Liang Heyu and Su Rui were one hypocrite and the other was a real demon, and neither of the two sisters of the Li family met a good person, but they all met people who wanted their lives. The difference is that Li Mu nan gave his life, while Li Xiaonan did not, and I think this is the theme of this drama - female self-salvation.
The setting of the drama "Jiang Zhao Dawn" is very interesting, Su Rui and Liang Heyu are actually two forms of looking for objects in our real life, one is introduced by the family - Liang Heyu, that is, the parents are interested; and the other is found by themselves - Su Rui. Which of these two men is better? In fact, there is no absolute in everything, there are times when you look away, and your parents also have times to look away.
Liang Heyu and Su Rui actually represent another kind of value, one is the object of wealth and success in the career, an object that is so poor that it is jingling, can you say that it must be good to find a man with a successful career? Not necessarily.
If you marry a man with a successful career, you will not have so much say in the family. If you marry a man who is so poor that he will definitely hurt his wife? That's not necessarily true, maybe it was all pretended before marriage, just to deceive you.
Li Mu Nan and Li Xiaonan are married to a man they don't love, and one is married to a man they love, which does not mean that you can get happiness by marrying love, and you can't marry love.
The real decisive factor in this is whether you can firmly maintain your principles and bottom line in marriage, and do not easily compromise.
None of us can guarantee that the person who marries us will be a true good person, but what we can guarantee is to be responsible for ourselves. When we find that the signs are not right, we should stop the loss in time.
The biggest difference between Li Munan and Li Xiaonan is that Li Munan has always compromised.
Li Mu's mother lost her husband when she was young, and she supported the family of four people by herself, and also developed a personality of saying one thing and not two, even if Li Mu Nan gained a few pounds, she would accuse Li Mu Nan, and she also chose what she thought was appropriate for her daughter Li Mu Nan's marriage, because Li Mu Nan was sensible and obedient since she was a child, and she knew that Li Mu Nan would listen to her words.
Li Mu Nan did not love Liang HeYu, but because she did not want to make her mother sad, she compromised, such a compromise Liang He Yu looked in his eyes, it seems that as long as his attitude is tougher, Li Mu Nan will compromise.
Li Mu Nan and Liang He Yu chose a wedding dress, Li Mu Nan liked another set, and Liang He Yu felt that the one she wore was better, so he fixed the set on her body, Li Mu Nan did not insist anymore and compromised. In this matter, in fact, I understand Li Munan, even people are not their favorite, what is the importance of wedding dresses?
If the wedding dress is a small thing, not enough to make Li Munan realize that she should stop the loss in time, then why can't this big thing of work make her wake up? We can spend the rest of our lives with people we don't love, but can we really work together for a lifetime with people who don't agree with the three views?
Li Mu nan's lifelong pursuit is to have a successful career, when a successful woman, she does not want to stay behind Liang Heyu, she is eager to have her own career, despite this, in the face of Liang Heyu's aggressiveness she still compromised.
If a person compromises once or twice, then she has to compromise everything, and Li Munan's last compromise is to listen to Liang Heyu, there is no need to find a substitute driver, and finally lost her life.
Sister Li Munan has been too sensible since she was a child, and everyone around her thinks that Li Munan is better everywhere and better than Li Xiaonan, but such a person is eventually killed by her husband. In fact, to tell the truth, Li Xiaonan's situation in marriage is much worse than Li Munan's situation, so why can Li Xiaonan be desperate, but Li Munan is dead?
The reason is that Li Munan will always be accustomed to wronging himself and perfecting others. She will not argue for herself, nor will she reasonably express her demands, even if she is unwilling, she will agree, the wedding dress is so, the resignation is so, everything is compromised, and she will not take a step back when she sees herself fall into the abyss.
In fact, Li Mu Nan knew that Liang Heyu was not a good person, but she still married, jumped into the fire pit without hesitation, and in the end, she had completely lost her bottom line and principles, and even gave her life to Liang Heyu. Unlike Li Munan, Li Xiaonan can firmly maintain her principles and bottom line, will not easily compromise, and she knows how to stop losses in time.
After Li Xiaonan knew that Su Rui was gambling, she hid all the money and discussed divorcing Su Rui, su Rui did not divorce, she thought of other ways.
Li Xiaonan's life is actually much more difficult than Li Munan's life, she does sales during the day, sells fried noodles at night, but she has not given up, she has never compromised, even if it is difficult and difficult, she has not given up the hope of survival.
She knew that Su Rui wanted to kill her, and she also knew that being afraid of water was her weakness, so she first eliminated her fear of water, learned to swim, and learned to dive.
She deliberately guided Su Rui to push her into the river and then come ashore from somewhere else, in order to photograph evidence of Su Rui's murder of him and send Su Rui to prison.
Li Xiaonan faced her husband's violence and threats, she gave in, but she never compromised in her heart, she was trying to resist and seek a new life for herself, while Li Munan did not, her resistance was always symbolic, never really open-minded, she would rather wronged herself to get a short period of peace. This is the difference between Li Xiaonan and Li Munan, and it is also the reason why Li Xiaonan can achieve self-salvation.
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