If a person is not confident, how big can the difference be?
Recently, patricia, a blogger on Tiktok, compared girls' lack of confidence vs. self-confidence.
It turns out that with only one posture, you can change from a "rookie in the workplace" with restrained hands and feet to a confident queen of control?
With more than 1 million netizens watching, Patricia also shared many examples.
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For girls who are not confident, bowing their heads, shrugging their shoulders, and hunching their backs have basically become habits, and they never thought that it would pull their crotches, right?
When you open the pattern, let the arms and legs swing naturally;
Don't be a low-headed person, look straight ahead when walking, let the chin parallel to the ground, and instantly hold the confident temperament.
When many people sit, they are used to curling their legs in a chair, and Xiao IN did not think that there was anything wrong with this before.
In fact, this not only looks very intimidating, but also shows that the legs are short.
Try to stretch your feet out, confident and elegant, but also create a sense of déjà vu with long legs.
In the face of socializing, unconfident girls are super nervous.
He will always involuntarily clench his hands, put his arms together or fold his hands, and be defensive about his surroundings.
Even if you have something in your hand, you usually hold it very tightly.
I originally wanted to make a good impression, but if I was not careful, I became a shrank.
Maybe try slipping your hand in your pocket and relaxing and chatting.
Without shrinking hands and feet, the whole person has become glowing, is there?
Don't let your arms clamp tightly around your body, it's slightly stretched, but it actually looks much more comfortable.
Whenever you go to a strange place, do you also use small movements to pluck your hair and pretend to look down at your phone to cover up your uneasiness?
People who are not confident, even the eyes looking for a seat, do not consciously become cautious...
Stop for a moment as you enter the door, look around generously to find nice people, and then slowly walk toward your seat.
Does it look like there is more aura?
People who are not confident are really afraid of public trouble!! I was afraid to see that this picture was already substituted while looking at it...
After the trouble, the cramped and uneasy little expression was revealed, and he did not forget to glance at the reactions of the people around him, and every moment that followed was like a year.
In fact, at this time, brave self-ridicule two sentences or a smile, it will pass.
As long as you are not embarrassed, it is someone else who is embarrassed.
Are you, the school waste meeting?
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We all know that self-confidence is important to a person.
Posture and small movements can only make people look confident in an instant, but what can be done to make people confident from the heart?
For blogger Ayn, the secret to becoming confident is:
Live boldly, your life doesn't have that many viewers.
Most people are not confident because they care too much about the eyes and ideas of others.
But everyone is busy, and really no one spends a lot of time caring about what you did today and what you wore.
Although Ayn has more than a million fans across the network, she still does not have any idol baggage.
Can boldly appear on camera and talk about the video:
"I'm not that important [to others]! That gave me confidence. ”
Ignoring the eyes of others appropriately, and then learning to recognize yourself, it may not be so difficult to become confident.
Fans of more than 10 million "funny internet celebrities" spicy Yoko, small eyes, fat body, the audience once did not pay.
There is no shortage of beautiful women in the show business circle, and the appearance of Yoko Spicy can also be said to be inconsistent with the mainstream aesthetic.
She herself knows very well that she will add the word "spicy eye" as her stage name in front of the nickname "Yoko", and ridicule herself for looking "hot eyes".
Yoko Hotaru has aspired to be an actress since she was a child, even if others do not look up to her.
In high school, she bravely wrote down her wishes:
"There are so many beautiful actors in the entertainment industry, I want to find a woman with characteristics, confidence, and funny, I am the only one."
I'm not beautiful, but, this one alone, is out of print. ”
She cut through the road of prejudice, doing comedians, acting, filming magazine photos, and living the way she expected herself to be.
Even if someone on the road kept denigrating her appearance, she was not defeated.
When you believe from the bottom of your heart that appearance is not the only criterion for judging yourself, the interesting soul inside can be discovered by everyone.
From this point of view, Spicy Yoko can be called an example of the ceiling of ordinary girls' confident counterattack.
In her interview, she encouraged those who were not confident: "You have to believe in yourself before you can work hard."
I hope that everyone will be more confident, when you are confident and believe in your beauty, your appearance will also improve. ”
Confidence is not innate, nor does it mean that beautiful and outstanding people can have it.
This temperament can be obtained by training the day after tomorrow.
Girls who feel that becoming confident is a difficult task, may wish to refer to the small tips given by the blogger Patricia at the beginning of the article.
In daily life, first change your look and body movements little by little, and cultivate a sense of self-confidence.
Of course, it's more important to change your own thinking: learn not to care about what others think, and approve of yourself.
People with low self-esteem always bury themselves, and you are a unique being in this world.
When you have self-confidence, you will find that people who are confident are really beautiful!
Image credit / tiktok: patricia.cnr;ins: aynbernos
Written, Edited / Eon
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