak ability to speak.
In the last period of his life, her husband took Zhang Lijun back home.
He knew that she had another wish, that is, to travel, so he decided to take Zhang Lijun on a trip at all costs while chemotherapy.
To this end, he also went to the barber shop to shave his hair, and became like Zhang Lijun, and the husband and wife loved each other like a honeymoon.
Had the last happy time.
But in the end, the miracle did not come, and at the end of 2016, Zhang Lijun still passed away.
At this time, her child is not yet one year old, maybe she still has regrets, regrets that she can't stay with her lover, regrets that she can't accompany her children for longer.
At that time, the story of Zhang Lijun and her husband once touched countless people.
If they were touching at the time, how difficult it is for us to accept the news of our husband's remarriage now.
Recently, some netizens broke out that Zhang Lijun's husband married other women a year after his wife's death, and also passed on the children born by Zhang Lijun to his cousin.
After carefully reading a few news articles, the news of the husband's remarriage should be true, but the news that the child has been passed on to relatives, the Internet has spread a lot, and there is no real evidence for the time being, so I will not comment on it.
What I want to say today is that Zhang Lijun's desperate efforts to have a child is worth it?
If you look at it from the perspective of Zhang Lijun herself, many people will sympathize with her choice.
As a mother, she was reluctant to give up her children, and the only thing she could grasp in her own moments of powerlessness to life was her own children.
Therefore, giving birth to a child to prolong one's life seems to be something we cannot blame, and people need hope.
And when the husband is sick in his wife, he does not hesitate to give up the treatment of the family and does his best to take care of it, which is also a good man.
His feelings for Zhang Lijun are true, but life continues to be true, and it is understandable that he can come out and start a new life.
And the biggest focus is actually on children.
From the child's standpoint, you will feel that Zhang Lijun's choice is not worth it.
Whether or not their later events were exposed, it is predictable that children without mothers are destined to have a harder time.
He has to face the pain of not having a mother, and he has to face the obstacles that other women accept.
Zhang Lijun herself has said that she is not at ease with entrusting her child to anyone except herself.
Only later, she still thought things too well, and far underestimated the cruelty of life and the sadness of human nature.
Even if there have been sincere feelings, it is possible that they will not be able to withstand the reality and things will change.
The child born desperately can only touch people for a while, and later it will only remind people of the sad past, but I ever thought that someone would cherish him like you.
Have you ever wondered what a child's situation would be like without the company of a mother?
The sequel to the human world is even more real.