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On the importance of women's careers, such as Ma Sichun

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Before Valentine's Day, I didn't wait for the transfer, waiting for a pair of official divorces - Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian left!

Netizens simply congratulated one-sidedly.

Sure enough, everyone likes beautiful women to devote themselves to their careers wholeheartedly.

For example, before, Ma Sichun was in love, which triggered the whole network to persuade her sister to stay away from the scumbag, and the review can poke _ Hey, I think Ma Sichun did not plan to run ah. Fortunately, although this girl did not plan to run, at least she did not give up her career.

Today, I want to talk about the recent hot drama she starred in - "Jiang Zhao Dawn", acting skills online.

In this world, there are some desperate women who dare not tell their stories, and most of them choose silence.

According to the ACWF, 30 percent of the country's 270 million families are married women who have experienced domestic violence.

In the face of domestic violence, women have to choose to call the police after an average of 35 abuses.

This drama filmed a woman facing "domestic violence" and aroused the wave of "fear of marriage" among netizens.

At present, the Douban score is 7.7, and the evaluation is not bad.

Seeing the screenwriter's small essay on douban' true feelings, I couldn't help but open this drama.

The play begins with a passerby finding a corpse by the river.

Li Xiaonan, played by Ma Sichun, is a desperate third lady who does sales in a real estate intermediary company during the day and sets up a fried noodle stall at night to earn extra money, and she has a good husband who is envied by everyone.

Her husband, Su Rui, would go to the stall after work to help her lay the groundwork.

"Nervously" looking for medicine for my wife during her asthma attack late at night.

On a hot day, Xiaonan needs to borrow a car from him because of work, and he will intimately deliver the car to the door of her company.

At the end of a busy day's work, she would be given hot milk.

Seeing this, do you also think that Xiaonan's husband is really a caring husband?

Let's see what the truth is.

In the middle of the night, her husband secretly picked up Xiaonan's mobile phone and bought an insurance for her, and the beneficiary was himself.

Manipulating her pillow made her asthma attack in the middle of the night, and she also emptied the asthma medicine next to the bed beforehand.

After Xiaonan's asthma recurred, he went to the living room to disguise that he was busy looking for medicine and wanted to kill his wife.

He lent the car to Xiao Nan and moved his hands and feet on the brake pads, so that she almost died in the car.

Adding an overdose to hot milk can induce heart disease.

At the end of the first episode, the husband, who has repeatedly tried unsuccessfully to kill his wife, finally succeeds in pushing his wife off the shore.

But the floating body found the next day was the husband, who was determined by the police to be his killer. Will the real culprit be Xiao Nan?

At present, it seems that the suspect is not only Xiaonan. That night, the same night, and the husband met and clashed with the creditor Brother Hu, the lover Yu Hong, Xiao Nan's mother....

Basically, if you are a veteran suspense drama fan, you can probably guess the plot direction of the back after watching the first few episodes.

But in addition to the suspense line worthy of attention, this drama also has a valuable, grounded and real female perspective, pointing out the plight of women.

Xiao Nan's mother felt that as long as a woman was married, everything would be fine.

Xiaonan, who originally felt that the world was unfair to women, understood a truth after seeing her sister get married: whether there is food and clothing in marriage or not, the suffering will not be reduced.

Her sister had told her that in marriage, stability was more important than anything else. So after her sister died in a car accident, Xiaonan's only idea was to live a good life.

Therefore, a caring move made Xiao Nan notice Su Rui, and a warm word made her feel that the other party was the person she was looking for.

The husband who thought he was down-to-earth and stable was still a good husband in the eyes of others after marriage, but love and non-love are all in the details.

When XiaoNan pulled the heavy cart home, he played with his mobile phone.

Forgot that XiaoNan can't drink ice.

After the death of her husband Su Rui, Xiao Nan's life did not become clearer, and her husband's mother, Xiao San, and creditors all found Xiao Nan.

Su Rui's mother blamed XiaoNan for her son's death and tried everything to confirm XiaoNan's murder.

When Xiao Nan opened her mouth to let her mother-in-law take charge of Su Rui's debts, she left the responsibility behind her.

Su Rui's derailment object, Yu Hong, is the same, always paranoidly venting his resentment on Xiao Nan.

In the eyes of outsiders, Xiaonan was surprisingly calm in the face of the death of her husband Su Rui, and the newspaper also portrayed her as a cold and heartless wife.

But no one knows that she also cried because of her husband's death.

