In 2019, actress Tang Yifei, who faded out of the entertainment circle because of her marriage and children, followed her husband Ling Xiaosu to participate in the "Wife's Romantic Trip Season 3" of Hunan Satellite TV.
In the show, she once said in front of the camera: "I think he has nothing to do with me, he wants to tell me about divorce, leave immediately." ”
After another guest, Xie Na, asked her if she wanted to be so frustrated, Tang Yifei continued: "There is more mourning, that is, buying a wedding dress, he sat on the car and said, I am a little tired, I am too lazy to shop, and I don't like to shop, you go shopping by yourself." ”
"I said okay, then I went shopping by myself, and finally spent 260 yuan to buy a wedding dress..."
After the program was broadcast, almost everyone felt puzzled, when Tang Yifei did not hesitate to bear the name of Xiao San in order to marry Ling Xiaosu, the result was only such a result?
Tang Yifei, who was exposed to have intervened in the marriage of Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu, has been married to Ling Xiaosu for 10 years so far, and she has also borne the insult of "Little Three" for 10 years. She paid so much for the relationship, is it worth it?
One
Tang Yifei, formerly known as Tang Lu, was born in 1981 in Wuhan, Hubei Province, and is a girl with a lively and cheerful personality and a very straightforward personality.
When she was a child, she was particularly naughty, and unlike most girls of the same age, others paid special attention to their own image, but she grinned all day and only cared about playing.
Since she was a child, she likes to play billiards, and when she has time, she will run to play billiards, so she often delays her homework, although her parents are very anxious about this, but no matter how she says, she has always insisted on her preferences.
After graduating from middle school, Tang Yifei originally wanted to study at a school of an airline, and later became a flight attendant or the like, with a relatively relaxed job and a stable income.
However, the old principal of the school thought that her appearance was particularly good and had the potential to engage in the acting industry, so he suggested that she study acting.
Coincidentally, Tang Yifei's mother liked literature and art since childhood, not only good at dancing, but also wanted to become an actor when she was a child.
So Tang Yifei, with the consent and support of her mother, gave up the preferential treatment of the airline and entered the Wuhan Art School to study acting.
After entering the art school, Tang Yifei, who had not been exposed to performance before, soon felt a lot of pressure, in order not to lag behind others, she changed her learning attitude and began to work hard to learn professional knowledge.
She is particularly talented in acting, and with continuous learning, she quickly became the best among her classmates, and in the second year of entering art school, she was also appointed as the class leader by the teacher, and all the teachers were particularly optimistic about her.
After graduating from art school, in order to develop later, Tang Yifei did not hesitate to apply for the Central Academy of Drama and read the Acting Department.
In the four years of college, Tang Yifei has been staying on campus to study, and has been active on the stage stage for a long time, and has not gone out to shoot dramas.
Due to her good performance and solid basic skills, when she graduated from college, she was given the opportunity to work as an actress in a well-known theater company.
Ordinary people will definitely cherish such an "iron rice bowl", but Tang Yifei yearns for more stages, so she resolutely refused the invitation of the troupe and resolutely chose to enter the show business circle.
Two
In 2003, Tang Yifei, who graduated from university, participated in the film "Youjie" directed by Hong Kong emerging director Kwok Wai Lun, and officially entered the development of the show business circle.
With outstanding physical conditions and solid basic skills, she has successively participated in works such as "Fulu Shou Samsung Annunciation", "Glass Marriage", "Ice Sword", "Big Man", "Emerald King", "Jingwu Chen Zhen" and so on.
In 2008, in "Dream of the Red Chamber" directed by Li Shaohong, she was invited to play the role of "Qin Keqing", one of the twelve Jinling Twelve Dragons with slender appearance, elegant personality and gentle behavior.
After the hit of this work, she with outstanding appearance conditions has successfully become a goddess in the minds of countless audiences with countless fans with this role.
With the rise of popularity and popularity, she has cooperated with more and more big celebrities, and when filming the film "Future Police", she partnered with Andy Lau, a king-level artist.
In terms of Tang Yifei's development at that time, whether it is her popularity or popularity, it is not worse than that of female artists such as Yang Mi at that time, and it can even be said that it is even worse.
