On October 22, 2019, a special wedding was held at Dalian Funeral Home.
The groom, Xu Shinan, wore a handsome suit, but his face was difficult to hide his sadness, and he whispered from time to time. The bride, Yang Liu, died a week ago because of breast cancer.
In order to make up for the regret that his wife could not hold the wedding before her death, Xu Shinan specially held this "pink rose" wedding.
Willow, dressed in a pure white wedding dress, lay quietly, surrounded by 169 pots of pink flowers. The groom Xu Shinan was full of reluctance, with tears in his eyes, looking at his lover with infinite affection, and from time to time he rushed over to touch his wife's face, and was pulled by everyone deadly.
In the projection, the photos of Yang Liu's life were repeatedly played, and what a man with deep affection and righteousness, everyone present was sad and wept.
This scene, after being reported by the media, attracted great attention at the time and touched many people.
And this "infatuated man" Xu Shinan, and his wife Yang Liu's love story, also began to be well known to many people.
At that time, Xu Shinan and Yang Liu were classmates at the same university, but the two people met through the Internet. Xu Shinan, who just graduated from college, because he could not find a suitable job, was very addicted to the Internet, soaking in the Internet all night and night, feeling that the road ahead was confused.
Just then, the beautiful willow walked into his world.
Willow was already at work at the time, and had a kind, cheerful, and optimistic personality. She did not dislike Xu Shinan's decadence, but kept cheering him up. It is precisely because of Yang Liudi's encouragement and companionship that Xu Shinan gradually stepped out of the illusion of the Internet and began to feel that there was hope in life.
Two people from single-parent families quickly came together. Immediately after that, I began to face the pressure from life.
Xu Shinan's family is generally poor, at the beginning of the work of sales, opened a credit card to people, after having a certain amount of savings, the two people partnered to open a supermarket near the school, and later, under the recommendation of Yang Liu's relatives, started an aquaculture business.
Because the economic conditions were not good at the beginning, two people could only rent a rental house with no heating in the winter, no air conditioning in the summer, and usually no hot water.
At that time, Xu Shinan was running business outside, Yang Liu was watching the store at home, ordinary and busy days, they kept each other, supported each other, and lived a plain and happy life.
In 2014, after 6 years together, they registered for marriage.
Just when the couple was looking forward to the future, in November of that year, unfortunate accidents came, and 28-year-old Yang Liu was diagnosed with breast cancer.
After that, it was 5 years of Willow's unremitting struggle with the disease.
After the operation, Yang Liu's condition was temporarily controlled, the two people returned to the previous days, and the business became more and more smooth, in 2017, they bought a house in Dalian and began to prepare for the wedding.
Who would have thought, but the accident came again. In July 2018, Willow's cancer recurred. The original plan to hold a wedding was also delayed.
Later, Yang Liu said on Weibo:
"I especially wanted to take a wedding photo while I still had my hair, but now it's the worst look in my life. After many years of long hair and waist, just so that I can wear a beautiful wedding dress and be a beautiful bride.
But I cut my hair short after I got sick, and even after another chemotherapy, I would have no hair, and I suddenly felt that if I didn't shoot now, I might have to wait a long time, and the wedding was shelved, and all I felt now was the pain of chemotherapy. ”
How she wished she could be a beautiful bride again!
Even with cancer, Willow always acted so optimistic, brave, and strong.
8 chemotherapy sessions, 32 radiotherapy sessions, one-year targeted therapy. No matter how much pain in her body, this strong girl has hardly cried in the more than 5 years of fighting the disease.
The pain was unbearable, and she was also hiding in the room alone, not letting anyone see it.
"Wake up in pain. Can't sleep. How many people are like me? Grit your teeth and get through! ”
Even if your hair falls off a lot and you shave your head, you always make yourself beautiful and always look so energetic.
Even if he is in poor health, he still feels sorry for the captive polar bear in the aquarium; pick up the kitten that was crushed by the car on the way back and buried.
Sharing the experience of fighting the disease on Weibo, sending their own selfies, sending their own small feelings, the sunny and strong appearance, let many patients see hope.
Even CCTV programs have come to her, wanting Yang Liu to share her experience in fighting cancer. But Willow didn't want to be on the show because her hair fell out, so she politely declined.
However, this girl who brought infinite light to people was finally unable to resist the disease and left the world she loved so much forever.
"Don't cry when I'm gone." She once said.
Xu Shinan shed tears several times at the wedding.
