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My name is Li Juan, there are four Chinese New Year's Eve today, and I am an ordinary housewife. My husband's name is Zhang Qiang, he is of medium height, with thick black hair, and he looks quite energetic. We have been married for ten years and have a naughty and lively son named Xiao Ming, who is in the second grade of primary school this year.
My family lives on the outskirts of the city, and although we are not wealthy, we have a fairly stable life. I do housework at home and take care of the kids, and my husband works as a salesperson in a small company. Although the income is not high, we can barely make ends meet.
Just a year ago, my husband offered to buy a new property for the family. He said that house prices have been rising, and it is more cost-effective to buy now than later. I wasn't too interested in that, I thought the current place to live was pretty good, and we weren't rich enough to worry about real estate. However, the husband insisted that buying a house was a wise choice.
I tried to understand his thoughts, and finally reluctantly agreed. We started looking around, and although I didn't know much about the real estate market, I tried my best to help my husband make a choice. Eventually, after a viewing, we settled on a small apartment in the heart of the city. Although the price is a bit high, the husband is convinced that it is a good investment.
So, we paid the deposit, signed the contract, and were ready to live a new life. However, just as we were about to pay the full amount, a nightmare began.
My husband received a call from a real estate agent who told him that the original owner had defaulted on the bank loan and therefore could not transfer the property. Hearing the news, my husband was so angry that he almost jumped up. He began to ask around, but was deceived each time by some false promise. And I can only support him silently on the sidelines, try my best to comfort him, and let him not be too anxious.
However, things didn't get any better because of this. On the contrary, it is getting worse and worse. We were cheated out of all our deposits and left a large amount of debt. Her husband's work was also affected by these things, and his mood became worse and worse. And I, too, began to feel anxious and helpless. Our lives were completely disrupted, and I felt more and more lost in the face of the uncertainty of the future.
That's when my husband started to get irritable with me. He thinks it was my lack of support for his decision that led us to the predicament we are in. Every night when he came home, he yelled at me and even beat me. I couldn't understand his actions, and I tried to explain that it wasn't my fault, but he refused to listen to me and decided that I was the culprit.
I tried to persuade him, but he grew angrier. I became afraid of him, and sometimes I didn't even dare to let my son see him. Our otherwise happy family became mired in contradictions and fears, and I didn't know what to do.
My life became a mess and I spent every day in fear and anxiety. I tried to figure out a solution to the problem, but everything seemed so powerless. My husband's violent behavior made me feel hopeless, and I didn't know what to do.
I tried to talk to my husband and tell him that we should stick together and face the difficulties together. But he turned a blind eye and just roared more and more in front of me. I felt helpless, I needed a support point, someone who could help me get through this.
Luckily, my parents and my friends have been very supportive. They advised me to leave my husband and seek legal help. But I hesitated, I don't know if it was the right thing to do. I was afraid that my husband would become more violent after he left him, and I didn't know how I was going to face the future on my own.
While I was hesitating, my husband's behavior became worse and worse. Not only did he physically hurt me, but he also started to abuse my son mentally. Every time I saw his distorted face, I felt a pang of fear. I didn't know what to do, and I felt like I was stuck in a quagmire from which I couldn't extricate myself.
Just when I was feeling hopeless, an unexpected event happened. My husband fell in a fight and fractured his leg. I was shocked, but at the same time I felt a sense of relief. His injuries will take a long time to recover, which means I can stay away from his violence for a while.
I jumped at the chance and left the house with my son. We moved to a safe place and started replanning our lives. I decided to seek legal help to protect my rights and those of my son. I know the road will not be easy, but I am willing to work for our freedom.
I started looking for a lawyer to talk about divorce and domestic violence. Although the whole process was full of challenges, I didn't give up. I believe that as long as we persevere, we will be able to get rid of this dark past and embrace a new life.
With the help of my lawyer, I was able to file for divorce and secure custody of my son. This makes me feel extremely relieved that I can finally give my son a stable home. I also decided not to be nostalgic for the past, but to look forward and take on new challenges.
Life after the divorce was not easy, but my son and I have always supported each other and worked through difficult times together. I got a job and started to rebuild my life. Although I still feel lonely and helpless at times, I know that as long as I have my son by my side, I have the courage and strength.
Today, my son and I are living happily ever after. Although we don't have the luxury of the past, what we do have is love and support for each other. I know that as long as we are together, we will be able to overcome any difficulties and meet the challenges of the future.
