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What kind of performance is moving?
I think at least there should be true feelings, full of logic, coherence and empathy of the work.
Watching "Actors Please Take Place", Gu Jia, played by Tang Yifei, really embarrassed me. Teacher Li Chengru commented that she "has increasing emotions", yes, she has emotions, but emotions come and go quickly, and some are too unreal.
A woman who has been married for ten years and has always considered herself happy, when she learns that her husband has betrayed her, some of her expressions and emotions are really incredible, it is an incomprehensible sense of powerlessness.
To tell the truth, the nursery rhyme version of Gu Jia is a very perfect woman, her emotional grasp is very good, she is relaxed in her performance, but after Tang Yifei's performance, she has become a terrible and a little neurotic woman.
Tang Yifei's explanation was: I don't believe that Gu Jia did not collapse at the time.
Of course, Gu Jia has a time of collapse, but even if she collapses, she will not be crazy, because she is calm and accustomed, so she is very stoic and very suppressed in the handling of emotions, which Tang Yifei did not understand at all.
Let's take a look at the plot: because of the husband's marital betrayal, the perfect wife Gu Jia collapsed, and she and her husband filed for divorce. But at this time, her heart is still very unwilling, she wants to give him another chance, so her emotions are very complicated.
On the one hand, she controls her anger, while on the other hand, she has to try to keep her own decency, if it is not a nursery rhyme version of the preconception, I think it is difficult to have a sense of substitution in Tang Yifei's performance.
But it is precisely because of the preconceptions, so I will consciously compare Tang Yifei's performance. To tell the truth, Tang Yifei is completely acting for the sake of acting, and at the same time she is not acting for the audience, but for herself.
Just like the scene where she added the bathtub on her own initiative, director Chen Kaige asked her, why did you add this scene, what is your purpose? Have you ever thought that the audience would feel uncomfortable watching this scene?
Tang Yifei said frankly: I'm sorry I didn't consider the audience, I just thought about myself.
A person who plays only for herself may be able to feel happy in the role she plays, but in fact, this cannot move people, nor can it be called "good interpretation".
Not only on the stage of performance, even on the stage of life, a person who is too self-centered is naïve, and this kind of person will not let others recognize and respect you, only when you learn to consider for others, it is the beginning of maturity.
Tang Yifei blew herself up that she had not acted for ten years, and in this decade, her identity was a "full-time housewife", and the reason why she came to the stage of "Actor" was to see if she still had "a few pounds and a few pairs".
But I'm sorry, after seeing Miss Tang's performance, I think she really overestimated herself.
Some people come here really to prove themselves, but Tang Yifei let me see that she did not come to prove herself, but to destroy herself.
For the performance, she does not have the least sense of reverence, she wants to change the script to change the script, completely will not consider whether this change is reasonable, the audience will like it.
She was immersed in the assumption of self-absorption, mistakenly believing that there was nothing wrong with her. But in fact, whether she does well or not, the audience's eyes are the clearest.
Judging from the unanimous scolding on the Internet, Tang Yifei really "Waterloo" this time, and even ruined her "achievements" in the previous ten years.
Seeing this, I just want to say, you should go back to being a housewife, don't come out and act again, it really doesn't touch me at all.
In this life, people know that it is good to live for themselves, but they cannot only live for themselves at any time, and they must take into account the feelings of the people they love at the right time, otherwise they will become selfish, and selfish people will not get love, because they are not worthy.
For example, when you're in a family relationship, you can dress yourself up and make yourself look beautiful, but you can't just take care of yourself and not care about others.
Whether it is with partners and children or with parents, it is necessary for us to pay time and experience, you have to learn to care, to understand each other's needs, family is a whole, when you are ready to enter marriage, it still means that you are ready to take responsibility.
The same is true at work, good work requires group cooperation, it is impossible to achieve great things alone, so if you want to do a good job, you must learn to use group relationships, if you want to use this relationship well, you first know what colleagues think, what you are good at with each other, so that you can better cooperate.
On the stage of "Actor", there are many excellent actors, in fact, each one is worthy of respect and worth learning, so don't underestimate your opponent at any time, you have to learn to explore his charm, and ultimately let his charm help you.
If you want to run a good relationship, you can actually do two things: learn to share and recognize.
Recognition is the basis of trust, and only when you approve of a person will you trust him, you will be convinced that he is right, and thus you will subjectively comply with it, not reject it.
And sharing is acceptance, when you share, you also accept each other, because only when you are getting along with the people you accept, you will be willing to share, you will share your emotions, thoughts to each other, and at the same time you will also get feedback in each other's interaction.
At no time, live yourself as an island.
In this life, people are nothing more than the pursuit of several things: fame and profit. And behind all the fame and profit, there are two points: happiness and satisfaction.
Before getting it, you have to first figure out what you want, whether you can work hard for these things, to insist, if you really understand yourself, you will instead make progress for it, instead of encountering problems to escape, learn to make excuses for yourself.
10 years of shadow is never an excuse for failure, and the real strong person can still let people see her strength when she returns, which is the difference between hard work and no effort.
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About author:Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, well-known emotional self-media. I have wine, do you have a story?