He wrote on Weibo:
"A wedding, I love you; a funeral, I miss you; I didn't cry, to be strong, I cried, I didn't want you. From then on, I and you, yin and yang, separated from each other, never to see each other again. “
What a touching love story! Obsessed with men, gentle women, how many netizens were touched by Xu Shinan's deep affection, and they were sad that this pair of confidants could not stay together.
However, I never expected that behind the infatuation of the lover, the reality would hit the face like this.
It turned out that this wedding that touched countless people was just a prop used by Xu Shinan to create a human setting.
Just after Yang Liu's death, Xu Shinan opened an account on the Internet, uploading Yang Liu's videos and photos every day, with the caption "Love has no end, to death", and each work must @ dead wife, and said "This life will not be married again, I hope that my parents, relatives and friends will understand and support."
The purpose of this is not only to produce his own sea, but also to find a girlfriend.
Willow's mother was sad to see these pictures inadvertently, and she didn't want her daughter to be disturbed for so long. Every picture of her, every video, is a sprinkling of salt on a wound for her.
Therefore, she communicated with Xu Shinan and hoped that her son-in-law would not send photos and videos of her daughter again.
But Xu Shinan said to Mother Yang:
Our love stories have spread all over the world, and some people have sung songs and praised us, and we have to make our stories into movies.
I sleep at home now and make millions a day, and I don't care about money.
Yang's mother resolutely opposed, and she understood at this time why Xu Shinan was completely unaware of Xu Shinan's wedding at the funeral home. Now I found out that he invited so many reporters and spent so much energy, but in fact he just wanted to put on a show.
And his purpose is nothing more than self-marketing, to create people, so as to manage his sea intentions. Such a mental mechanism coincides with Lin Shengbin.
She also understood why, for more than a year, she had begged her son-in-law bitterly, wanting to bury her daughter, but her son-in-law refused. Willow's ashes had been stored in the funeral home, and she hadn't even had a chance to see her daughter's ashes.
The two people failed to communicate, and Yang's mother helplessly found a lawyer to sue Xu Shinan in court, but Xu Shinan not only refused to appear in court, but even said that as long as the law allows, I will continue to send.
After Yang's mother hammered Xu Shinan, more strange behaviors about Xu Shinan on the Internet were exposed one after another:
Less than 100 days after Willow's death, he began frantically pursuing a girl named Beanie. Doudou's family is well-off, simple and kind, and he is distressed by his deep affection for his deceased wife, not only offers to pay for Yang Liu's burial, can help take care of Yang's mother, but also helps him buy a car to facilitate his business.
As a result, Xu Shinan said that Yang's mother was not worth helping, refused, turned around and showed off his car in the circle of friends, but lied that it was given to him by "a kind big brother".
When Doudou learned of this, he immediately returned to the car and broke up with him.
He also pursued more than one girl during this time. Screenshots of WeChat chat history are disgusting as swallowing flies.
What is even more excessive is that Xu Shinan's infatuation and affection for Yang Liu are all pretended. In reality, he had a different face for Willow.
When Willow fell ill, the two people were basically separated for a long time. Xu Shinan did not take care of Yang Liu, all the examinations, chemotherapy were Yang Liu herself to go to the hospital, and even said that Yang Liu deserved to be sick, who let her lose her face all day long.
Yang Liu once complained that her legs were not good, and her girlfriend still had a caretaker when she was there, and she could help her buy something, while Xu Shinan was here, she was more tired, and she had to cook for her, she said that she really didn't want to live with him.
No wonder, the later Yang Liu once said on Weibo:
Men are like a wolf, looking for protection for you, looking for the wrong one to bite you. Who would fall in love with dogs if they had been protected by wolves.
And Xu Shinan, who has always insisted that he will not delete the videos and photos of his deceased wife, also immediately shelves everything after seeing the same brother Lin Shengbin overturn the car.
Since then, there has been no Lin Shengbin and Xu Shinan in the jianghu.
After the disturbances, they returned to their original state with a body of infamy. I just don't know, when they dream back in the middle of the night, will they dream of Zhu Xiaozhen and Yang Liu, who gave them the most sincere feelings and companionship when they were down?
From Lin Shengbin to Xu Shinan, no one asked them to guard their wives like jade, lonely and old, and people were disgusted that they stood day and night to remember the old people's affectionate personalities, but on the other hand, the new people were in their arms, and they sang night and night.
True love is silent, there is no energy to show love every day; true affection is in the heart, because there are no words to describe, and no mood to express.
However, no matter how flashy the appearance will always be broken, false love will one day be exposed, and the overturning car is only a matter of time sooner or later.
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