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User requested a story in Chinese titled "妹妹的儿子考上大学请酒，没有通知我，我与她恩断义绝" (My sister's son celebrates his college admission with a banquet, without informing me, I cut off relations with her) to be written in the first person. They asked for a compelling introduction and rich, colorful dialogue, with less inner monologue, adhering to Chinese customs and family ethics.
I'm Li Lin, an ordinary housewife. I have a younger sister named Xiaoli, and we have been like sisters since we were children. Her son Xiao Ming was admitted to university, and the family held a celebratory banquet. However, to my surprise, my sister didn't inform me. This left me feeling very disappointed and sad, and I felt that our relationship seemed to have drifted apart a lot.
On the day of the banquet, I accidentally learned the news from a neighbor. I felt a pang of pain in my heart, and I couldn't believe that my sister hadn't told me such an important thing. My sister and I sometimes quarrel over trivial matters, but I always think that the family relationship between us is inseparable. But now, I feel like I've been left out of the family celebrations, and I'm saddened.
I decided to go to my sister's house to see what was going on. When I arrived at my sister's house, I was even more disappointed to see the cars of friends and relatives who had come to congratulate me in front of the door. I knocked on the door, and my sister opened the door, and when she saw that it was me, her expression was a little embarrassed.
"Sister Lin, why are you here?" My sister asked.
I felt a sense of grievance in my heart, "Xiaoli, why didn't you tell me the news that Xiao Ming was admitted to university?" I just heard it from a neighbor. ”
My sister smiled awkwardly, "Oh, this...... Yes, our family held a small banquet, so we didn't specifically notify you. ”
I said a little angrily, "Xiaoli, how can you do this? Xiao Ming was admitted to university, which is a great joy! We grew up together, did you just leave me out? ”
The younger sister hurriedly explained, "Sister Lin, I didn't mean not to tell you on purpose. Maybe it's because I'm too busy and don't take care of it. Don't be angry, come in and sit down. ”
I listened to my sister's words, and although I was still a little unhappy, I didn't want to continue to blame. I followed my sister into the house and saw that the banquet was full of all kinds of delicacies, and there were red tablecloths on the table, and the atmosphere was warm. The living room was full of guests, and everyone was congratulating each other.
I found an empty seat and sat down, and my sister brought tea and snacks. I watched all of this and felt a pang of sourness in my heart. My sister and I used to be so close and trusted each other, but now, I feel that we are getting farther and farther apart.
I looked around the living room and saw Xiaoli's son, Xiao Ming, who was receiving congratulations from relatives and friends. I felt a sigh in my heart, feeling that I was already old, but my sister's child had grown up. Perhaps, this is life, the children have grown up, and our relationship is quietly changing.
After a while, the banquet gradually dispersed, and the guests left one after another. My sister and I were sitting in the living room, and the atmosphere was a little awkward. I couldn't help but ask, "Xiaoli, why didn't you tell me such important news?" How can we be so estranged from each other? ”
My sister lowered her head and said softly, "Sister Lin, I really didn't mean to. Maybe it's because you're too busy to take your feelings into account. I know I was wrong, I'm sorry. ”
I looked at my sister's aggrieved appearance, and my heart softened. I know that my sister is a kind person, and she certainly has no ill will. I took a deep breath and said to my sister, "Well, since you know you're wrong, remember to tell me such important news in the future." Don't let such a small thing affect our relationship with each other. ”
My sister listened to my words and a smile appeared on her face, "Sister Lin, I will remember it, and I will definitely tell you in time in the future." ”
I looked at my sister's smile, and the unhappiness in my heart gradually dissipated. I know that the relationship between us is unbreakable, and as long as we can be honest with each other and understand each other, there is nothing that cannot be overcome. Although I was a little disappointed by this incident, I am confident that the friendship between our sisters will continue.
My relationship with my sister slowly improved after that incident, and our communication became more frequent. However, by chance, I discovered a fact that shocked me.
One day, I was visiting my sister's house and happened to meet her son, Xiao Ming, chatting with a boy in the living room. I glanced at the boy and found that he was my son's classmate Li Hua.
I asked with some surprise, "Xiao Ming, who is this?" ”
Xiao Ming smiled and introduced, "Mom, this is my classmate Li Hua, he came here today to discuss some things with me." ”
I looked at Li Hua and said with a smile, "Li Hua, hello." Do you have anything to discuss? ”
Li Hua looked at Xiao Ming with some hesitation, and then said, "Auntie, in fact, Xiao Ming and I have an idea, that is, we hope to organize a charity sale at the school to raise some school supplies and daily necessities for children in poor areas. ”
I listened to Li Hua's words and felt very relieved. I know that it is very valuable for children to have such thoughts. I smiled and said, "Li Hua, your ideas are really good. I fully support you, and if you need my help, just say it, and I will do my best to help you. ”
Li Hua listened to my words, and a bright smile appeared on his face, "Thank you, Auntie, we will work hard to make this event a success." ”
In the process of chatting with Li Hua, I found that he is a very responsible and caring child. He told me that his family conditions were not very good, but he never gave up studying and working hard. I sincerely admire his courage and perseverance, and I also feel sorry for his family conditions.
