Inside the hospital room, a cute girl with a double ponytail was dragging the futon of a middle-aged man on the hospital bed and muttering in her mouth, "Daddy, Daddy, don't send me out." I will be obedient, can you not give me to someone else's house. ”
The girl cried and looked at the big boy, who was her brother. "Brother, brother, can you help me and talk to daddy?" The boy didn't speak, just wiped his tears helplessly.
The man on the hospital bed snapped, "You go out!" You're only going to delay my illness here. ”
The girl looked at her father in front of her, and the tears grew larger and denser, rolling down her cheeks one by one.
Why drive away the biological daughter
The story begins more than half a year ago, the man on the hospital bed is called Xu Xianzhong, who initially came to the hospital for examination because of physical discomfort. But it got a frightening result - bone cancer. Although the man still had a son and a daughter under his knees, God did not have the slightest pity for him, not only bone cancer, but also advanced cancer.
At the beginning of the disease, Xu Xianzhong only felt intermittent pain, and within a few days, this pain made Xu Xianzhong no longer able to sleep completely, and the intermittent pain also turned into persistent pain. When Xu Xianzhong really couldn't stand this kind of pain, he remembered to go to the hospital to check his body. By the time the results of the hospital examination came out, the tumor had grown out of the body, expanded outside, and the bones had been deformed.
During this period, Xu Xianzhong also thought a lot. In the beginning, he was worried about his body, very afraid of death. Every night, he would silently cry, looking at the desolate scenery outside the ward, and his heart was full of misery. Slowly, he accepted the established fact that he was about to leave the world. I began to worry about my own children. Under his knees, there were two children in total, a man and a woman.
The boy is Xu Zheng, 19 years old, working outside the home. Because of his father's illness, he returned to his hometown and served his father. The girl's name is Wenwen, 9 years old this year, excellent academic performance, well-behaved and sensible. That's what we saw at the beginning, the little girl who was crying.
When Xu Xianzhong thought of this child, his heart was like frying in a frying pan. He understood that after his own death, the child was likely to lack care, and it would be a problem to go to school and even eat. The son has just reached adulthood, and it is difficult to shoulder the responsibility of taking care of his sister, not to mention that the daughter has excellent grades and must be well cultivated.
After many internal struggles, Xu Xianzhong made a difficult decision to "give Wen Wen away".
This is where the opening scene appears, where Wenwen is dragged in front of the hospital bed and refuses to leave.
However, the child is still reluctant to leave his father for half a step, and it is difficult to suddenly go to a new family. In desperation, Xu Xianzhong could only ask his cousin Chen Ying and ask her to help him take care of Wenwen first.
In the days when Wen Wen went to his cousin's house, Xu Xianzhong did not dwell on his illness all day, and his father's natural responsibility made him actively contact all kinds of caring people even if he was in a hospital bed. Kung Fu paid off, and soon, Xu Xianzhong found a couple with good conditions and very willing to adopt Wenwen.
On the other hand, WenWen misses his father very much at his cousin's house.
On this day, it is Children's Day. Wen Wen, like other children, is also very much looking forward to hanging out with his father. She excitedly asked her aunt for a mobile phone and wanted her father to go out with her. Wen Wen stretched out his small hand, and even began to tell his aunt that he loved to eat braised pork made by his father, and Wen Wen also licked his lips, saying that he must eat braised meat made by his father today.
Poor Wenwen, what she didn't know yet was that she was about to lose her beloved father. She was not yet aware of the severity of her father's condition. The aunt looked at the innocent Wenwen in front of her, and even naively wanted her brother to go out with her. The aunt gritted her teeth and decided to tell Wenwen about Xu Xianzhong's condition.
Wen Wen listened to his aunt's description, knew the seriousness of his father's condition, and knew that he was likely to lose his father. Then they began to cry, and the aunt looked at Wenwen, and the two of them hugged and cried.
You are no longer my daughter!
To say, this girl is really well-behaved and sensible. After learning about her father's illness, Wenwen quickly picked up her little emotions like a little adult, she offered to visit her father in the hospital, and with the help of her aunt, the nine-year-old child made the first meal of her life. Led by his aunt, he came to the ward.
