Amorous is always ruthlessly hurt.
Feelings are really strange, knowing that it is a moth to put out the fire, but without hesitation. You have to fight with someone to the end.
Singer Kwong Mei Yun sang: "This easily injured woman, obsessed, etc., when will ..."
Admittedly, a relationship is over, and the people who are more hurt are mostly women. It is not that she does not understand rejection, but she is soft-hearted again and again, letting go of others, but hurting herself.
And these women who would rather hurt themselves, have the following habits, see if you have any? If there is one, it will be changed, and if there is none, it will be encouraged.
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He said "I don't care" on the lips, but I kept thinking about it in my heart.
Cartoonist Zhu Deyong once said: "Love is like a basin of bath water, the water will become cool over time, even if you don't care about the water temperature, after a long time, the skin will become wrinkled." ”
A person's memory, really wonderful. When you force yourself not to think again and again, some pictures will be particularly clear, as if everything in the past has been filtered through your mind, and what remains is "eternity".
In "The Ideal Life of Love", there is such a plot: First, Ding Huiqiao and Vincent fell in love and then broke up. In order to make himself forget Vincent quickly, Ding Huiqiao worked hard to keep himself busy enough to touch the ground.
Even so, when they meet again, Ding Huiqiao still falls into the gentle trap designed by Vinson and is hurt again.
Second, Dai Xixi could not let go of her ex-boyfriend Liu Ke, and after learning that Liu Ke's life was in trouble, he gave him the million that her mother gave her. Usually, Dai Xixi also helped him buy rice cookers, etc., and ignored the promotion of friends.
It wasn't until Liu Ke and his new girlfriend appeared together that Dai Xixi was completely dead hearted.
Silly women have one of the worst habits – remembering too well and being good to remember, bad not remembering.
Well, the scar forgets the pain, such a habit, need to be completely corrected, otherwise your scar will be opened again, soaked in the cold "water", very painful.
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Saying that I didn't wait, I was looking forward to the reunion in my heart.
Tu Lei, the love mentor, said: "Women, what should be given to you will be given to you, and what has not been given to you is waiting." Waiting is a science. ”
Is it not, in the woman's mind, often come up with such a picture: in a certain windy and sunny evening or morning, as soon as you go out, you will see a familiar back. The two men looked at each other and smiled and said, "Turns out you're here too."
The woman did not know that bitter tears were the most cruel farewells, even if they were reunited, they were also enemies; leaving with a smile was a gentle knife, cutting off the past feelings in two. After that, the end of the world, tomorrow will be reunited, but it is always the end of the world.
The most ruthless distance in the world is that two people rub shoulders, but there is nothing to say.
Wait, there must be value, otherwise it is white, stupid, etc. The tail of youth is gone, the years have left wrinkles on the face, the hair has been dyed white, and it is really difficult to meet the person you like.
Countless times, dreaming of a person is useless. If you really love him, go to him, otherwise leave the expectations to the right person.
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On the surface, he is very strong, but on the inside, he is particularly lonely.
I like the saying: "Loneliness is the mud of the heart." ”
Being alone in a cell is not terrible, because one day he will go out and see the light of day.
In the mud, it is terrible, and if there is no one to rescue, it will never go out.
Women, however, like to draw the ground as a prison, fix themselves in a certain place, and then stay alone, do nothing, let the thoughts rush into their hearts, and the tears slowly slide from the cheeks to the corners of the mouth.
After crying, he told the people around him, "I'm fine, I hate him."
When loneliness, like a shadow, is around you at all times, you will find that you and loneliness have become the best partner, and there is no third person to integrate into.
You are very strong, but you refuse to be loved by anyone, that is, the care of relatives and friends, and it will not warm you.
Someone said, "After experiencing disappointment and despair, it is true loneliness." ”
A woman who has truly gotten rid of her hurt will be reborn in a desperate situation, and when she is vulnerable, she will cry, she will talk, and she will not pretend to be strong. The way she looks will be heart-wrenching; nor will she refuse to have mercy on the man who loves her.
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Knowing that it is deception, he chooses to "believe".
Women always think that loving someone is even a lie.
In fact, some lies are not credible, but he is justifying himself.
Let's say a man always comes home late and tells his family that he's busy, especially busy. Behind the scenes, he squeezed out time, fell in love with other women, and rented a house.
You know, many "sixth senses" are real and need to be followed along the line of thought and deeply traced. Of course, you just observe silently and don't disturb him.
Tu Lei said: "Women, never believe in men's promises, that thing is like the weather in February and August, there is no fixed number." ”
The sky in June, just clear, was covered with dark clouds in the blink of an eye, followed by heavy rain. Therefore, women should always prepare an umbrella and do not get wet with themselves.
It is useless to force yourself to believe something. That he, through your trust, makes you drizzle into the soup chicken again and again, doesn't he?
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Conclusion.
Zhang Ailing wrote in "Red Roses and White Roses": "A person, if he is not free, it is because he does not want to be free, a person, if he can't go away, it is because he does not want to go away, a person, too many excuses for you, that is because he does not want to care." ”
Really don't make excuses for "his unlove, your love". Break up a little more generously, be cruel, don't be merciful; love is a little harder, ask for a perfect result.
Women who are easily hurt always punish themselves with the mistakes of others.
No one cares how long you cry at night, and no one feels sorry for you through the lonely spring and autumn.
From now on, let's quit the habit of "too much affection".
Forget him from now on and love yourself.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.