Recently, many people have privately messaged us in the background, saying that they are in a dilemma of finding their aunt. From finding an aunt to an interview to actually getting along, there are all kinds of uncertainties.
Whether you want to find a housekeeping aunt, a childcare aunt or a caregiver aunt, no matter what channel and platform you use, it will always take some twists and turns to find the right aunt.
So, what exactly does a good aunt look like? We have collected some of the "fairy aunts" in the mouths of employers here, hoping to provide some reference for you who are scratching your ears and cheeks in front of the screen looking for your aunt, let's take a look at it below~
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Aunt Fairy No. 1: Aunt Chen
My family's fairy aunt's surname is Chen, and we usually call her Sister Chen.
I can't remember how many aunts I changed after giving birth, and I don't know how many intermediaries have changed, and there are countless pitfalls in them. Finally, under the introduction of the housekeeping platform "Auntie is Coming", I met the current fairy aunt.
Finding an aunt is probably the same thing as finding a partner and a job, which is something that can be encountered but not sought.
Sister Chen is a native of Sichuan, and she makes a good stir-fry, a good pot of stewed soup, and a good pasta. Especially the pancakes, it is really a must, we once joked that she said that if she can't do it in the future, she will go back to her hometown to open a pancake stall, and the business is absolutely booming.
My freezer is always filled with the complementary food that Sister Chen made for her baby - rice cakes, meat cakes, dumplings, steamed buns, steamed buns, all kinds of cut root vegetables and portions of meat...... The small dumplings made by Sister Chen for the baby are all colorful, and there are seven or eight kinds of ingredients in the small buns, as well as a variety of steamed buns with shapes - caterpillars with red bean eyes, flamingos, pumpkin and goldfish steamed buns, all of which are the baby's favorites.
Sister Chen doesn't eat tomatoes herself, but she knows that I love to eat hot tomato noodle soup in the morning, so every weekend when I rarely eat breakfast at home, she will make me tomato noodle soup, and she only eats some white noodles herself. Whenever I say, "Sister Chen, let's eat green vegetable noodles too", Sister Chen always smiles and says, "It's okay, let's make tomato noodles if you like them." ”
I remember that last year, when my husband was young, I locked him in the master bedroom and isolated him, and slept in the study by himself. The study is north and a bit chilly at night. I woke up from freezing on the first night, but I didn't care, and the next day I was so busy with the baby that I completely forgot about it. Before Sister Chen got off work, she came over and asked me, "Mom, do you want to change a thick quilt in the study?" "At that time, I was so moved, because the thick quilt was in the baby's room, and the baby went to bed early at night, and I thought that it was inconvenient to take the quilt out at night. But I didn't expect things that I didn't even think of myself, Sister Chen thought about it for me. In the middle of the night, I was lying in the thick quilt, very warm, and sent a message to Sister Chen to thank her. She replied to me, "It's okay, I know you're afraid of the cold." "Usually I wear an extra layer than others, and Sister Chen sees it in her eyes and remembers it in her heart.
——Sharing from employers' @Antevasina
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Aunt Fairy No. 2: Aunt Wang
Aunt Wang is my day-shift aunt, and she gets up early every day and rides an electric car to my house. I go to work early and need her to come to work at 7 o'clock. Even so, in the more than a year of working in my house, Aunt Wang has never been late, always arriving at 6:50, and she is already busy in the kitchen at 7 o'clock.
No matter how late it is at night, I will insist on finishing my daily work before leaving, and I don't care if I work overtime. We often advised her to leave early and work again tomorrow, but she always said that she would finish it soon and that the work would have to be done.
During the Chinese New Year, when Aunt Wang returned to Beijing, she brought us large bags of special products from her hometown, which were super delicious. Sausage and sweet potato flour are my favorites, and every weekend I ask Aunt Wang to cook the sweet potato noodles she brought back, and it took me a long time to finish eating, because I brought too much and stuffed a cabinet.
On the baby's birthday and Children's Day, I received gifts from Aunt Wang. Aunt Wang has two little grandchildren, a few years older than my baby, she said, when I buy it for my little grandson, I will buy it for our baby by the way.
