1. In-depth analysis of the twists and turns of Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu's marriage
Twelve years have passed through the difficult years of divorce, and the three public figures Yao Chen, Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei seem to have re-entered their new lives, but deep down they still can't get rid of the pain of the past.
In 2019, Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei said frankly in a depressed tone in a popular variety show that the past left a deep imprint on them, and the road of life over the years has not been smooth sailing Although Yao Chen has once again shined in her acting career, when asked about this marriage history, she still couldn't hide the sadness in her eyes, and the three of them consumed a lot of energy in this endless dispute, attacked each other, and lasted for many years of grievances and hatreds, but in the end they found that no one could really win.
Let's go back to the starting point of Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu's love story, and their encounter is full of drama. When she was in college, Ling Xiaosu didn't have much affection for her classmate Yao Chen, who had slightly plump lips, and even refused to cooperate with her without hesitation during a joint performance.
However, this did not stop the emotional transformation of the two from "enemies" to "lovers", in the tense atmosphere of the crew for many times, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu gradually sprouted an irresistible attraction, and finally decided to spend the rest of their lives together and stick to their original vows.
The days after the wedding were at first full of sweetness. With the full support of her husband's family, Yao Chen's career has ushered in rapid development and her popularity has soared. She successively participated in the acclaimed TV series "Wulin Gaiden" and "Latent", and became a hot actress at that time.
However, in strong contrast, Ling Xiaosu's career progress is far less than that of his wife, which brings him great pressure, and he is afraid of being ridiculed by the outside world as "Yao Chen's husband".
The gap between the two careers is widening day by day, coupled with the busy work that causes them to get together less and leave more, and the relationship has cracked. In addition, Yao Chen's frequent involvement in scandals is undoubtedly adding fuel to the fire.
Ling Xiaosu's trust in his wife gradually collapsed, and his heart was full of indescribable doubts.
2. The storm of public opinion after the divorce
The divorce of Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu, which has attracted much attention, has caused an uproar in all walks of life, and the supporters of the two are arguing with each other, fighting fiercely, defending their respective reputations, and it seems that they can no longer face their former partners calmly.
The ignition point of this divorce turmoil came from the scandal between Ling Xiaosu and a well-known actress Tang Yifei, which was exposed by the media. According to people familiar with the matter, some staff members secretly filmed their sweet interaction on the set, and Ling Xiaosu's secretly photographed Tang Yifei sleeping soundly spread on the Internet.
And Yao Chenfang seized this opportunity, took advantage of the opportunity to add firewood, and blamed all the responsibility for this extramarital affair on Ling Xiaosu.
Although Ling Xiaosu tried his best to clarify that he had never been unfaithful to his wife during his marriage, few people were willing to believe his words under the strong condemnation of public opinion. Soon after, a film "The Temptation to Go Home", which closely followed the pulse of the times, was officially released, in which the role of "Hong Shixian", who cheated in marriage, was undoubtedly a direct reflection of Ling Xiaosu, making his situation more and more difficult.
Just as Ling Xiaosu's public image suffered a serious blow, insider Ju Chunlei broke out an even more shocking news. He detailed the fact that Yao Chen had cheated four times during the marriage, and insisted that Ling Xiaosu was the victim in this marriage.
Although Ju Chunlei's revelations seemed to be conclusive evidence, Yao Chen only fought back with eight words, "Why bother with gossip", and her studio even hinted intentionally or unintentionally that it was Ling Xiaosu who reneged on her marriage promise first.
Under the fierce attack of public opinion, the former loving couple went toe-to-toe, sabre-rattling, accusing each other of being the culprit of the breakdown of the marriage, and all kinds of insults made people laugh and cry.
Obviously, both sides are filled with irresolvable resentment and can't really let go of the pain of the past.
3. Yao Chen's life history
After the divorce, Yao Chen did not stop because of this. She is still forging ahead in her acting career, participating in many excellent film and television dramas, and once again becoming the focus of attention.
