hi! I am Yu Zhile, a woman who wants to walk in the world.
Recently, just after the New Year's visit to relatives, back home, suddenly found that he did not want to say anything, whether good or bad. The desire to share declines and I feel overwhelmed and overwhelmed.
I don't know if you guys in front of the screen feel this way.
Every day is busy but seems to have achieved nothing, taking out my mobile phone, browsing a lot of information, trying to say something, and there seems to be nothing to say.
Zhang Haochen once said: Don't casually dig out your heart and lungs, keep a part of the mystery, you are the only thing you can save yourself in a difficult situation.
As we get older, we gradually learn to be silent, and perhaps our silence has nowhere to tell, but in the end we chose silence.
There are three reasons: unwilling, unwilling, not daring.
Unwilling to express their own ideas and listen to the denials of others;
I don't want to tell others about my suffering anymore, to listen to the schadenfreude of others;
I dare not communicate my goals with others anymore, to face the pointing of others.
There is a saying that "once a person understands it, he becomes very silent, not because he has no ability to get along with people, but because he has no interest in playing tricks with people." ”
Nevertheless, where there are people is the jianghu, there will still be the whispers of others.
I've heard such a story.
Xiao Zhang, who is in his forties, wants to write a book, but he is laughed at by the whole village.
The reason is that he chose to drop out of school before graduating from primary school.
And his friend Xiao Wang, after knowing his thoughts, even mentioned his goal every time.
Gradually more people knew, and people began to talk about him when they got together.
For Xiao Zhang's goal, some people are laughing at his lack of self-control, and his cultural level is so low that he wants to learn others to write a book;
Some people also say that he is not doing his job, and at the age of starting a family, he does not think about how to make money to support his family, but thinks about some unrealistic things.
There were more people discussing, and some bold people ran to Xiao Zhang's front and said.
Xiao Zhang was overwhelmed by them, and faced their pointing everywhere he went.
At first, he would explain to others and express his thoughts, but later, when more people said it, he gradually learned to shut up.
Headphones became his refuge, music became his life-saving pill, and on those days when he was not understood, he separated the noisy sounds from himself.
Deal equally with the ideal, and keep your distance from the hustle and bustle.
In the end, he achieved his goal, and as soon as the book was published, there was a tendency to explode.
As the saying goes: do not erupt in silence, perish in silence.
Stick to our choices, and the only thing we can do is be good at ourselves.
Accept the baptism of life in silence and understand the meaning of persistence in your heart.
Even if there is a sudden loneliness occasionally, in the bustling crowd of people do not know where to go, but in this world, it is snow for each person, and each person has its own obscurity and purity.
Day after day, when it seems to be untouchable, there will always be a sudden day that makes people feel the meaning of persistence.
Long Yingtai said: Time is a gentle hand hidden in the darkness, and between your trance and trance, things move from star to star.
Thumbs up! concern! May you and I live up to expectations in the days to come, and meet the warmth and expectations of life.