Anything I explain to Aunt Wang, as long as I say it once, I can give it to her with complete confidence, and she will keep it in mind. I handed over the "power" of choosing clothes for the baby to Aunt Wang, and told the elders that what the baby wears should be up to Aunt Wang. Because the elders always love to dress their children too much, but Aunt Wang will master it very well, and the baby will not be too hot or too cold.
When playing outside, Aunt Wang chases the baby, accompanies the baby to water the lawn, dig sand, and walk the single-plank bridge, which can not only give the baby free space to play, but also be very vigilant and will not expose the baby to any major safety risks.
Aunt Wang is not only smart, hardworking, and responsible, but also very boundary, and getting along with her every day is comfortable and reassuring.
Aunt Wang is not an ordinary childcare sister-in-law, her cleaning work is particularly professional, and she is an hourly worker-level Aunt Wang. The work of hourly workers is not easy to do, because they need to do a lot of cleaning work in a limited time, and the ability to make overall arrangements and schedules is very high.
Because I have high hygiene requirements for the family, before Aunt Wang came, the other aunts basically couldn't meet my hygiene standards, and some even needed us to teach her how to wipe the floor clean, how to wash the rags clean. But on the first day Aunt Wang came to my house, we could see that she could work, she was very professional, her mind was very clear, she knew what to do first and what to do later, and she was all-encompassing.
Every day I come home and see a clean and tidy home, which is very pleasant.
Aunt Wang also has another particularly commendable point, that is, when cooking, raw and cooked are separated. I observed that every time Auntie Wang brought something or washed fruit for her baby, she paid special attention to hand hygiene. Since Aunt Wang came to my house, the baby has never had a tummy.
Special thanks to Aunt Wang for accompanying me for more than a year, I often feel that it would be good if I could have met Aunt Wang earlier.
——Sharing from the employer @Ms. Li
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Aunt Fairy No. 3: Aunt Zhao
It is said that finding a good parenting sister-in-law is more difficult than finding a good husband, I feel that I am simply the pride of the sky, and the first aunt to go to the household is a fairy aunt! Because I experienced the anxiety and collapse of taking the baby alone after giving birth, I also wiped my tears while holding the baby, and felt that it was not easy to raise a baby, so I am very willing to share this experience with you, and I hope that every mother can find her own fairy aunt.
The first advantage of my Aunt Zhao is patience, she speaks softly to children, sometimes because the milk is too rushed, the baby is very anxious to drink milk, Aunt Zhao said on the side, "Baby we are not in a hurry to drink milk, drink one bite at a time", Aunt Zhao does things little by little, step by step, from many small things can be seen that she is super patient!
Aunt Zhao's second advantage is studious, she never plays with her mobile phone, when the baby is asleep, she reads the "Parenting Encyclopedia" in my house, and watches online classes and takes notes at night.
Aunt Zhao's third advantage is that she is hardworking, she looks for what other work can be done at home whenever she is free, and there is special work in her eyes, and my trash cans are always wiped clean. Generally speaking, the price of a childcare sister-in-law is relatively cheap, but after experiencing a person with a baby, I feel that if someone can help you share the pain of raising a baby and enjoy the maternity leave for up to half a year, the money is still worth it!
I have always been superstitious about the recommendation of friends, and I think that acquaintances are always more reliable, and I am a little repulsive to intermediaries. My previous confinement sister-in-law was recommended by a friend, but I can only say that it is average, and there is nothing particularly commendable, so the recommendation of acquaintances is not necessarily reliable, so I set my sights on the housekeeping platform with more aunt resources. A good housekeeping platform will definitely help you screen and judge, instead of brainlessly pushing you a bunch of aunts, this time, I feel that the housekeeping platform I chose "Auntie is coming" has really played a role.
At that time, I interviewed 4 aunts, and finally chose Aunt Zhao, who is now my fairy aunt. Zhao's professional quality passed, and the staff who came to the aunt told me that Aunt Zhao didn't take orders because of her mother's illness before, which means that she is a very grateful aunt, and when she went to the house, she also sat on a hard seat all night, which shows that Aunt Zhao is hard-working and hard-working, and it turns out that the staff is right.
After having Aunt Zhao, I have time to do maternity care, yoga and dancing, and I have time to watch electricity with my husband, go shopping, and eat with friends, and the sense of relaxation in life is back!
——Sharing from the employer @Ms. Sun
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