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Author: The Healing Girl
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<h1>01</h1>
These two days, I saw an interview about Tang Yifei 5 years ago.
The reporter asked: "As a professional actor, is this a pity?" It also includes the controversy that has been suffered in recent years. ”
Tang Yifei: "I have also thought about this, I have a sentence that is more accurate, someone exchanged Ling Xiaosu for the whole world, and I exchanged the whole world for Ling Xiaosu." I think, especially women, must distinguish what is most important to themselves, I believe in love, but also believe in their lovers, I am willing to sacrifice my career to achieve my family. ”
It can be said that in the marriage farce of Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen, Tang Yifei also endured a lot, and everyone regarded her as a fuse, and the bloody storm almost ruined her future.
As for the truth of the facts, we have no way to verify, what Tang Yifei did wrong, I don't want to continue to investigate. After all, it is all a matter of Chen Sesame Rotten Grain, and right or wrong may not matter for a long time.
Just from Tang Yifei's point of view to analyze marriage, I can't help but ask: is it really worth it to pursue love with self-destructiveness?
In "Wife's Romantic Trip", Ling Xiaosu said that Tang Yifei gave up her career for herself, and she used to be a very good actor. Yes, Tang Yifei was also a bare-handed actor.
In 2003, he starred in his first film "Youxiao" and entered the entertainment industry. Since then, she has also served as the protagonist of several films and television series.
In 2009, Tang Yifei starred in the costume TV series "Tianya Weaver Girl", playing Han Guifei and winning the Best Supporting Actress Award at the Southern Festival for the role of Fei Hua in "Autumn Frost".
Tang Yifei's acting skills are not lost to the current traffic stars, coupled with gentle and strong looks, which were very pleasing in the entertainment industry at that time. If she keeps fighting, even if she is not a first-line actor now, she will have a certain degree of popularity.
However, Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen's divorce dispute completely sentenced her to death. Tang Yifei said that he had exchanged the whole world for Ling Xiaosu, which was really not excessive at all.
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I went to look at Tang Yifei's current Weibo, which is still in an empty state, and the avatar was also several years ago. Since marrying Ling Xiaosu, she has hardly worked.
The only work is a woman who gave birth to two children and became a husband and godson. Today's Tang Yifei's beauty is still the same, but Ling Xiaosu has a lot of vicissitudes.
Giving up everything for love, Tang Yifei said that she did not regret it, but were she and Ling Xiaosu really happy?
In "The Wife's Romantic Trip", Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei also had moments of quarrel, and once the quarrel was because Tang Yifei was playing games in bed, Ling Xiaosu was very angry and said: "Do you believe that I jumped from here." ”
I was stunned by Ling Xiaosu's words, a nearly 40-year-old man can be so extreme. When Ling Xiaosu said that he wanted to give Tang Yifei a gift, Tang Yifei subconsciously asked: "Is this what you prepared or what the program team prepared?" ”
When Ling Xiaosu said that he was preparing for it, Tang Yifei also questioned it. It can be seen that Ling Xiaosu is somewhat strong and macho, he does not understand romance, can not control emotions.
Of course, it wasn't that Ling Xiaosu didn't love Tang Yifei, it was just that the two of them didn't look very happy.
Compared with Du Jiang and Huo Siyan, this pair of them seemed more cold. There is also a scene where both of them tear up when they watch the wedding video, and as a result, the two of them shed their own tears, but there is no hug or comfort.
Judging from my own sensitivity, Tang Yifei and Ling Xiaosu both love each other, but there are also unspeakable pains in their hearts, and that kind of pain is something they don't want to show to each other.
In fact, it can also be understood that two people have experienced strong winds and rains to be together, and this kind of love is not limited to love, but also needs more kindness and righteousness.
Just like Ling Xiaosu commented on Tang Yifei, she is the best partner in marriage, because she is particularly righteous.
Maybe they are like two lonely hedgehogs, hugging each other for warmth.
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In the interview article 5 years ago, the reporter asked Tang Yifei: "What kind of man do you think Ling Xiaosu is?" What is it about him that appeals to you the most? ”
Tang Yifei said: "He is a very generous man, and this thickness has reached a valuable point. (How generous?) This kindness has nothing to do with me, I know what he has done, and I know what he is generous, so I am willing to pay for him. ”
In the program, it can also be seen that Ling Xiaosu is very grateful, he understands how much Tang Yifei has paid for her, and said that Tang Yifei is the biggest hero of the old Ling family.
The love between Tang Yifei and Ling Xiaosu is more like the story of the golden eight o'clock file, experiencing countless storms, and it can also be regarded as vigorous.
In this battle for love, Ling Xiaosu also lost some career opportunities, but Tang Yifei completely cut off his own back road. If Ling Xiaosu is reliable, then Tang Yifei's efforts have also paid off.
Just feel sorry for Tang Yifei, because a person's happiness is multifaceted, the satisfaction from the family is only a part, people also need self-realization, and this part of the realization needs to be achieved through the career.
A lover will eventually become a family, but the future is gone, and whether it is worth it or not may only be clear to the person concerned.
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Tang Yifei exchanged the world for Ling Xiaosu, and as a result, he was saddled with many years of infamy, this kind of "self-destructive" pursuit of love, it looks brave, but I still hope that women will not try easily.
It's like a gamble, and the bet is the happiness of your life. If the man you bet on will always be loyal to you, then you are worth it. It's just that people's hearts are unpredictable, and their hearts are changing rapidly.
If you lose a bet, you lose your life.
Like some female stars who married into the giants before, they gave up everything and plunged into the marriage, thinking that they could have half a life of stability, but as a result, their careers were lost, and their happiness was not obtained, so the end was the most tragic.
Adults, though, pay for their choices.
If it were me, I would most likely not be able to give up my future for a man like Tang Yifei, and I still want my career and make myself more confident in facing life.
Love may be rare, but the ego is more difficult to give up. It's just that love is always like this, and women will be overwhelmed by it and even put into everything. In the end, how to measure whether the value is worth it, love is not to ask whether the value is worth it.
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