Author: An Qing
Pioneer Valley
In 2003, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu ended their three-year long-distance love run.
In 2011, the marriage came to an abrupt end.
One year later, she married photographer Cao Yu, who married actress Tang Yifei.
I thought that the matter had officially "come to an end".
Unexpectedly, the divorce battle between the two has just begun.
The two sides fought for 12 years, and both sides lost.
Now, after looking at Yao Chen's current situation, I understand that divorcing Ling Xiaosu is the most correct choice.
$100,000 in exchange for freedom
On the 28th of this month, Yao Chen shared photos of his daughter participating in a dance competition.
Between the words, she was full of pride.
According to her, her daughter Little Jasmine had a lot of harvest during the summer vacation and won 3 awards in one fell swoop.
Behind the scenes, it is inseparable from her careful teaching.
Netizens in the comment area also sent their blessings.
It turned out that little Jasmine had grown so big.
is worthy of studying ballet, and her temperament is very outstanding.
also inherited Yao Chen's good genes, and he had a superior head-to-body ratio before he was 8 years old.
Is this photo familiar?
is exactly the same as Yao Chen back then.
Little Jasmine can also be regarded as a female inheritor.
Let's take the time back to when Yao Chen was in school.
She was fostered at her uncle's house since she was a child.
For this daughter, the Yao family's parents are indebted.
After learning that their daughter wanted to learn dance, the two agreed without thinking about it.
Yao Chen was also very competitive.
Later, she was photographed and went to Beijing to study.
After graduating, she successfully entered the song and dance troupe to work.
At that time, this was an "iron rice bowl".
But Yao Chen didn't think so.
She remembered the time when she was working alone in the big city.
This time, she is going to take the Nortel exam.
In this regard, the parents still support their daughter's decision as always.
However, the family was told that if they wanted to leave the company, they would have to pay 100,000 yuan in liquidated damages.
Even years later, when she recounted the experience, tears fell.
In fact, the company's actions are understandable.
After all, no one wants to give up such a good seedling.
As far as a talent like Yao Chen is concerned, he will definitely make great achievements in the future.
Seeing that the little girl could no longer give back to the dance troupe, they showed their hole cards.
Yao's father and mother on the other side also showed their face for the sake of their daughter's freedom.
They worked hard and borrowed money to scrape together 100,000 yuan.
In 1999, 20-year-old Yao Chen finally entered Nortel.
For actors, that guiding person is very important.
And her nobleman is Ling Xiaosu.
One at home and one on himself
Unlike many people's love at first sight, the two are enemies.
One thing to say, Yao Chen's appearance is not the type that is stunning at first sight.
Especially her big mouth, which has become the object of many people's complaints.
Therefore, in Nortel, where there are many beauties, she is a little transparent.
Seeing this, Ling Xiaosu often teased her.
Yao Chen is also a person who does not suffer.
At that time, it was common to see scenes of the two fighting each other.
As classmates, it was inevitable that the two would have to work together.
At one point, the two were put into a group.
It has to be said that the teacher's actions were correct.
After getting along day and night, the relationship between the two has really eased a lot.
Yao Chen appreciates the other party's self-confidence very much, which is what she lacks.
It turned out that Ling Xiaosu was born in a family of performers.
His mom and grandfather were both directors.
So, a lot of resources are at his fingertips for him.
Campus love is always so pure.
In a sports meeting, Yao Chen motivated her boyfriend.
He once said: If you win, I will marry you as soon as I graduate.
Later, Ling Xiaosu won the competition, and Yao Chen also fulfilled her promise.
At that time, both of them were poor students who had just graduated.
So I've been renting a house all the time, and the wedding hasn't been held.
Seeing this, the man's family took action.
With their help, Ling Xiaosu received a lot of drama appointments.
Those who cooperated with him were Yuan Quan, Yang Zhigang and others.
Soon, he made a name for himself with his works.
Yao Chen was also very happy about this.
But she was always uncomfortable.
Obviously said that they wanted to be side by side, why did Ling Xiaosu walk in front of her?
It wasn't until 2005, after the appearance of "Wulin Gaiden", that she proved herself.
This is the so-called big hit.
It's not at all the same as the drama that is now only popular among fans.
The role of "Guo Furong" is especially suitable for her.
Comedy is the hardest to act.
And Yao Chen's lines and expressions are quite good.
Many people also saw her acting skills from this drama.
During the filming, Ling Xiaosu often visited the class.
At Yao Chen's request, the director also added a role to him.
At that time, the audience watching the drama did not expect that "Guo Furong" and "Ling Tengyun" outside the play were a couple.
Since then, Yao Chen has become a hot actor in the circle.
In 2008, she took over the drama "Latent".
This drama is very important to both her and Sun Honglei.
Take Yao Chen as an example, although he failed to fly the sky, he won the Golden Eagle Award.
Since then, she and Ling Xiaosu have been people of two worlds.
In fact, she also intends to promote her husband.
Take the drama "Days with Flight Attendants" as an example.
Ling Xiaosu's acting skills are also passable, but they are not popular.
One thing to say, in the entertainment industry, the combination of strong women and weak men can't go far.
Who lied?