It was a June day and the weather was very hot. Wen Wen stood sweating profusely in front of his father's bed, and the poor child looked so small in front of the hospital bed. Xu Xianzhong looked at the child's childish face, took the heavy lunch box in the child's hand, and ate it. In the summer when the willows were flying, Xu Xianzhong's eyes were sour and he was about to shed tears.
The child watched his father tremble and send food into his mouth, picked up the folding page on the side, and helped his father fan the wind. While fanning the wind, Wenwen also introduced himself to his father, "Dad, we recently learned a new English song "Little Star". I'll sing it to you. Wen Wen looked at his father expectantly. The father ate the meal made by the child, like a carp in the throat without speaking. WenWen sang to himself. All this made Xu Xianzhong feel painful.
However, Xu Xianzhong also understood that the more this happened, the more he wanted WenWen to have a good home. Therefore, Xu Xianzhong cooled his face, pointed to his aunt who was standing next to him, and said, "You still don't take her away?" What is she doing here? It didn't do me any good for my condition. The aunt looked at Wenwen and had to reach out and pull her.
Wen Wen stood aside, tears coming out of his eyes.
However, the sensible Wenwen knew that if he did not leave his father would definitely be unhappy, he did not struggle much and followed his aunt away. Xu Xianzhong looked at Wen Wen's distant back and could no longer suppress the sadness in his heart. Bury your head in the bed and cry loudly. It was as if the whole world was left with only his cries.
Slowly, I don't know how long later, Xu Xianzhong poked his head out of the bed. In the blur of tears, he saw that the child was standing in front of him in a daze. Xu Xianzhong gritted his teeth and shouted, "Why are you still standing here?" You're not my daughter anymore! Don't bother me anymore! Wen Wen listened to his father's words, trembling, unable to speak, just crying.
The brother on the side, seeing his father and sister like this, couldn't bear it in his heart. He couldn't help it, "Dad, don't send your sister away." I can feed her. I won't get married after the big deal, I'll take good care of my sister! The younger sister looked gratefully at her brother.
Who knows, after Xu Xianzhong heard his son's words, he was even more excited, "You should feed yourself first!" You are a child yourself, how to support her? Xu Zheng was choked by his father's words, he knew that his father had made up his mind this time, and he also understood that only by sending his sister Wenwen out could he guarantee her an excellent future.
Nine-year-old Wen Wen looked at his father who was so desperate. I don't know if I understand my father's good intentions.
Intervention of the mother
Wen Wen was pulled aside by his aunt and walked outside, and the poor child had tears on his face, and did not forget to promise his father that he would definitely be admitted to college.
Looking at such a sensible niece, the aunt on the side could not help but shed tears.
However, just when Xu Xianzhong, who was seriously ill, thought that everything would go on smoothly, another problem that could not be ignored occurred - Wenwen's adoption procedures must obtain the consent of his still alive mother, Liu Rongfang, otherwise the adoption procedures could not be handled. In view of this, Xu Xianzhong had to contact Wenwen's biological mother, Liu Rongfang.
However, Xu Xianzhong was very concerned about Liu Rongfang's disregard for Wenwen for so many years. He did not want Liu Rongfang to disturb the lives of the father and daughter. Therefore, he asked his cousin Chen Ying to see if there was any other way to continue the adoption procedures, but it was unsuccessful.
In desperation, Xu Xianzhong dialed his ex-wife's phone.
On the other end of the phone, Liu Rongfang was working in Fujian. After divorcing Xu Xianzhong, she re-established a new family, but her life after marriage was not rich, so she had to leave her hometown to work. Because of the embarrassment of life and some objective reasons, Liu Rongfang has not seen her daughter for six years.
Xu Xianzhong quickly made clear his intentions, and Liu Rongfang on the other end of the phone was slightly excited, while agreeing to Xu Xianzhong's request, he asked about the latest situation and said that he would return soon. Xu Xianzhong heard her excited voice on the phone, and she didn't know whether it was a blessing or a curse, but she repeatedly warned her not to think about taking Wen Wen with her, because she really couldn't raise Wen Wen well with her current economic conditions. Liu Rongfang was only perfunctory.
Within a week, Liu Rongfang appeared in front of Wen Wen's eyes.
Wen Wen looked at the strange woman in front of him, very wooden, and even had some fear. Because this woman did seem a little too excited. Liu Rongfang trembled her hands and tried to touch Wen Wen's face, and Wen Wen slipped into her aunt's arms in a flash and asked her who she was.
