The old watch came to the city from his hometown in the countryside to see my father. When I asked, I learned that he went to the twenty-fourth of the winter month, from Xi'an, which was besieged for more than a month, hurried back to his hometown in the countryside, and then he was busy for a day or two, buying half of the New Year goods, after fifteen, it was time to leave...
I haven't seen the old watch for more than half a year, and the old watch is a bit fat. Although he is 61 years old, he still works in Xi'an. Honest farmers, who have been digging in the yellow soil for most of their lives, suddenly found that it was impossible to plant crops one day, so they walked with their children and went to the provincial city to work.
When I first arrived, I found that the ground of the city was sprinkled with "rice grains and crushed gold" everywhere, it was a pity not to pick it up, why not bend down and pick it up all the way? In the world, no matter how cunning or honest people are, they like to make friends with honest people. Honest people seek survival in the air of dishonesty, and gradually learn the way of survival: with the most well-behaved loyalty, they obtain their own satisfactory harvest.
He went to large construction sites, and the skills of handymen were not strong, and what he needed was to be down-to-earth. In fact, it is very simple, that is, to give up efforts, not to play adultery, not to be lazy, not to steal petty. Saying that in the winter month, he just found a very good way to live, and suddenly the new crown epidemic broke out, he was isolated at home for a month, and the silver that he was about to get in his hand flew like this.
Get a few dishes and have two drinks with your old watch. Wine is the lead, three or two cups of belly, do not spit unhappy. Talking about his son's marital status, it was very troublesome. In fact, he did not have to worry much, the life of his son and daughter-in-law has already reached the "international standard", desperately earning money, spending a lot of money; at the end of the year, a reckoning, a lot of income, even did not save one or two bills, the money went there?
What made him even more angry was that once there was no money to spend, the rice noodle couple mourned and smashed the dishes and bowls at every turn. I want to divorce at every turn, and I can't say that the baby is still young, not to mention that there is still my elderly uncle at home, so he can't worry about it endlessly. It seems that every family has a difficult sutra to read, who knows whether it is the thick sutra that Xuanzang high monk retrieved from the Tianzhu Kingdom, or the Prajnaparamita Heart Sutra?
While persuading the old watch, I touched the cup and stopped when he saw that he was almost drunk. The emotional world of men is actually very narrow, and there is no "work surface": the living people do not pour out in front of them, and the outsiders do not say bad, more like Lu You's "Phoenix" cloud "cover up tears and pretend to be happy". Only to tell your lazy relatives and friends, release the depression that has been suppressed for a long time in your chest...
Send away the old watch after lunch. It was almost dinner again, and my friend Y also returned from Xi'an, made two small dishes, and drank again. He still had something to say, the wine was not satisfactory, and it could not release the pressure and troubles. Suo Xing drank first, with the imitation Ming Chenghua color cockfighting cup, touched up, a cup of about seven or eight dollars, touched a few cups, he said he couldn't drink, he stopped.
He went around the topic of not going well at work and holding back the New Year, and nagged for most of the day. "A thousand glasses of wine is less than a thousand cups for confidants", I have seen men drink to 80%, often crying bitterly, endlessly "talking about the history of revolutionaries"; he did not, nor was li Bai's bold words of "hiding tears and sorrow for eternity".
His eyes were red. Repeatedly say things that men and women think differently. One Spring Festival, the first day of the Lunar New Year, I actually quarreled with my wife because of her relatives and A\B affection, and whether she should answer the "multiple choice question" in the end. Quarreling with his wife, absolutely can not argue a wrong right, the only thing left is the "cold war", he wanted to rush out of the siege at the beginning of the first year, and today he finally flew back to the free world...
I moved out of the words of the old watch at noon to comfort him. In fact, it is also a painting snake to add feet, people to the age of huajia, has long been not how to make him happy to engage in "science", what reason do not understand it, is a moment to think about it. Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, do not be horses and cattle for children and grandchildren, let alone rush to consider things for their children.
Some humorous slanderers once said that "men think with their brains, and women think with their wombs", which of course cannot be supported, after all, it is harmful to the image of the heroes of the country in half the sky. The best way is to laugh at "no increase, no decrease, no impurity". Health first, live in the moment, men are difficult, live every day, is the most important ah.