Sure enough, in 2011, the two announced their divorce.
It is reported that Yao Chen at that time was one of the hottest artists at the moment.
She also had 19.4 million followers (then the third largest in the world).
Therefore, the discussion caused by this incident is really no less than Lu Han's official announcement.
And the separation of the two is not as decent as the statement.
The two sides come and go, and it's not lively.
But Yao Chen, who has works, not only has fans, but also relies on a big company like Huayi.
In this battle of public opinion, Ling Xiaosu lost completely.
At that time, netizens discussed this group of pictures the most.
It happened on the set of a certain drama.
Ling Xiaosu thought that the girl who was asleep was very cute, so she took a picture of it.
But this married man's eyes are not innocent.
I don't know, I thought it was Yao Chen lying there.
One month later, "Hong Shixian" appeared.
I won't say much about what kind of person this is.
At that time, the audience would say to Ling Xiaosu after watching it: acting in his true colors.
The big hit of the show was a burden for him.
Not only him, but even his wife Tang Yifei's career has also been affected.
Previously, she was a graduate of Chinese opera and the heroine of many TV series.
In just a few years, his career was ruined by feelings.
In 2014, Yao Chen and Cao Yu have been married for two years.
But Juchun Lei broke out a "big melon".
He elaborated on Yao Chen's three "cross-borders".
The time, the place, the names of the people, and the causes and consequences, he made it very clear.
Among them, the eldest brother Sun Honglei is also included.
In this regard, Yao Chen chose to remain silent at first.
Some speculate that it is because her career has already soared and her family is happy.
I don't want to worry about my ex.
However, things clearly went beyond her expectations.
It's also interesting here, she found a post from 2009.
Retweeted and left eight words.
Some people say that she has a weak heart.
From Yao Chen's point of view, it is said that there are many mistakes.
Many years later, Sun Honglei's resolute denial in the interview saved her a lot of image.
We don't know exactly what happened.
But this fourth relationship has to be talked about carefully.
Let's see what Liu Ye said.
It seems that Yao Ling's husband and wife are the same.
They all have close friends in marriage.
In the official information, this "Love Excellent" was filmed in 2010.
That is, the year before the divorce of the two.
At that time, Yao Chen had eye contact with Cao Yu.
I can't say how you look at it.
But as time passed, this incident gradually became forgotten.
Work is king
In 2019, Ling Xiaosu and his wife, who had disappeared in the entertainment industry for a long time, appeared on a variety show.
In the show, the two did not shy away from chatting about the divorce battle that year.
As Tang Yifei said, the overwhelming scolding directly caused the smoke from your ancestral grave.
In this regard, she felt very aggrieved.
Ling Xiaosu also expressed her apologies to his wife.
It is because of him that Tang Yifei's acting career will go downhill.
But no matter what the couple said, their comeback plans were unsuccessful.
The next year, Tang Yifei stood on the stage of "Actors, Please Be in Place".
But she left the stage because she didn't want to play a "third party".
Since then, she has disappeared again and returned to her family.
The same is true for Ling Xiaosu, who has been playing supporting roles in major TV series in recent years.
However, how many people have watched these plays?
On the contrary, Yao Chen became a winner in life.
She and Cao Yu gave birth to a son and a daughter in 2013 and 2016 respectively.
Today, both children are grown.
Little Jasmine is so confident in front of the stage.
When you grow up, you will definitely make a difference.
My son, Little Potato, looks exactly the same as my father.
However, his mouth followed Yao Chen.
Yao Chen also posted photos of his son on social platforms many times.
Looking at her career again, although Yao Chen is not very productive now.
But she is a powerful person who has both excellent works and awards.
In 2019, her career once again ushered in a small peak.
The drama "It's All Good" became the dark horse of the year.
Those who have watched this drama have found that Yao Chen has changed.
She is more mature, more calm, and more beautiful.
Although she missed out on Magnolia in the end, she proved herself again.
And she was able to win the divorce battle again and again.
It's all thanks to her works.
This is an actor's greatest confidence.
And she and Ling Xiaosu may not be all the way from beginning to end.
Obviously, the two have loved.
In the past, she could follow Ling Xiao to live in a rental house.
Ling Xiaosu can also bring a bouquet of flowers to his wife from afar.
But marriage is not so simple, sometimes the two are separated because of trivial matters.
In addition, the two have been separated for a long time due to filming, and their relationship has been exhausted.
From this point of view, how wronged Tang Yifei is.
epilogue
For Cao Yu, Yao Chen is in love with him to the core.
She always looks at her husband's expression so affectionately.
After the divorce, she had a happy family again.
When asked about the secret of keeping her marriage fresh, she replied that she understood each other.
After 12 years of marriage, Cao Yu has always done this.
In the interview, Yao Chen also said:
In my past marriage, I had a lot of immaturity, and I will be a good wife in the future.
However, these have nothing to do with Ling Xiaosu.
Divorce is the right choice for her.
Some references:
"Wife's Romantic Trip Season 3"|Ling Xiaosu Tang Yifei 20191106
"Interview with Yang Lan" What to save you and my heroine|Yao Chen 20130606
"Luyu has an appointment"|Yao Chen 20090505