"Love is not who sacrifices for whom, who does what for whom, and once love becomes like this, it is not love. --Meller Thane"
Speaking of Li Jia, probably no one knows. But when it comes to her current husband, Jin Dong, many people know about it.
Jin Dong won countless fans because of the fire of "The Pretender" in 2015. But in fact, before Jin Dong became famous, Li Jia's fame was much greater than his.
On October 13, some media took photos of Jin Dong going out with his wife Li Jia. In the photo, the two are greasy and crooked, very close, like a hot love. Among them, Wang Jia is plain and beautiful throughout the whole process, but it is also very beautiful. Fans shouted that my sister's appearance was too well maintained.
Although Jin Dong's relationship with his wife is very good, his wife Li Jia's first husband is not him. According to reports, Li Jia has also married into a rich family, but she does not want to give up her career. Later, because of the kissing scene, she divorced her rich husband. What kind of thing is this? Let's talk about it!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > career success</h1>
Originally from Yunnan, Li Jia has been interested in acting since childhood. When she was in middle school, she was admitted to the Attached Middle School of the China Academy of Performing Arts, where she also learned martial arts. This shows that her qualifications are very high. Because of her strong acting qualifications, she was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.
After graduation, her super talent for acting was noticed by many directors, so she starred in many high-quality film and television dramas and won the love of many audiences. One of the most famous is Director Huo Jian's "Warmth". And this TV series also won her many international awards, and she has been famous ever since.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="37" > divorce due to drama</h1>
After the fame of Li Jia's acting path is also getting smoother and smoother. However, to the surprise of everyone, at this time Li Jia got married. The groom is Guo Shaohui, a jewelry merchant, very rich.
Of course, we don't know why Li Jia got married. Maybe their feelings are very good, maybe Guo Shaohui loved her very much. Or with Guo Shaohui, Li Jia does not have to worry about daily expenses and can live a stable and comfortable life.
However, after getting married, their feelings are not very good, and they often quarrel. There are many reasons for quarrels, but the most crucial thing is that Li Jia is not willing to give up her career.
Guo Shaohui is a very traditional man. He didn't want his wife to show her face and go out to work all day and ignore the family. He hoped that his wife could safely and steadily marry her husband and children at home and be a full-time wife.
Perhaps this request was replaced by another woman who was more willing to accept it. But Li Jia is reluctant because her career has just started, and her future is bright. If Li Jia is allowed to give up at this time, it means that her dreams are all shattered. Therefore, at this time, Li Jia is not willing to listen to her husband's arrangement, she wants both love and career.
However, fish and bear paws cannot be combined with Guo Shaohui here. Li Jia's star path, which does not give up her career, is still brilliant, but her love is in jeopardy.
In 2007, Li Jia became famous again for participating in "Park" and won numerous awards. As a result, more and more people want to cooperate with Li Jia, and Li Jia's cooperation projects have also been soft. But at the same time, her and Guo Shaohui's love has also encountered an unprecedented crisis.
Once, Li Jia had a kiss scene, but was seen by her husband Guo Shaohui, which challenged his dignity as a man. As a result, Guo Shaohui was very angry.
Guo Shaohui is a businessman with a lot of assets, so he is very proud. But his wife played a kiss scene with other men, how could this make him endure. So he and Li Jia had a fight, and from then on, the feelings of the two people fell to the freezing point.
We know that it is very normal for an actor to act in a kissing scene. This is something that every actor has to go through, and it is also the most basic requirement for an actor. But Guo Shaohui could not accept it, because he was very traditional, very macho. He regards women as his own assets, stubbornly demanding that his wives pay for him and for their love, not knowing that this also brings their love to the grave.
Love is a matter of two people, and you can't just ask one to pay, otherwise no matter how beautiful it is, it will wither away. Therefore, in 2010, Li Jia decided to divorce Guo Shaohui, and the relationship of many years came to an end.
However, what is puzzling is that after Li Jia married Jin Dong, she took the initiative to fade out of the show business circle. Except for the occasional few roles, there is almost no sign of her on the screen.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="38" > pass on Jin Dong</h1>
Soon after Li Jia and Guo Shaohui divorced, they married Jin Dong, who had just lost love. Maybe two people are also actors and can know each other's thoughts; Xu and the two people have just lost love and have the same experience. In short, they have common topics, common circles, and are quickly attracted to them, and quickly fall in love and get married.
Although they were in love, the relationship was not optimistic at the beginning. The main reasons are bright spots.
First, Jin Dong was not famous at that time, but Li Jia won many international awards. Strong women and weak men are naturally criticized in this society.
The second is that Li Jia is married for the second time. Women marry men who marry for the first time, which is not very optimistic in society.
But they are still together without hesitation, despite the criticism of the world, and they are very much in love. So later, Li Jia married Jin Dong, and her feelings were sweet and sweet for 11 years.
Although in these 11 years, things and people have changed a lot. For example, Li Jia gradually faded out of the show business circle and lived the life required by her ex-husband; or rather, Jin Donghuo became a powerful actor with many fans, no longer so obscure. But, despite the passage of time, fortunately they are still them, and they are still in love.
And the first marriage married to the rich husband, the second marriage to Jin Dong, Li Jia also rewrote her own ending!
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="34" > conclusion</h1>
As Meller Sain said, love is not who sacrifices for whom and who does what for whom, and once love becomes like this, it is not love.
In Li Jia's two feelings, this sentence can be described as vividly reflected. Guo Shaohui asked Li Jia to sacrifice and give up his career for him, and as a result, their love ended in vain. In this relationship with Jin Dong, Jin Dong did not ask Li Jia to pay anything for him, but gave Li Jia a certain amount of love and understanding, so the two were long-lasting.
This also shows that love is giving, and desire is taking. But anyone who blindly makes the lover pay must not really love the other party. He is just blindly asking, and when the lover has no use value, this feeling will also disperse.
Therefore, when we choose love, we must polish our eyes and find a three-way fit, so that we can be long-lasting, what do you think about this?