At the same time as the rapid development of her career, Tang Yifei was also quickly exposed by the media to the scandal of feelings, but her relationship was not blessed by the public at that time, but it was also controversial by everyone!
Three
In 2010, when Tang Yifei was filming the work "Lang Heart Like Iron", she met Ling Xiaosu, an actor who was one year older than her.
Unlike Tang Yifei, Ling Xiaosu was born in an acting family, and his grandfather was named Ling Zifeng, a famous director in the early days of the mainland, who had directed classic works such as "Children of China", "Chrysanthemums in the Mountains", "Camel Xiangzi" and so on.
Although his grandfather is not as popular and popular as his grandfather, he is also a famous photographer at Xi'an Film Studio, and even his mother Fu Xiaojian is also a director and screenwriter at Xi'an Film Studio.
Growing up in such a family is also doomed for Ling Xiaosu to embark on the road of acting.
In the year when Tang Yifei was admitted to the Chinese opera, Ling Xiaosu was also admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with excellent results, and he came to Nortel in the same year as his later girlfriend and ex-wife Yao Chen.
Yao Chen was a year older than Ling Xiaosu and two years older than Tang Yifei, she was born in an ordinary family, worked in the Fuzhou Dance Art Troupe, and later entered the Fuzhou Song and Dance Troupe because she danced particularly well.
In order to go further on the road of art, she later gave up the road of dancing and changed her career to study acting, and was admitted to Chinese opera in the same year as Ling Xiaosu.
As classmates, they often rehearse and study together, and over time, they naturally come together when they have a good feeling for each other.
Unlike Tang Yifei, Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen began to participate in film and television works during college, especially Ling Xiaosu, who successfully gained a foothold in the show business circle with a "Guanzhong Bandit" in his junior year.
In 2003, just after graduating from college, Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen, who loved each other so much, the first thing they thought of was not to develop their careers, but to receive their marriage licenses.
After marriage, the two were busy with their careers, of which Yao Chen became popular overnight with a "Wulin Wai Biography", and then the role of "Guo Furong" in it became a household name and popular actress.
Although Ling Xiaosu's initial development was not as good as Yao Chen's, he later became successfully popular with his wonderful performance in "The Temptation to Go Home".
But I don't know if it's because their careers have developed so well that their relationship has gone wrong, making their marriage a red light.
Four
In March 2010, Yao Chen met the film's cinematographer Cao Yu while filming "Love Outstanding", cao Yu, although not well-known, was a particularly talented man, and his films "Coco Xili" and "Nanjing! Nanking! and other works have won many awards at home and abroad.
The two of them, who were very talkative at work, got closer and closer to each other, and soon became good friends without saying anything.
Later, when the work "Love Excellent" was promoted, Liu Ye, a famous actor as the male protagonist, inadvertently said during the interview: "They have been well for two months..."
Although he closed his mouth in time and did not finish the next words, this sentence exposed the relationship between Yao Chen and Cao Yu.
As soon as this remark came out, it quickly triggered a heated discussion, and Yao Chen, who had not yet divorced Ling Xiaosu at that time, was quickly pushed onto the cusp of public opinion, but before everyone could complain about it, Ling Xiaosu on the other side was also exposed to the scandal, and the object of the scandal was Tang Yifei!
When Tang Yifei and Ling Xiaosu filmed the work "Lang's Heart Is Like Iron", they were hot inside and outside the scene, not only did they interact frequently on the set, but the two also often interacted on social accounts, such as Ling Xiaosu posting photos of Tang Yifei sleeping, and Tang Yifei calling Ling Xiaosu "Little Lingzi" and so on.
Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen, who have not yet divorced, after both of them were exposed to emotional scandals, the two of them opened a "mutual tearing" war on the Internet, and Tang Yifei was naturally "taken" as a small third.
Under the control of public opinion on Yao Chen's side, Tang Yifei soon carried the insult of "Little Three", and Ling Xiaosu was also labeled as a "scumbag".
In the end, Yao Chen and photographer Cao Yu entered the palace of marriage and successfully harvested happiness, while Tang Yifei and Ling Xiaosu seriously affected their careers because of this matter.