Everyone's first impression of this drama is "domestic violence", which can unabashedly present the domestic violence scene in marriage in domestic dramas, which is really cruel and rare.

This drama is not only worth investigating the plight of women, but also the discussion of common social issues such as the original family is also a highlight.

The first is XiaoNan's family.

Most of the parents of that generation showed less soft side, and Xiaonan's mother was no exception, because she lost her husband very early, so she was forced to become a pillar of the family from a small woman, and thus lived like a nail.

Parents like Xiaonan's mother first use blame and criticism in their children.

When Xiaonan made a request to borrow money to buy a house, Xiaonan's mother first did to count her down, and then hated that this little daughter was not better married than the dead eldest daughter.

This scene is not déjà vu, parents always like to compare their children. But these operations do not mean that Xiaonan's mother does not love this daughter.

Otherwise, she wouldn't have insisted on going outside to find Xiao Nan when it was raining.

When Xiao San came to the funeral scene of his son-in-law, he rushed up to fight with the other party at the first time.

But part of the factors that cause the two daughters to "marry the wrong man" are, I think, the influence of Xiaonan's mother's stereotypical ideas about women and marriage - "as long as a woman is married well, everything is fine".

Therefore, her sister Twilight Nan desperately tried to go up and married her husband with a successful career.

Even if she has a conflict with her husband, the mother will only feel that the daughter does not understand things. Because of the long-term oppression by her mother and husband and gradually domesticated, Xiaonan and her sister have developed a character that does not dare to resist.

On the surface, the sister has a happy marriage, but in fact, the sister has always needed to live according to the ideas of her dictatorial and highly controlling husband.

From what style to wear for the wedding dress, to let the wife quit her job to prepare for pregnancy as a full-time housewife.

Even if XiaoNan failed to "take shortcuts and make quick money" in the face of her husband, after owing an ass debt, she never considered leaving.

It wasn't until the pillow man took off his mask, revealed his vicious face, and only because of her one word of persuasion and violence against her, xiaonan first opened his mouth to ask for divorce.

In this one-shot to the end, Ma Si purely acted well.

But she did not get out of the marriage, but was forced to compromise under violence.

Perhaps some people must ask, why did she not flee or resist in the first place after being abused by the family?

She also thought the victims of domestic violence were stupid, and when she became "them", she said this.

At this time, we understand that these domestic violence victims, they are trapped by emotions, so they always hold a fluke attitude and want to give each other a chance.

Another influenced by the original family is Xiao San Yu Hong.

At the beginning, she was the object of the most jealousy of her colleagues, sitting on two thousand square meters of demolition houses, usually only need to sit in the office, even if the performance is the lowest.

With the aura of "dismantling the second generation", although she has a heavy makeup on the surface, she is still very strong. But in fact, she was born in a patriarchal family, and even if there were more houses in the family, it had nothing to do with her.

The scandal of being a little third spread, and the father who favored sons and daughters opened his mouth and shut his mouth to ask her not to drag her brother down, and he didn't care about her at all.

She was allergic to shrimp, but after her brother was born, because he loved shrimp, he had shrimp every once.

In her world, only Su Rui was the first person to care about her shrimp allergy. Since she was a child, she lacked the warmth of family affection, as long as Su Rui gave her a little sweetness, she would be moved to tears.

But she is also a tragic figure, Su Rui only looks at her family's property, and when she learns that Yu Hong does not actually own it, she quickly turns her face and violently acts against her.

XiaoNan and Yu Hong are also influenced by the original family, but this does not mean that the original family is the original sin.

The two also work for the same company. But Xiaonan has been trying to save herself and become the most sold intermediary in the company.

In contrast, Yu Hong has been trapped in the same place, blaming everything on others, and has not tried to improve herself.

Instead, it is dry waiting for the "Prince Charming" to save.

An unfortunate family of origin does cause harm to the child, but will this hurt be an excuse for your depravity? Or is it the impetus to change the future? In the end, the choice is still in their own hands.

The suspense component of this drama is not so strong, but the screenwriter outputs good values and humanistic care, and really empathizes from the perspective of women, so that every female person is very full.

Although Li Xiaonan is a fictional character, she is a true portrayal of most of the women who have been abused by domestic violence, and she is also a benchmark to encourage this group to awaken and resist and bravely save themselves.

Finally, domestic violence is only zero times and countless times. I hope that every woman who has been abused by domestic violence can bravely withdraw at the beginning.

After all, the darker it gets, the closer it gets to dawn.

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