When people are old, don't take money too seriously, take money too seriously, and they will live very restrained and depressed.
Some old people, seven or eighty years old, are still "slaves" to money, thinking about their children, "serving" their children, and never thinking about themselves.
Is this good?
Of course it's good! But what did the old man get after living his whole life? It is "suffering when you are young, and still suffering when you are old."
When encountering children and grandchildren, they may usher in a few words of filial piety; if they are not filial piety, they may not necessarily appreciate it, but may use the elderly as a "cash machine", a "cash cow", and accelerate the "nibbling on the old".
Moreover, useful children and grandchildren do not need parents to save money, and those "useless" children and grandchildren, even if their parents save the most money for him, are in vain, and he will squander it.
There is a saying that goes well: "Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and they should not make horses and cattle for their children and grandchildren", and the elderly live well for themselves, which is the most important.
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How can the elderly live well?
That is to open your mind and think for yourself!
It is good to have a wife, you can live independently, do not rely on children, and rely on yourself. However, there are still some elderly people, because of the old age, have become "lonely people", personal life is very desolate, cold kang cold bed cold bed, sometimes sick, even a person who wants to bring tea and water is not.
What to do at this time? Do you save money for your children, or do you hire a babysitter to take care of yourself?
Most elderly people save money for their children and do not hire a nanny for themselves. Is it worth it?
Save the most money for their children, they can't become "super rich", they don't save money, they live the same life. And the widowed old man, with a nanny around, life is different.
Some people talk to relieve boredom, there are hot meals, and the home is no longer cold and cold, but full of laughter.
However, most elderly people would rather live alone and miserable than take money to take care of nannies. Retirement wages, pension money, "pinch" to death, reluctant to pay.
Is it useful for an old man to "pinch" this money to death? Neither can you "enrich" your children, nor can you make a fortune! Then why not spend that money and hire a babysitter for the rest of your life! The nanny is profitable, happy, and has lived a full and happy life, which also promotes economic circulation.
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Uncle Chen is a 72-year-old retired teacher who has made many contributions to the cause of education throughout his life. However, after Uncle Chen retired, Uncle Chen's wife died of illness, and Uncle Chen became a "lonely man".
Uncle Chen, who is "alone and widowed", lives with his children, but Uncle Chen's life is not as happy as people think.
Children look at "filial piety", in fact, Uncle Chen is very "desolate". However, Uncle Chen still thought about his children, handed over the salary card to his son for safekeeping, and kept helping his son work. Uncle Chen wants to help his son get rich!
Uncle Chen's wish is good!
But will things develop as beautifully as Uncle Chen imagined? Can it fit perfectly?
Not really!
Uncle Chen's daughter-in-law is respectful and polite to Uncle Chen on the surface, but in fact, she is a "smiling tiger", a set before and a set behind; for this reason, Uncle Chen does not know how many tears are shed behind him!
And Uncle Chen's son doesn't learn well! Not only did he spend Uncle Chen's retirement salary to the fullest, but he also spared money everywhere and owed a bunch of debts.
Uncle Chen wanted to do his best to help his children for the rest of his life, and as a result, no matter how hard Uncle Chen tried, it was in vain! If children do not follow the old man's thoughts, what is the law?
Uncle Chen was sick in a fit of rage!
Sick and unattended!
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Seeing that Uncle Chen had ended up like this in his later years, Uncle Chen's relatives and friends naturally couldn't look at it and persuaded Uncle Chen to take back his salary card and hire a nanny himself.
Uncle Chen was also disheartened at this time, lying on the hospital bed, the children did not come to take care of, and it was even more cold, so he hired a nurse.
With the caretaker, Uncle Chen's situation was different. Because the nursing union is conscientious and conscientious, sometimes it will accompany Uncle Chen to talk and relieve boredom.
At the nurse's place, Uncle Chen found the long-lost warmth of the world.
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After returning home from the hospital, Uncle Chen also figured it out. An old man, at this age, is to do his best to help his children, and will not change anything for his children! It's better to live yourself.
Therefore, after returning home, Uncle Chen took out his retirement salary and hired a nanny.
Since then, Uncle Chen has not only not been alone, but has been radiant and energetic.
With the care of the nanny, Uncle Chen's impression in people's hearts is no longer "lonely and bitter".
Of course, hiring a nanny is also good or bad, then it depends on each person's vision and fate. But in general, a "lonely" old man, or hire a babysitter as well! There is dignity and decency, and it will not be lonely.