Especially Tang Yifei, because she was with Ling Xiaosu, she even ruined the great future that was originally developing particularly well, and even she herself once joked: "Some people have exchanged Ling Xiaosu for the whole world, and I have exchanged the whole world for Ling Xiaosu." ”
It can be seen from this that in order to be with Ling Xiaosu, how much she has paid.
Five
On June 7, 2012, after the "mutual tearing" war with Yao Chen, Tang Yifei finally married Ling Xiaosu, and the two held their wedding in Wuhan.
Since marrying Ling Xiaosu, I don't know if it was because of the influence of the previous "Xiao San" insult, or her own mentality had changed, she began to slow down her pace, and the works she participated in were less and less.
In 2015, in the third year of Tang Yifei and Ling Xiaosu's marriage, she gave birth to a son for Ling Xiaosu, and the arrival of the son made her give up all her career and be a good wife and mother at home.
Three years after the birth of her eldest son, in November 2018, she was pregnant with Ling Xiaosu's child again, when Ling Xiaosu also posted in a particularly high-profile post: "Holding the big treasure, happy little treasure, so happy." ”
In February of the following year, the two young daughters were born, and the difference from before was that after the birth of the daughter, Tang Yifei, who had faded out of sight for many years, returned to the public's attention and successively participated in the recording of many variety shows.
In 2019, shortly after the birth of her daughter, she followed her husband Ling Xiaosu to participate in the reality show "The Third Season of The Wife's Romantic Trip", and revealed many things about their relationship on the show, including her past when she got married in a wedding dress of more than 200 yuan.
Although she seemed to be a little disgusted with the experience at that time when she said it, judging from her tone and expression, she actually cherished this relationship and marriage in her heart.
In the next two years, she has participated in many variety shows, such as appearing in the parent-child variety show "Love Kindergarten" with her husband Ling Xiaosu, participating in the "Actors Please Take Place Second Season" and "Crossover Comedy King Season Five" alone.
Among them, when participating in the show "Actors Please Take Place In Place Season 2", due to being assigned to the role of "Ellie" in her husband's "Temptation to Go Home", and the image of this role in the play happened to be "Little Three", which reminded her of the events of many years ago, she decisively chose to quit the recording of the show, which once caused a hot discussion among the audience and netizens.
It is worth saying that it may be that several of them are unwilling to admit who intervened and who betrayed in the first place, and in the nearly ten years since Tang Yifei and Ling Xiaosu were married, they have been constantly pestering.
However, because the two sides have their own opinions, so who is right and who is wrong, who is the real betrayal party, and only as parties do they know.
Six
Tang Yifei, who has long faded out of the show business circle, has not brought new film and television works to the public in recent years, and it seems that he has completely given up his acting career.
Focusing on her family and children, she now stayed behind Ling Xiaosu and went to be his little woman and help her take care of their little family.
As for whether the happiness she sacrificed her career for is worth it, only she knows.
However, from the fact that she has always been willing to focus on the family after marriage and is willing to stay behind Ling Xiaosu, I believe that she should be happy in this relationship.
At least, the way of life today is something she can accept or like, otherwise she would not be willing to stay behind each other's back as a little woman.
Not to mention Ling Xiaosu, with the support of Tang Yifei, he has been developing his career with peace of mind over the years, although it is not a big hit, but his acting career has been developing very well, and now he has become one of the representatives of the Mesozoic male actors.
In contrast, if you want to say who the biggest winner in the original "mutual tearing" war was, now it seems that if you think it should be Yao Chen.
After divorcing Ling Xiaosu, she tore apart with Tang Yifei and Ling Xiaosu alone, not only got the support of most people at that time, but also entered the palace of marriage with photographer Cao Yu, and also gave birth to a son and a daughter after marriage, and now the family is particularly happy.
In addition, Yao Chen's development in recent years also has nothing to say, and the works such as "Send Me to Qingyun", "All Very Good", "Eight Hundred" and so on have become classics in the minds of the audience.
Whether compared with Tang Yifei or Ling Xiaosu, she can now be said to be the biggest winner.
Of course, although Tang Yifei's career has not improved now, she is willing to stay at home as a housewife, and her peaceful and quiet life is also particularly happy.
Perhaps, it no longer mattered to her who was who was right, what she valued now was whether her and Ling Xiaosu's life was happy or not, nothing more.
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