I am willing to use my experience to warn more people not to repeat my mistakes. Domestic violence is a serious crime, and we should be brave enough to stand up and seek help. Only in this way will we be able to protect ourselves, protect our loved ones, and pursue true happiness and freedom.
My son and I have gradually adapted to a new rhythm in our lives after the divorce, and although I sometimes think about the past, I try to keep myself looking forward. I know that only by being strong in the face of life can I give my son a better future.
I started to pick up my hobbies again and try to add some fun to my life. My son and I participate in various activities and enjoy our time. Slowly, our lives become fuller and no longer haunted by the shadows of the past.
However, just when I thought everything was going to be okay, an unexpected piece of news shattered my illusions. I received a letter from my husband's lawyer. He asked for a retrial of the divorce case and for custody of his son. I was shocked, I couldn't believe he even had such thoughts.
I knew I couldn't sit idly by, so I found my lawyer and prepared to deal with the lawsuit. Although I was worried that my son would be taken away, I was determined not to let him go back to that violent and fearful environment. I am willing to give everything to protect his happiness and safety.
The lawsuit began, and my husband and I had a fierce battle in court. He tried to discredit me and tarnish my image, but I was not afraid. I did everything I could to prove that I was capable of giving my son a stable and happy life.
After a long period of litigation, the final result is finally out. The judge ruled that I was granted custody of my son, while my husband was restricted from seeing him. I was so relieved by the news that I could finally put my mind at ease and live a stable life.
My son and I started a new life and we got back on board. Although the shadows of the past will still strike us occasionally, we have learned to be strong in the face of everything. When we have each other, we have everything. I know that as long as we are together, there is nothing that cannot be overcome.
Today, my son and I are living happily ever after, and we have our own little world, away from the violence of our husbands. I know that our future will be full of hope and possibility, because we have learned to face life bravely.
My son and I are slowly adjusting to everything in our new lives, and although we still remember the pain of the past at times, we both try to move forward. I started to devote more time and energy to work and family, hoping to give my son a better future.
However, just when I thought our lives would always be so peaceful, an unexpected event broke my peace again. I received a call from an unfamiliar number, and a familiar voice came from the other end of the phone - it was my husband.
I was taken aback and didn't know why he called me. I answered the phone and listened to him say something I couldn't believe. He claimed that he had reformed and hoped to be able to be with us again and give us a complete family.
I was dumbfounded, not knowing how to respond. I used to love him dearly, but I couldn't forgive him for his violent behavior. I don't know if he's really changed, or if he's just trying to get back what he's lost.
I told him I needed time to think about it and hung up. I felt a lot of confusion in my mind and didn't know what to do. I remembered the past, the hurt he had done to me, and I didn't know if I would ever be able to trust him again.
I decided to talk to my lawyer about the matter and see what to do. I know it's not just about my own future, it's about my son's happiness. I can't let go of my fears about the past, and I can't easily trust his changes. I need to think carefully and make the right decision.
On the advice of my lawyer, I decided not to make any decisions for a while and give myself some time to think. I told my husband that I needed time to think about it and stop bothering me. Although he was a little disappointed, he agreed.
I knew I needed time to calm my mind and think about our future. I don't want to let go of my fear of the past, and I don't want my son to go through that pain again. I need to think calmly and make the right choice.
After thinking about it for a while, I finally made a decision. I decided to meet with my husband and listen to his explanations to see if he had really changed.
We chose a quiet café to meet. The moment I saw him walk in, my heart was filled with mixed emotions. I don't know if I'll be able to forgive him, if I'll be able to start over.
We sat down and started talking. He apologized to me, admitted the mistakes he had made, and offered to make amends. He said he realized his mistake and was willing to give everything to save our relationship.
I was so captivated that I didn't know how to respond. I remembered the past, the hurt he had done to me, and my heart was filled with fear and uneasiness. But at the same time, I also want to believe in him, believe in his change, and believe that we can start over.
We talked for a long time, and finally I decided to give him a chance. I know it's not going to be easy, but I'm willing to trust him and give us a chance to start over.
We decided to start from scratch and rebuild our family. Although the road is full of ups and downs, I believe that as long as we work together, we will be able to overcome all difficulties and meet a bright future.
My husband and I got back together, giving each other a chance and our son a whole family. We strive to overcome the shadows of the past, support each other, and move forward together. We know there is still a long way to go, but we believe that as long as we have each other, there is nothing that cannot be overcome.
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