First, do things that hurt others because of their own emotions and desires.
Emotions and desires are unavoidable for everyone, but not all people will digest them reasonably.
In the eyes of some, emotions and desires should be destroyed to prove their existence if they are not cathartic. For example, they will choose to hit, fall, smash objects, move and yell at the people around them, destroy public objects, throw things from upstairs, and clash with passers-by... It is to do either things that harm others and benefit themselves, or do things that harm both others and themselves.
But some people, even if they can't vent, they will choose to exercise, do food, do housework, organize items, plant flowers, go to the singing room, sleep... In short, I will not do hurtful things because of my emotions and desires.
Not everyone will only think that a person should do destructive things when he is angry and unsatisfied, this is the view of ignorant barbarians, and even if you do not do destructive things, you are angry that a wise modern civilized person can judge.
With a person, we must know how a person dissolves emotions and desires, not if you can accept it and leave early.
Second, always show what you have done that is not brilliant.
Some people obviously can't say funny and humorous words, thinking that just laughing at themselves is humorous. Many people, probably around themselves, are also people with bad taste, and everyone's fun comes from watching others suffer. So some people interpret humor as causing someone to suffer, so that they think that they have fun for themselves and everyone. But this is done at the expense of others, and this is called evil.
Some people stuttered, and others struggled to listen to him, but they obviously didn't have anything important to say, and they always had to interject to speak, making others really embarrassed.
There are also people who can't do things themselves, and they have to boast that they will be able to do it. Then, after suffering the sin of the boss behind his back, he reluctantly helped others to do that thing well, and others could make people who did better do it, which was really harmful to others and to themselves.
Third, I hope that others will live according to their own will.
Some people don't know if their approach is right, but they want to implement that practice, and in order to give themselves more confidence, they force others to do the same thing.
People who don't know how to respect other people's personalities and hobbies are really uncomfortable, and they may think that they can appear strong that way. But mutual respect with people is a must, and being strong is not forcing others to do things.
Being strong is that you can not be defeated by difficulties, and your head is wise enough to protect yourself and obtain happiness for yourself.
What is stronger bullying others? That's hurt.
Fourth, they will use things that others care about to threaten others.
Everyone encounters urgent and difficult things, and there are some ill-intentioned people who will not help you when you are in urgent difficulties, and even take advantage of the fire.
When they don't know what you care about, they're doing their part. But suddenly your urgency is implicated in them, and they immediately stop doing what they should do, forcing you to meet their freewheeling demands and completely forget your feelings, dignity, and interests.
Unreliable people will add trouble, trouble, and obstacles to themselves, making their lives a mess, and making themselves unable to reach the life they yearn for.
Be self-loving and stay away from unreliable people.