In terms of personal life, she also ushered in a new family life, tied the knot with her current husband Cao Yu, and had a son and a daughter after marriage, living a happy life.
Looking back on Yao Chen's growth path, she was born in an ordinary working family and her family was quite poor. At the age of 14, she was fortunate enough to be spotted by a dance team and had the opportunity to travel to the capital city of Beijing for professional training.
For Yao Chen, who has great ambitions, this opportunity undoubtedly has immeasurable value and significance! However, as the contractual relationship she signed with the company reached a dead end, she had to pay a sky-high penalty of up to 100,000 yuan if she wanted to get out.
After learning of his daughter's plight, Yao's father tried his best to find relatives and friends to borrow money, regardless of his physical fatigue and the long journey, hoping to raise enough money as soon as possible to pay the liquidated damages, which was astronomical for an ordinary family like theirs.
Looking at her father, who suddenly became much older, Yao Chen felt a great responsibility, and she had already secretly vowed that she would work the road of acting, so as to repay all her father's efforts and expectations.
So, Yao Chen resolutely embarked on the journey to Beijing, where she began a journey full of challenges and opportunities. Although she started out in an inconspicuous role in a repertory theatre, Lady Luck seemed to favor her and gave her the privilege of stepping through the doors of the Beijing Film Academy to receive professional acting training.
In college, she met Ling Xiaosu, who also loved acting, and the two fell in love, and with the generous support of her future mother-in-law, her career gradually showed a vigorous development trend.
With her outstanding performance in popular TV series such as "Wulin Gaiden", Yao Chen's popularity has risen rapidly and she has become a high-profile new generation actress. The subsequent "Latent" pushed her acting career to the peak.
Although his married life ended in failure, Yao Chen was never discouraged by this. She is still determined to pursue her dreams, and has starred in many excellent works one after another, winning warm applause from the audience again.
In terms of personal life, Yao Chen also ushered in new happiness. In 2013, she tied the knot with talented photographer Cao Yu, and two years later had a lively and lovely son, and in 2016 added a beautiful daughter, and now they have formed a warm and harmonious family of four.
In an interview, Yao Chen made no secret of her praise for her current husband, and her words were full of happiness.
Fourth, Ling Xiaosu's family background
After the divorce, Ling Xiaosu's career fell into a trough, and she spent a difficult and difficult time with Tang Yifei, under the pressure of public opinion from all walks of life. However, looking back on his family history, we can find that he originally had a bright future, born in a famous family in the Chinese film and television industry, and has formed a deep fate with the film and television industry since he was a child.
His grandfather once directed the classic film "Camel Xiangzi", which was well-known in the film industry; His mother is also a well-known director, creating many popular masterpieces such as "Li Xiangyang".
Since childhood, Ling Xiaosu has been known as the "third generation star of the film and television family" since he was a child! Infected by such excellent family achievements, Ling Xiaosu is extremely enthusiastic about the pursuit of film and television art, and he is determined to emulate his ancestors and achieve his brilliant superstar style.
Since childhood, he has received rigorous professional training and is well versed in the theory and techniques of acting as an actor.
In that supposed unrestrained college career, he has become a well-known "scholar" on campus, with a unique and deep understanding of the performing arts, and can be called a leader in the actor team.
Ling Xiaosu is not only talented, but her handsome appearance can be called a model for contemporary youth idols. He has a tall and straight figure, well-defined facial features, and deep and charming eyes, each of which can deeply attract the audience's attention.
To a certain extent, he combines many advantages such as film and television background, rich learning resources, and excellent appearance, and his road to popularity seems to be doomed.
However, fate played a huge joke on him. After the divorce, his once dazzling future gradually became blurred, his career came to a standstill, and the time spent with Tang Yifei was also full of ups and downs, and he was under the pressure of public opinion.
Fate played a cruel joke on him, and he could only keep a low profile and be sad alone.