After I got home, I kept thinking about Li Hua. I consider myself lucky to have a healthy and happy family, which some children are not so lucky. I decided to pay more attention to children in poor areas and do my part to help them.
A few days later, I went to Li Hua and told him that I was willing to fund his charity sale. Li Hua listened to my words and was so excited that he almost burst into tears. He said he would work hard to make the event more successful and bring warmth and hope to the children in need.
My relationship with my sister has become closer because of this. We were busy preparing for the bazaar together, often discussing together, sharing each other's joys and difficulties. I think that the warmth of family is not only family affection, but also responsibility and responsibility. I am willing to pass on my love and warmth to more people in need and make the world a better place because of our efforts.
My sister and I have been busy preparing for the bazaar for a while, and finally the day of the event has arrived. When we arrived at the school in advance, we saw that there were already many students and parents helping to set up the booths and prepare supplies.
My sister and I were also busy arranging our stalls and getting our items ready for sale. I prepared some home-cooked snacks and handicrafts, while my sister prepared some old items and clothes from the house. Although our items are not very valuable, we hope to be able to contribute to the event in this way.
As soon as the event began, the school was buzzing with activity. Students came to our booth to buy items. My sister and I were busy serving them, and it was satisfying to see them happy.
Just as we were busy, suddenly a plainly dressed woman walked up to our stall. She looked at the items in our stall with a hint of longing in her eyes.
I walked up and asked with a smile, "Auntie, what do you want to buy?" ”
The woman looked at me hesitantly, then said, "Can it be cheaper?" My family is not in good condition and the children need some supplies. ”
I listened to her words and my heart moved. I knew that this woman must be a family in need of help. I picked up a handicraft and whispered, "Auntie, I made this by myself, you can take it, you don't have to pay for it." ”
The woman almost burst into tears when she heard me. She excitedly took the handicraft and thanked her again and again. I looked at her back as she walked away, and I felt a sour feeling in my heart. I know that there are many more families like hers who need our help and love.
After the event, we delivered the funds and goods we raised to schools in poor areas. Watching the children take the items we sent us with big smiles on their faces, I felt it was all worth it. Although we can't change the whole world, we can use our own power to make this world a better place.
When I got home, my sister and I sat down and talked about the event. We are all very happy because we are able to help some people in need through our own efforts. We decided to continue to participate in such activities in the future, so that more people can feel our love and warmth.
I think that the relationship between families is not only family affection, but also responsibility and responsibility. Only in the face of difficulties can we truly appreciate the warmth and importance of family. I am willing to pass on my love so that more people can feel this warmth.
After a while, my relationship with my sister became closer. We often eat together, chat, and share each other's lives. I have found that as long as we can be honest with each other and understand each other, family relationships will become more harmonious.
One day, I went to my sister's house as a guest, and I happened to meet her son Xiao Ming doing his homework at home. I was relieved to see his focusedness. I walked over and asked softly, "Xiao Ming, how is the homework?" Need my help? ”
Xiao Ming raised his head and said with a smile, "Auntie, thank you, I've finished writing." Still, if you have time, can I ask you to help me revise it? ”
I listened to him and was very happy. I know that Xiao Ming is a very sensible child, and he can take the initiative to ask others for advice, which will be of great help to his learning. I smiled and said, "Of course, let me see what you wrote." ”
I sat next to Xiao Ming and helped him revise his homework. In the process of revision, I found that Xiao Ming's writing level is very high, and his thirst for knowledge and curiosity is also very strong. I'm very happy with his performance and I'm excited about his future.
After a while, my sister came out of the kitchen and said with a smile, "Sister Lin, you came just in time, the meal is almost ready, let's eat together." ”
I nodded and followed my sister to the dinner table. We chatted while eating and the atmosphere was very pleasant. I think the happiest thing is to be able to be with my family and share each other's joys and difficulties.
After eating, my sister and I cleaned up the table and prepared to have tea and chat. I suddenly remembered what happened before, and said to my sister, "Xiaoli, thinking back to the conflicts between us before, I think they are actually small things, as long as we can tolerate each other and understand each other, we can solve them." ”
My sister nodded and said with a smile, "Yes, sister, conflicts between families are inevitable, and the important thing is that we can face them with a tolerant attitude, so as to maintain family harmony." ”
I listened to my sister's words and felt very relieved. I think it's a blessing to have a family that understands and supports you. I decided that no matter what difficulties I encountered in the future, I would face them with my family and work together to make the family more harmonious and happy.
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