While touching Wenwen's head, the aunt told Wenwen, "This is your mother, Wenwen." ”
Wen Wen's tears flowed out as soon as he brushed them, and he suddenly became excited, "I don't want my mother, I want my father and brother, I don't want my mother." ”
Seeing that the child was so resistant to himself, Liu Rongfang was eager to grasp his death.
However, she is also particularly aware of Wenwen's actions. So, she took out from her bag the snacks that WenWen liked to eat, hoping to further close the relationship with Wenwen. However, how can the mother-daughter relationship that has not been renewed for six years be simply skipped because of this snack? Wenwen once again refused his mother's overtures.
At this moment, Liu Rongfang was completely unable to hold back. Not being able to get close to her own daughter really shatters a mother's heart. In fact, according to Liu Rongfang's own words, it is not that he does not care about Wenwen, but...
Reasons for divorce
Liu Rongfang publicly said the real reason why he and Xu Xianzhong divorced in the first place. It turned out that Wen Wen's grandmother, Xu Xianzhong's biological mother, died tragically because of a car accident. The perpetrators gave Xu Xianzhong a large amount of compensation, because Xu Xianzhong gradually looked down on his wife and drove her out of the Xu family's gate.
Who knows, Wen Wen heard this, just calmed down the mood, suddenly excited again, she cried and pointed at Liu Rongfang and said, "You nonsense, the father I see is the best father, I don't allow you to say this about my father." The more the child spoke, the more excited he became, the tears covered his throat, and his words could not be spoken clearly.
Liu Rongfang knew that she could not stimulate this child like this anymore, so she had to give up. He turned to quietly discuss with her husband behind him about raising Wenwen. Who knows, this man who has no blood relationship with Wenwen actually said that he is willing to raise Wenwen with Liu Rongfang, and although his conditions are not good, he will still do his best to raise Wenwen.
This made Liu Rongfang very pleased.
With her husband's support, Liu Rongfang comforted Wenwen and said, "Wenwen, you listen to your mother and you, your father is going to work in a far place, and he can't take you with him." So, do you want to talk to your mother..." Before the words were finished, Wenwen once again interrupted Liu Rongfang's words, "I'd rather talk to others than follow you!" ”
Liu Rongfang broke down again, she couldn't understand why her daughter had such a big prejudice against herself. Even if he has not fulfilled his mother's responsibilities for so many years, he will not let his children hate himself so much.
Liu Rongfang's sister on the side saw that WenWen was wrong, so she squatted down and gently comforted Wenwen, and slowly asked Wenwen why she hated her mother so much.
Wen Wen, under the comfort of his sister-in-law, slowly told the truth, "I heard people say that you are here for money. Wen Wen said as he shed tears. The aunt looked at the child who had just turned nine years old in front of her, and her heart was not a taste, and she began to cry.
The aunt told Wenwen that they did not come to adopt Wenwen for money, the reason why they did this was all for Wenwen and for family affection, which had nothing to do with money. Liu Rongfang's mother, that is, Wenwen's grandmother, couldn't help it at this moment, and kept accusing Xu Xianzhong's family of deliberately going to gap between Wenwen and Liu Rongfang in order not to let their daughter adopt Wenwen.
Aunt Wenwen on the side said that she had not taught Wenwen in this way, and it was completely because the child had not seen his mother for such a long time.
The little aunt cried and told Wen Wen that there were still small friends who used to play with Wen Wen in their hometown, hoping that Wen Wen could go there with them to live, and promised Wen Wen that they could adopt Wen Wen without money, as long as Wen Wen.
What is right and what is wrong
The problem is beyond judgment. But what we can see is heavy fatherly love, delicate maternal love, and a constant trickle of affection.
It is understood that later Wenwen's mother did not go out to work, but waited for Wenwen's arrival at home, she told Wenwen that she would not go out to work for nearly half a year, and waited for Wenwen at home.
However, wenwen's father, Xu Xianzhong, firmly disagreed with Liu Rongfang's raising of Wenwen, because he believed that his ex-wife did not have the financial ability to give Wenwen better living and educational conditions, which would only delay Wenwen.
The two remain deadlocked. Finally, I also hope that Wenwen can have a good home and a good future.