5. The ups and downs of their married life
With the passage of time, the career development of the two showed a significant gap, coupled with the troubles of various gossip, the relationship between Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu, the former model couple, quickly cooled down, and finally chose to move forward separately.
Looking back on the past, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu's married life used to be so sweet and happy. In 2003, the college lovers happily received their marriage certificate and kept their vows.
On the occasion of the newlyweds, their lives are filled with the atmosphere of happiness, you and I are strong, accompanied by each other day and night, and love is incomparable.
At that time, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu were both newcomers who had just emerged, and they were only slightly famous in the film and television industry. However, in 2005, Yao Chen became popular overnight because of his appearance in the popular TV series "Wulin Gaiden", and his career suddenly opened a bright road.
Subsequently, she performed well in the award-winning masterpiece "Latent", her acting skills were widely recognized, and she became a popular actress.
On the path of his career development, in strong contrast to the prosperity of his wife Yao Chen, Ling Xiaosu has never been able to achieve the expected breakthrough. Although he has also made wonderful appearances in some TV series, most of the time he only plays insignificant supporting roles and cannot stand out, which is really a disadvantage!
Seeing his wife's fame rising day by day, Ling Xiaosu's inner pressure can be imagined, and even produced a deep sense of inferiority that was "surpassed by his wife" and bound to "Mr. Yao Chen" outside.
The imbalance at work makes both of them busy with their careers, and the communication and companionship between the two parties are obviously insufficient, which makes the once sweet time gradually replaced by indifference, which can't help but make people feel emotional.
What's worse is that Yao Chen at this time frequently fell into the whirlpool of scandals with other actors, which undoubtedly exacerbated Ling Xiaosu's doubts.
The ensuing gossip made Ling Xiaosu's trust in his wife gradually collapse. The suspicion in his heart was like a poisonous snake gnawing away at his deep affection and patience for Yao Chen day after day.
Although Yao Chen tried her best to clarify every time and promised her husband that she had severed those ambiguous relationships, Ling Xiaosu still couldn't completely let go of her feelings after all.
At this critical moment, the seven-year itch of the two came as promised, their love life fell into an impasse, setbacks at work, and mutual suspicion finally led to the end of Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu's married life, and they had to choose to part ways.
This former loving couple drifted apart and came to the end of their marriage.
6. Lessons and reflections on marriage
This marriage brought heavy pain to Yao Chen, Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei, but at the same time, it also taught them valuable lessons in the ruthless blow of fate.
Looking back at the beginning and end of this divorce incident, it is not difficult to find that the lack of mutual understanding and trust is the main culprit that led to the breakdown of the couple's relationship. At first, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu were truly in love with each other, and they entered the marriage hall hand in hand when they just graduated from college and made a beautiful vow together.
However, the good times did not last long, and with the ups and downs of their careers, the spiritual distance between the two gradually widened.
In order to make a name for himself in the entertainment industry, Yao Chen is extremely ambitious, and often puts his family in a secondary position. The fact that she is frequently involved in scandals is a wake-up call that she puts too little time and energy into her relationship.
However, Ling Xiaosu was jealous of his wife's brilliant achievements in her career, which was deeply engraved in his sensitive and complex heart, and his trust in his wife Yao Chen gradually decreased.
As a result, the hearts of these two people who were once deeply loved gradually drifted away, their verbal communication and mutual understanding became increasingly scarce, and their emotional world fell silent.
During this period, the seven-year itch came as promised, coupled with the instigation and provocation of some third parties, the marriage relationship between Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu finally inevitably split.
After deciding to break up, the lives of the three parties fell into endless confusion and confusion. On the surface, Yao Chen's career seems to be thriving, but deep down she still can't let go of that affectionate past; Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei had to face doubts and accusations from all walks of life, and their careers almost came to a standstill.
Regrettably, in this divorce turmoil, the three failed to stay calm, instead attacked and hurt each other, fighting with each other over who was the culprit who caused the breakdown of the marriage, but in the end, neither party could really win.