I am a stay-at-home mom, a stay-at-home mom who is constantly fulfilling her self-worth. Reject anxiety, refuse "inner volume", easy parenting, rational treatment of married life, tolerant response to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I hope that some of my views can make you suddenly enlightened, can bring you positive energy, and solve your practical problems.
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Gu Ai ling was on fire, and overnight it was all over the country.
No wonder, in the words of netizens, the heroine of Shuangwen novels does not dare to write like this.
Only 18 years old, she won dozens of medals and won the world championship in her first winter Olympics.
She is 18 years old and covers a lot of people's lives.
Piano, dance, horse riding, skiing... I tried everything I could, the key was a girl who was very good at learning, and she received an offer from Stanford University in her second year of high school, and she was a proper student bully.
These are not enough, the key people are not only talented, but also have high looks and proud figures.
Isn't this the all-powerful, omnipotent, high-IQ, high-value heroine in Shuangwen?
How did Yi Qianxi and Gu Ailing suddenly be "CP"?
The news that these two days covered his face is that Gu Ailing's ideal type is Yi Qianxi, and Gu Ailing and Yi Yi Qianxi are too well matched.
So I went to check the reason.
It turned out that the two people had a work intersection, and the two people recorded the filming of the 2022 Winter Olympics "Ice and Snow Covenant" together.
The two people have a good evaluation of each other, so there is a CP spontaneously formed by netizens.
However, this is just a joke by netizens, not seriously.
The reason why this cp is more able to arouse the good feelings and imagination of netizens is because the two people are equally excellent, but the personalities are just opposite.
Yi Yan Qianxi, needless to say, no family background, no backer, parents are very ordinary people, 2 years old was taken by his mother in Beijing around, participated in a lot of training, learned a lot of skills, even magic can play a few, but also can write a good brush.
Yi Qianxi's ideal from childhood is to have a stable job, that is, after the group debuted on fire, when participating in the variety show, when he jiong asked the ideal, he still quietly and seriously answered: I want to have a stable job.
Because of the hardships, because everything is not easy to come by, this child born in 2000 matured early, has a strong sense of responsibility and purpose, a small age, has experienced hundreds of battles, and understands that paying can be rewarded.
It is precisely because of this growth background that he will become more and more excellent, relying on his strength to go out of the circle again and again, and get the recognition of more and more people.
Hard work, excellent, but not ostentatious, introverted personality.
At only 18 years old, Gu Ailing won many medals, won world championships, and also had a very strong learning ability, which was recognized by Stanford University.
Gu Ailing's excellence is self-evident, which is the "genius-like child of others" in the eyes of mothers around the world.
Gu Ailing is confident and cheerful, which is in stark contrast to Yi Qianxi's inner show.
Therefore, in everyone's opinion, there will be a different spark.
However, the feelings of this matter onlookers look lively, in fact, the two children in the process of work, rarely chat, Qianxi has an introverted personality, not very good with girls, the embarrassment between the two people is still a little more. The future of the two children is still very long, there are still many things to do, and netizens still cannot dominate their personal ideas.
The son is still good
Although it is not true, it at least shows a problem, excellent talents deserve to be with excellent people, and excellent talents will find excellent people.
Every time I saw Yi Qianxi, the thought in my mind was, if all the boys were as good as this child, even if they were not so good, it would be good to have this seriousness and sense of responsibility.
However, some people prefer to raise "scumbag sons", just like a father in the investment industry who has a good heat these days claims to raise his son into a "scumbag", thinks that making money is his own business, strives to become a rich generation, lets children have no worries about food and clothing, prepares enough money for children from a young age, lets children go to invite girls to dinner, and is proud of having 2 girlfriends for his junior high school son.
This inferior parenting method has been regressed for decades, and this father is not ashamed but proud.
Provide enough pocket money for the son, think that making money is what they should do, the next generation does not need to worry, hope that the son scum a little, give himself a few more grandchildren, the ultimate goal of cultivating the son is to let the child become a "scumbag".
He doesn't need to be proud of his parenting concept, go back a few decades, and look at the "waste wood" raised by the rich people at that time, exactly the same parenting standards.
The son is still good, so as to completely solve the worries of the future.
The so-called "scumbag" son, parents feel the glory of the child when they are young, and when the child is older, has an independent consciousness and independent ability to act, and is not controlled by the parents, the parents should cry.
Good people are surrounded by good people
A netizen said that such a "scumbag boy" attracts a type of girl, and excellent girls are not set.
There is nothing wrong with that.
Excellent people will only look for the same excellent or better people, especially excellent girls, with good thinking ability, discernment ability, will not easily accept an "inferior" "scumbag".
There are girls in the family, we should have the concept of parenting, first have companionship, love, communication and praise, in order to have guidance, motivation, first let the child have the ability to love and be loved, feel the warmth of the family, in order to ask the child to become more excellent.
There are boys in the family, we should have the concept of parenting, under the premise of love, companionship and communication, to guide children to become self-reliant, responsible and purposeful people, and the independence of boys is more important.
Parents really do not need to consider the child's future mate selection, that is the child's own business, we have cultivated the child well, let the child become excellent, the child will attract the same people in the future, parents do not put the cart before the horse, affecting the development of the child.